blessingsonflee:
Hmmm

LuvSwollenPussy:
Lol why don't you women grab msges like this fast. Introduction is not marriage sis. This is exactly d reason why guys are pushed to lie or decieve girls. You see the truth, yet can't recognise it.

If you think deeply abt it, he likes you, he wants you to be intimate with him but he's going about it in the most respectful way without making a marriage promise that he might not be able to keep. He knows ur religious standard of not cohabiting with who u can't marry so he has to talk about introduction.

I'll advice that since you know he wants a sexy romantic stuff with you but no marriage, and he has d financial strength to harbour you, just flow along and chop his money too. I know u too want this thing and u have respectful grounds already...he's not just willing to pay u like a prostitute and dump you but with some level of respect. I think he's tried. Don't let him promise marriage cus u would be disappointed.

Don't even let him do d introduction yet so that ur people won't be wondering later why both of you aren't together anymore. But is good that u made him say so. At least now to him you're not a cheap slut. And if the going gets well with both of you, you can get engaged and do d intro.

thorpido:
You are obviously not ready for marriage.Don't force yourself into any introduction just yet.

I wouldn't advise you move in with him for any reason.You will lose at the end.Let him marry you properly before you move in with him.

He should make the sacrifice of coming to Lagos during public holidays or weekends.You can also visit him.

You should work on developing yourself,getting a job or doing some business.Try to be financially independent.

xendra:
I don't know what to tell you, but I know if I feel this way I would not marry

pcguru1:
Cohabiate and perform all wifey duties without the ring that's the disadvantage for You, however on the flip side a man usually feels the need to cohabitate because he can never know a woman truky until they are together day and night thats a disadvantage for him too. So .............

Pricelessangel0:
the problem is i feel as if i dont know him enough and i cant even say i love him or not and as if am nt also ready because am scared of marriage and that its as if i cant find my inner self so its seem as if am lost somewhere{i haven't discover my inner passion}, and i dnt even hv a stable work bt he does and i told him but he says there is no p that hes ok wit it, that i will be fine with time bt i know that marriage has its own phase,
Pls my fellow Nairalander's Advise Me With experience

adetoroamos:
the chance are slim... u suppose to know him more better during the festive periods like easter, xmass and new year when u spend d holidays with him

jaychubi:
If he is serious let him complete all marital rites B4 u start living with him including white wedding.

Prognose:



How old are u? I'm guessing 24 or less. Probably your first real boyfriend? Hit or miss?

You're not ready for this relationship. If you're not comfortable with this guy then let him go. When you're ready for a committed relationship with the right guy you will know.

P. S just because a guy is well behaved or promising you marriage doesn't mean he is the one for you. You left him as a friend for 4 years before taking an interest in him. It's obvious you don't like him like that.

Shugarlord213:
You think you are growing young. Be doing fine girl up and down

This will definitely be the last man to approach you

lilmax:
it's been four yars you guys are friends
you did not give him face those yars
you gave him face last yar
you started dating this February

how the fuc.k do you expect to know him deeply in just how many months?

you are a very not so serious human being that doesn't know what it wants

Pricelessangel0:
Have promised him "no sex until marriage"

lilmax:
it's been four yars you guys are friends
you did not give him face those yars
you gave him face last yar
you started dating this February

how the fuc.k do you expect to know him deeply in just how many months?

you are a very not so serious human being that doesn't know what it wants

Pricelessangel0:

Dont mind him after telling him all the dreams/vision i head and he still thought thats the best thing 4 me and when i suggested going to see my pastor, he flared up and start saying he doesnt want me involving my pastor in my affairs, since then have been wary of him.

Pricelessangel0:

Thanks 4 ur advise cos thats exactly what i told him and that we should give ourselves more time to also allow me to find what i really want to do, bt even though he agrees that instants, next time we discuss he will bring it up again and also sound as if am wasting time.

Pricelessangel0:

So? Words has finish...

Prognose:



How old are u? I'm guessing 24 or less. Probably your first real boyfriend? Hit or miss?

You're not ready for this relationship. If you're not comfortable with this guy then let him go. Don't let him or anyone else bamboozle you into doing what you don't want to do. When you're ready for a committed relationship with the right guy you will know.

P. S just because a guy is well behaved or promising you marriage doesn't mean he is the one for you. You left him as a friend for 4 years before taking an interest in him. It's obvious you don't like him like that.

Pricelessangel0:
Modified; He called xternight and tells me that if i know am still interested in him i should move down to Abuja and lets implement he has in mind, when i told him i can't, he told me i should look for another man to marry and end the call, and has not call since.

Pricelessangel0:
Modified; He called xternight and tells me that if i know am still interested in him i should move down to Abuja and lets implement he has in mind, when i told him i can't, he told me i should look for another man to marry and end the call, and has not call since.

Pricelessangel0:

Dont mind him after telling him all the dreams/vision i head and he still thought thats the best thing 4 me and when i suggested going to see my pastor, he flared up and start saying he doesnt want me involving my pastor in my affairs, since then have been wary of him.

Pricelessangel0:

Dont mind him after telling him all the dreams/vision i head and he still thought thats the best thing 4 me and when i suggested going to see my pastor, he flared up and start saying he doesnt want me involving my pastor in my affairs, since then have been wary of him.