1: EGO:-It certainly has a lot to do with their ego being bruised. The thought that another man was able to sleep with Someone they believed they had “ownership” of breaks them to pieces as most of them think the women incapable of sex without emotions, meaning the woman loves another. Remember men are like a lioness that can kill most animals for its cubs but will not allow another animal to even play with its cubs.

2: GUILT:- If a woman cheats, the man will never forgive not only the woman but himself no matter whose fault it is. He feels he has failed as a man to protect and keep his own.

3: THEY CAN’T FORGET:-When a man is making love with his wife, it is a sacred rituals the way she moan shows that his sacrifice has been accepted. So if she makes love with another man he will be thinking the temple is no more sacred and when he makes love to her and she moans, it will be disgusting cause it will be like that is the way she moaned for the other guy!

4: YOU HAVE LOST HER IF SHE CHEATS:- Female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the beginning of the end of the relationship. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic — they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally. In fact a man can sleep with a woman today and not remember her again but for a woman to have sex with you (in most cases) you must win her heart to win her body.

5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE:- I guess i gotta be blunt here. I know we call it marriage but I think women are being bought in a way. Don’t kill me yet, let’s analyze it. He buys engagement ring. Proposes to you, you accept then he decides to see your people. Your people accept him and give him a list containing heaven and earth. He agrees to pay, he pays for everything and when your parents feel they have collected enough, they hand you over to him. Then you automatically change your name (Change of ownership) which confirms that you are now his own. I have seen where women sponsored their marriage and the men don’t care when they cheat so I believe the day you stop asking for head-cutting bride price for us to marry then we won’t bother much, imagine paying all that money and she gives it to another man..lol

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1 and 3 on point.

only losers forgive women who cheat. 9 months down the line those same losers are welcoming another man's baby-with a smile on their stupid faces

lol,who cares! guys that cheat nko?

mine is that I can't forget but surely I will forgive you.

I think it pains a man more when his wife cheats, than a woman when her husband cheats.

only fools and cowards forgives women who cheat. cheat on me and and get dumped and abused.issa simple tin.

Preshy561:
lol,who cares!
guys that cheat nko?

who cares lol.When you marry cheat and you will understand that African culture favors men more

donstan18:
I think it pains a man more when his wife cheats, than a woman when her husband cheats.

yes,for some women. but I tell you,in years to come,it won't be the same again,going by how women now treat their cheating husby,lool.


I don't pray to marry one,but If it eventually happens,I will chop off his manhood.

vingeophysicist:
who cares lol.When you marry cheat and you will understand that African culture favors men more

lol,and you think I value any nonsense culture not to talk about marriage.

who marriage help.

To see better girls these days hard...


Cheating is not good no matter the gender involved.



I just hate it.

Preshy561:

yes,for some women. but I tell you,in years to come,it won't be the same again,going by how women now treat their cheating husby,lool.


I don't pray to marry one,but If it eventually happens,I will chop off his manhood.

Experience and some fact has it that most women who rant toughly on net about cheating men are those ones who can tolerate them the most

With this, how should I see you?

donstan18:


Experience and some fact has it that most women who rant toughly on net about cheating men are those ones who can tolerate them the most

With this, how should I see you?

nna,I hardly tolerate cheaters,infact I dumped my ex because of text msg,and I don't have any value for marriage,so what will make you think that I can tolerate stupid cheaters.

A man that forgives a woman who cheats is a weak man...and his weakness will kill him eventually

Preshy561:

nna,I hardly tolerate cheaters,infact I dumped my ex because of text msg, and I don't have any value for marriage ,so what will make you think that I can tolerate stupid cheaters.

@Embolden, we know you just lied by saying you don't value marriage. But do well not to let what you spill on media hit back at you in reality be guided.

You'll tolerate a cheater if you so much love him.

I know women

Preshy561:

lol, and you think I value any nonsense culture not to talk about marriage.

who marriage help.

i guess you are still young. lol

donstan18:



@Embolden, we know you just lied by saying you don't value marriage. But do well not to let what you spill on media hit back at you in reality be guided.

You'll tolerate a cheater if you so much love him.

I know women

tolerate kor,tolerate ni.I will chop off his dick.

I still don't get the essence of marriage till now.

such a waste of time and resources.

vingeophysicist:
i guess you are still young. lol

young kwa.

Preshy561:

tolerate kor,tolerate ni.I will chop off his dick.

I still don't get the essence of marriage till now.

such a waste of time and resources.

Lol, stop sounding like a child

You see marriage as a waste of time, ofwhich you don't need a man in your life?

donstan18:


Lol, stop sounding like a child

You see marriage as a waste of time, ofwhich you don't need a man in your life?

It's not worth the hype.

Preshy561:

It's not worth the hype.

Have u tried it before? Be guided

but someone posted this before

Most ladies and guys on nairaland looking and always talking down on marriage are HIV positive,they know there's no way there are going to get married so they will rather find a way to discorauge every other person to console themselves.