Let me show you what PDP said in simple picture...

Grab a plate (Nigeria) and throw it on the floor over and over for years...

PDP: -OK, done.

-Did it break? As in, did the plate actually break because of the way you threw it on the floor severally?

PDP: -Yes. In fact, more than shattered.

-Now say sorry to it. Just say sorry after breaking it...

PDP: -OK, Sorry. That should be enough.

-Did it go back to how it was before, after you said SORRY?

PDP: -No. But the other person trying to MEND it is too slow now, let me handle you again because "I have experience and I've learnt from my past handling of the plate"....

-Do you now understand the apology?