Good day my fellow NL guys and babes.i have a girl by name deborah we have been into relationship for over three years and we loved each other. Although she do cheat and when i find out she will plead and i will 4give her. When we wanted to make love 4 the first time she said she was a virgin so i left her not to hot her then a day came when we had sex to my greatest surprise she was not a virgin i kept quite,we kept on making love on different place like on the garden and other useless places,so a day came when i asked her who disvirgin her she started telling me that it was her first guy, while she told me that i was the first,so i knew she was not faithfull i began to draw myself away from her then letter i saw her with her mum in my house and the mum asked if i was responsible 4 the pregnancy i told her no cause it up to like two month we have not made love, so letter i heard that it was 4 a guy she told me that he was her sisters guy and when i confronted her she was crying and begging me not to leave her in this condition so friends am confuse what should i do please.

Are you daft?

She lied, cheated and now carries someone else baby and you are asking for advice? I think you are daft and love aint just blind. Get a Vaseline and go wwwannk yourself. I am sure you will get over her.

But if you truly love her, stay with her till she's got a baby from another baby father. Mumu.

If you like yourself you better dump that shit of a girl you claim is your girl.

Whatelse do you want hear again, she lied, she cheats and she is pregnant.

Guy is not like that just confuse

c-zer:

Guy is not like that just confuse

O boy believe me you dont need to be confused at all this one is very very clear.

c-zer:

Guy is not like that just confuse

Kneel down and pray to God about it? I am sure you will get a better response.

Dont believe this story. You guys come up here and post rubbish. How the hell are u gonna say u confused and u dont know what to do

So u waiting for people here to advice you?

shio ooooooooooooooooooooooooo

c-zer:

Good day my fellow NL guys and babes.i have a girl by name deborah we have been into relationship for over three years and we loved each other. Although she do cheat and when i find out she will plead and i will 4give her. When we wanted to make love 4 the first time she said she was a virgin so i left her not to hot her then a day came when we had intimacy to my greatest surprise she was not a virgin i kept quite,we kept on making love on different place like on the garden and other useless places,so a day came when i asked her who disvirgin her she started telling me that it was her first guy, while she told me that i was the first,so i knew she was not faithfull i began to draw myself away from her then letter i saw her with her mum in my house and the mum asked if i was responsible 4 the pregnancy i told her no cause it up to like two month we have not made love, so letter i heard that it was 4 a guy she told me that he was her sisters guy and when i confronted her she was crying and begging me not to leave her in this condition so friends am confuse what should i do please.     

On a serious note, do guys like this still exist? Are you for real? Is this story real or something you just made up? Coz if it's real, then you are as dumb as rocks.Every man has his faults and every man has gone through a trials with women but this your issue is pathetic.First she lied about being a virgin.Second, you found out she wasn't and she lied again.Third, you kept away from her for two months, she got pregnant for someone else and she didn't stop her mom from coming to barge in on you thus implying that she must have hinted to her mom that YOU WERE RESPONSIBLE for the pregnancy.

If the points listed above aren't enough to clear your head then you might just as well remain confused for all eternity.What is so complex that you can't understand.You were dating a LovePeddler and you got out by the whiskers.If i was a Christian, i would have said "God" saved you.

Wise up my friend!

@sky do you think i can say what is not true 4 people to help me,that means you do lie

@harakiri guy thanks alot but you know is not that easy to 4get something like that

@harakiri guy thanks alot but you know is not that easy to 4get something like that

c-zer:

@harakiri guy thanks alot[b] but you know is not that easy to 4get something like that[/b]

Which part do you find it hard forgetting? Is it the part where she almost nailed another man's pregnancy on you or the one where she lied about her virginity? If i were you, i would probably go for HIV test coz since you believed that she was a virgin, it's possible you had unprotected sex with her AND she has been having unprotected sex with others else she wouldn't be pregnant.Don't let women and their ways fool you.

That girl can poison you if she has the chance.A woman that has the heart to pin another man's child on an innocent victim can commit murder with no bias.You should be thanking your stars that you went off the hook easily.There are some that will pull down the sky claiming that you are the father of the child and you must marry her.Before you discover that the child isn't yours, you would have had children with her and even if you drive her away, you will still be connected to her because of the children she has for you.If you can imagine living the rest of your life in that situation and you are still confused about what to do, then there is no remedy for you.Don't bother asking anyone for advice coz it's obviously not sinking in.

End of!

Guy@poster u can just be friendz i.e assist her and giv her positive advices then gradually withdraw or better still tell her u neva wan 2 see her again nd end d relationship OK!!

you still calling her ur galfriend? lol

c-zer:

@sky do you think i can say what is not true 4 people to help me,that means you do lie

She Lied, She cheated on you and worst of all,cheated on you with her sister's guy. Come on Man,Its the part you are saying you are confused that is still a mystery to me. Mayb there is something else u not saying or, i dont know man. .the only one i can think of is dump her and never see her again.

Dump the bit***ch

Na waiting man go do

Guy read your post and just assume it happened to a friend of yours !!!

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me tinks this poster is aged 12 and his gurlfriend 13
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I couldn't agree more. . .lol

Poster need to see de doctor, MUMU MUMU na u be.

I don't wanna wait in vain for your love;
I don't wanna wait in vain for your love.
From the very first time I blessed my eyes on you, girl,
My heart says follow t'rough.
But I know, now, that I'm way down on your line,
But the waitin' feel is fine:
So don't treat me like a puppet on a string,
'Cause I know I have to do my thing.
Don't talk to me as if you think I'm dumb;
I wanna know when you're gonna come - soon.
I don't wanna wait in vain for your love;
I don't wanna wait in vain for your love;
I don't wanna wait in vain for your love,
'Cause if summer is here,
I'm still waiting there;
Winter is here,
And I'm still waiting there.

I don't know what u expect to hear from naira landers, , Ok, you r heart broken but you shld have kept your eyes open. dark clouds appear before it rains. stop wasting your time with this thread on nairaland. dump d shit of a girl and get useful. No tym.

jenibayo:

Poster need to see de doctor, MUMU MUMU na u be.

is the type of you that do such things by the way are you showing us your ass or back,your ass is as flat as a road so try and do something about it, ok dondi

@poster, If you are seriously asking for advice on what to do then you qaulify as the biggest simp aka mumu

even my 8 yr old nephew should know what to do in a situation like this and that is get rid of her faster than the speed of light and thunder

jenibayo:

Poster need to see de doctor, MUMU MUMU na u be.

is the type of you that do such things by the way are you showing us your ass or back,your ass is as flat as a road so try and do something about it, ok dondi

This guy needs to be thrown back to the 1980's

this guy nids to be thrown back to 1980's

Can someone slap this man upside the head? Here I have better advice, can you please see a doc to remove your testicles. You should never have children because they might come out as dummies.