So lets take a step backward -You both met online or at a location, you liked each other and decided to go for it, He shoots his shot, the aftermath was positive, He tries to impress you by taking you out to places he's never even been, borrow his friend's car and cash just to make you chop believing, Send you airtime and transfers, replies your missed calls/flashes... and the list goes on.

This went on for months and one day, luck was on his side, there was time, there was privacy, and protection! But you decide its NOT gonn happen for some personal reasons. The last time we checked, you never even cared to know what he does for a living. He probably earns some 20K/ month and spends over 50K on you within the same 30-day frame

Considering how I'm in no support of sex outside marriage, The fact remains that as a Lady, if you put yourself in the position, be ready to bear the grudge. To guys, Why do y'all have to stoop low and make it look like it's your responsibility to put food on their table when you havn't even paid the ultimate price? Why do Women think giving men sex is a favor? What exactly are these women even offering in a typical relationship? If sex is all you got to offer, Then it's like you're coming in empty handed because it's 2018: where sex isn't cheap anymore, but almost free!

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They aren't doing favors to men with sex, but their fish brain can't allow them know that.

A typical Nigerian girlfriend cannot offer you anything in this life. The only woman that can offer a man something tangible is his mother or sister Why? Because he's not sleeping with them. #Fact!

It takes two to have sex, but because men crave for it, gave women the impetus to think it's a favour.

-Remove sex from a relationship, you'll get to know how useless they are to you.

-Stop asking for sex from them and watch them flopp in a relationship.

Women are so scared to mingle or date a man who they can't manipulate with sex. Why? Because it makes them useless

-They mostly offer negatives things in a relationship, such as ; Liability, problems, smelling pussay, troubles and violence.

All they can offer a man in our society is to spread their yam legs and wide 6ft smelling pussay filled with cobwebs for you, remove that and watch how they'll be useless like a used tissue role

Bottom line is : Women think they are doing men favors with sex because men crave more for it and that's the only thing they can offer in the society, so they need to make it precious

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They see it as a favour because that's only what they gat to give..... Imaging someone giving you her only selling point since they gat no brains, money or ideas to bring to the table...... so I don't blame them

Man by nature is always on heat, hence a lady allowing the man to ease tension as it were sees it as doing him a favour.

freedomchild:
They see it as a favour because that's only what they gat to give..... Imaging someone giving you her only selling point since they gat no brains, money or ideas to bring to the table...... so I don't blame them

Quick question:

Aside sex what do you want/hope for in a relationship?

then stop requesting for it dude, it won't kill you..
if she's not bringing anything on the table but sex, let her keep her pussy and u keep your money

RuthDaniels:
That's because you guys made it so by acting desperate for it!


#Fact!

100%
Lets not forget most of them are horrible in bed so it's actually a favour (with all the fake orgasms and all) Its exhausting! Lol.

mysteryman2014:
Man by nature is always on heat, hence a lady allowing the man to ease tension as it were sees it as doing him a favour.

men are always on heat
hiaa!!! brother, are they dogs ?

RuthDaniels:
Quick question:

Aside sex what do you want/hope for in a relationship?

I want companion, intelligence and understanding...
Relationships these days have been commercialised by you girls, and that's why we see you ladies as intimacy gadgets.... simple

BossLaifay:
100%
Lets not forget most of them are horrible in bed so it's actually a favour (with all the fake orgasms and all) Its exhausting! Lol.

My oh my! Burst my brain

Lol...@fake orgasms ! Believe me women who do that are sweet. Just to save a man's ego? who does that!

I asked someone up there what men want/look out for in a relationship with sex exempted. Lets hope he answers correctly, he's response will go a long way here.

Cos that's d only valuable tin they gat... That's dia most prized asset.... SMH...

Adamummya:



men are always on heat
hiaa!!! brother, are they dogs ?

That's the general female perception of men, hence the feeling that they are doing men a favour by having sex

Abeg leave the women alone. Men created this problem for themselves from time immemorial till now.

The manner in which men will humiliate themselves to sleep with a woman and the impossible price most are willing to pay for it set those standards.

In the west men pay half a million dollars to sleep with a "super model" for just one night. An amount that will feed generations in Africa.

freedomchild:
They see it as a favour because that's only what they gat to give..... Imaging someone giving you her only selling point since they gat no brains, money or ideas to bring to the table...... so I don't blame them

You just made my day with this.

RuthDaniels:
Quick question:

Aside sex what do you want/hope for in a relationship?

Companionship, protection, provision, physical and financial support that all goes both ways and not from the man alone.

Of course its fully agreed the man bears greater part of this burden but the the 9ja girls method of offering nothing while the guy does everything is a no no.

a girl starts making you feel she's doing you a favour by having sex with her when you are horrible in bed and he can't compensate it in other areas.
come to think of it when a woman start feeling that she can offer more than sex in a relationship they feel threatened.truth be told many African men expect the woman to offer sex only in a relationship you can see that the time that sex dolls came into awareness for them.the way you present yourself is the way you are going to be addressed if you make your woman to offer more than sex in a relationship she is gonna offer more.

I remember meeting a lady who requested some money in return for sex. You know what I did eventually? I paid her without touching her. What many men lose after sex isn't just money; they lose much more than that.
Too many STD infested pucis around. By merely looking at them, you can tell.

RuthDaniels:
That's because you guys made it so by acting desperate for it!


#Fact!

exactly what I wanted to say...

Same topic everyday.
Every guy on NL is a G, one that has money to impress women.
Every guy on NL can relate with spending excessively on women.
But every guy on NL is alpha, takes no bullshit from ladies.

Who are those wimps in reality? The struggling young men who offer nothing but love and maybe problems to their girlfriends?
Not on NL, hah? Y'all are royalty.

Well done.

Because giving men sex is a favour

What about people like me that offer dick?

RuthDaniels:
That's because you guys made it so by acting desperate for it!


#Fact!

So true Ma dear, as if one will die if e never fuxk

Ayodejioak:
So lets take a step backward -You both met online or at a location, you liked each other and decided to go for it, He shoots your shot, the hunt was positive, He tries to impress you by taking you out to places he's never even been, borrow his friend's car and cash just to make you chop believing, Send you airtime and transfers, replies your missed calls/flashes... and the list goes on.

This went on for months and one day, luck was on his side, there was time, there was privacy, and protection! But you decide its NOT gonn happen for some personal reasons. The last time we checked, you never even cared to know what he does for a living. He probably earns some 20K/ month and spends over 50K on you within the same 30-day frame

Considering how I'm in no support of sex outside marriage, The fact remains that as a Lady, if you put yourself in the position, be ready to bear the grudge. To guys, Why do y'all have to stoop low and make it look like it's your responsibility to put food on their table when you havn't even paid the ultimate price? Why do Women think giving men sex is a favor? What exactly are you even offering?

Hoping to explore various views here, lets push this to the front page.
CC: Lalasticlala Seun Rocktation farano

that's for you, I'm on a celibate diet right now I've had too much mannnnnnnn

imitateMe:
I remember meeting a lady who requested some money in return for sex. You know what I did eventually? I paid her without touching her. What many men lose after sex isn't just money; they lose much more than that.
Too many STD infested pucis around. By merely looking at them, you can tell.

When I see a lady, first that comes to my mind is; which one is she carrying? No matter how she looks. Difficult getting a wife tho

RuthDaniels:
Quick question:

Aside sex what do you want/hope for in a relationship?

I want a woman who will push me to that height especially when ma knees are buckling under me.

One who see clear skies above the dark cloudy sky i see.

One who will stitch the holes in ma wallet for roles of ma future

One who will massage ma worn out, often torn muscles to healing points

One who will challenge my brain quotient (IQ) so i develop intelligence

One who can and will step in ma shops when the chips go down

One who can carry on with the kids when i drop dead as though no one is lost

One who will create with her hands not just destroy (spend)

one who is , wait! did you see sex in any of the above? - that's why many gals will open leg as wide as outstretched arms to diverse men and yet no one will wife them - cos sex is the least that a wife material offers but most of you gals think sex is all you should offer.

Note: If sex is all you bring to the table, how are you different from a prostitute?

Hmm..
Interesting question, funny answers.

Women feel that way for many reasons. Though, I'm not justifying it, just answering your questions.

Firstly, the behavior of sex starved men. Have you seen a man whose dick has taken the place of his brain? Where a guy will go to just to have you in bed, if he puts such enthusiasm and hard work into his hustle, he'll make it. I don't need to say more.

Secondly, it seems guys are just the ones enjoying this sex thing, when most guys underrate fore.play. Because, once a guy cums, that's the end of the round. And if the woman hasn't cum that's the end of her sex session or hopes for the big O. So when the sex is one sided, the woman will definitely feel she's doing you a favor after all you're the one cumming and having fun. So being a selfish guy in bed is a contributing factor because they're doing it to keep you happy.

Most men have prioritize sex that a woman would think they can't do without it. Hence, them blackmailing or twisting situations to their favor because they have your mumu button after all.


Lastly, if sex is taken as a big deal in a relationship and that's why she may think that's needed to keep the relationship going especially when this sex is one sided like I said, that is; the man enjoying it alone. She may think that's the only way she can please her man.

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BossLaifay:
100%
Lets not forget most of them are horrible in bed so it's actually a favour (with all the fake orgasms and all) Its exhausting! Lol.

Am Amazed at your level of stupidity, I never thought it is this high...

Lemme not talk much

Because men glorify sex and sometimes do crazy things to get it? You guys are the main ones giving women this power lol

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ibkayee:
Because men glorify sex and sometimes do crazy things to get it? You guys are the main ones giving women this power lol

YOU,
Yes YOU,
What Can You Offer aside SEX ??


When you Girls re busy hunting for money as Hunter dy Hunt Animals...