geesunge:
We can primarily attribute the reason why men don't want to get married to our economy. This is among the reasons why ladies also jump from one bed to another. I think, many jobless Nigerian ladies now depend solely on their boyfriends to meet their basics needs. A guy who's trying to balance financially now feels the demand for money will inevitably increase once the girlfriend becomes his wife. Therefore, the need to soft pedal before the lady pushes him to commit suicide eventually. The problem is, many ladies are just heartless. A guy can't satisfy them no matter what is done as a sacrifice. They have very big, ever increasing straws to suck their potential husbands dry. God have mercy!

thunderbabs:
We seem to have good knowledge of how marriage is like and we scared of falling or having similar experiences.

Mostly the bad parts..... Noticed our generation get tired of marriage early so we singles be like, what are we rushing in for....moments where u see ur partner on ur bedside and u wondering why u ever got married in d first place. Coupled with female problems associated with marriage....all mks marriage detestable.

N.B My opinion doesnt even leave the rich boiz out of it too

coolzeal:
Women marry men hoping they will secure financial gain and security. Men marry women hoping to continue their lineage. So each is inevitably disappointed.
Also remember that a successful marriage depends on three things:
(1) finding the right person,
(2) being the right person and
(3) Financial stability.

IamaNigerianGuy:
When you count the number of unhappy marriages ...
When you count the number of divorces...
When you witness the humiliation and spousal abuse both parties go through...
when you witness spousal infidelity...
People living in pain and dying in silence...
When you consider the unrealistic demands of women...
When you realize 'most hoes a'int faithful'....
When you come to know that sex is cheap and abundant in our time...
When you consider the bad economy.....

You will be afraid of marriage too OP

Why will I spend so much on a marriage and my wife will have an uncouth mouth. No one will be happy using his money to seal a Union with trouble now.