The realistic truth about ladies in relationship/marriage is esoteric but l will share prismatic insights as to how to know if she fits the role of a wife, a companion and a mother.


There are different types of women in the
world... just as there are different types of
people. Types, of course, being a generalized
version of an individual -- no one ever fits their
parameters entirely.
Types are oversimplified and people are very
complex. Nevertheless, it’s generalizations that
allow us to understand things and concepts that
we otherwise wouldn’t be capable of
understanding.

Take, for example, finding your ideal woman --
your ideal partner in life. We are all looking for
a certain type -- our type. Everyone has a
type. Some like them taller, others shorter.
Some like simple women, others like accomplished
and driven women. As far as types go, people
get very creative -- and often even weird. But
our type is our type, and we want what we want.
What I’m going to tell you is that you can have
your “type” as long as it incorporates what I
believe to be the only "type" of any value.
Over the past decade or so, I’ve done my fair
share of "dating." I’ve met with a good amount
of women; I've had conversations with a good
amount of women. I've taken them for dinners
and drinks, and trips, etc.
Even after flying to different countries for
women -- if I find something that intrigues me,
I’m very persistent -- I realized that women
can, when looking as generally as possible, be
placed into two categories. The first, women
who suck the drive for life -- and everything
else of any value -- right out of you.
And, more importantly, the second, women
who not only make you want a better life, but
make you believe that a better life is actually
possible.
Every single woman in the world falls into one of
these two categories -- no exceptions. However,
a woman who falls into a certain category for
one individual can fall into the other for
someone else -- our types are personal after
all.
Although there may not be a woman who would
fall into the better of the categories for every
man in the world, there certainly are women who
always fall into the blood-sucking category. Just
some food for thought.

You’re going to come across many different
women in your life and many of them are going
to be horrible human beings. It’s sad, but there
are many horrible people in this world -- men
and women alike.

Many of them will be very nice and interesting,
of course. And if you’re lucky, a good amount of
them will be amazing. Yet, meeting more than
one who will make you both strive for that ideal
life and make you believe it to be possible is --
I wish it were otherwise -- highly unlikely.
It should come as no surprise that finding
someone who fits your life so perfectly, so
perfectly that you start to believe and hunger
for that which you used to think impossible, is
usually only a once in a lifetime occurrence.
Sure, you may get lucky and find two such
women within a single lifetime, but considering
that finding one is already statistically against
your favor, I very much doubt you’ll come across
a second.

This type of woman is incredibly hard to come by
because she is not only a woman you fall in love
with and love for the right reasons, she also has
to be a woman worthy of being loved -- and the
only type of woman worthy of being loved by a
man is the type of woman that makes that man
want to be the best possible man he could ever
be.
She inspires him to be better, to work both
harder and smarter, to be fair, kind and
passionate. She inspires him to be the best
possible human being he could ever be because he
believes that she deserves nothing less.
Such a relationship is the perfect relationship as
it creates a self-perpetuating synergy. Just as
the woman inspires her man, her man inspires
her to be better, do better, live better.

This is the only type of partner we ought to
ever settle down with as it is the only type of
relationship that has hope for a better future
built into its genetics.
Relationships are hard. Life is hard. Sometimes,
getting up and doing that which we need to do,
is hard. Nothing in life worth a dime is easy --
ever. You’re going to get into fights and
arguments.

Life is going to throw you curveballs and test
your love for each other. Sh*t is going to
happen and it is going to not just happen to you
or her; it’s going to happen to the two of you.
You have to understand that just as you’ll share
your lover’s joys and happiness, you’re also going
to share her pains and suffering. What having
the right type of woman by your side will give
you is the hope that you can fix whatever issues
are at hand.
Why? Because the two of you have no problem
working towards a shared goal. You’re a team.
You managed to shape your lives thus far and
believe in each other enough to keep pushing
ahead nonetheless.

You have a life partner who won’t give up on you
and -- most importantly -- you have a partner
that you will sooner die for than give up on.
Don’t waste time chasing after women who fall
short of this category; time is a luxury you
don’t want to be frugal with.
There is only one type of woman in this world
who is worth chasing and that’s a woman
who makes you believe you’re capable of making
your own dreams come true.