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For The Ladies: 7 Questions You Should Never Ask Your Boyfriend by jannydear(f): 8:13am On May 08, 2018
It’s important for couples to confide in each other, talk about their fears and ambitions and trust each other. However, there are some particular obscene questions that women must avoid asking their men. This is because the answers won’t have any positive effect on you or him. Asking him those awkward questions only end up making both of you uncomfortable, and most of the time they make you look insecure or not confident.

Here are some questions you should never ask your boyfriend.

How many women have you slept with?

Don’t allow your curiosity get a hold of you by pushing you to ask your boyfriend about his past relationships and sexual escapades. Whether he answers you truthfully or not, it’s not going to help you in any way. It’s also not going to be a yardstick for the success of your relationship.

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If he’s been with a lot of women, chances are you’re going to feel insecure. If he answers that he hasn’t been with very many women at all, you might find yourself wondering if he doesn’t end his relationships too fast. Also, be prepared to answer that same question, because he will naturally want to know the answer from your side too, and you might not want to reveal something so personal.

Do I do this better than your ex?

Asking your boyfriend if you’re better than his ex in any way – whether in your looks, cooking skills or in bed is definitely a bad idea. He would feel uncomfortable and uncertain around you and will resort to being dishonest if you continually drag up a past relationship. Would you prefer he flatters you by saying you cook better or would you be okay to know the bitter truth is his ex is way better off in bed than you?

It just shows you lack self-confidence if you always compare yourself to his ex-girlfriend. The fact is, he’s with you, and isn’t thinking about your ex, so why dig up memories of his past relationship that won’t help both of you in any way?

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Is she prettier than me?

So what if she’s prettier than you? Would you leave the relationship because of that? It’s normal to be jealous, but it becomes abnormal when it gets uncontrollable. We should endeavor to bring the issue of jealousy under subjection of our control. Asking questions that compare you to his ex means high level of insecurity on your part. Also, if he were to answer you, you may still not be satisfied. If he was to answer: “Yes, she’s prettier” it will only end up making you angry and feeling unattractive. If the answer is “no, you’re prettier”, you may just feel like he’s lying, or saying what he’s obliged to say. Save yourself, and him, a headache by avoiding the question and cheering yourself that if he liked her more, he’d probably be with her, and not you.

Who just texted or called you?

Are you the kind of girl that dashes to grasp your boyfriend’s phone immediately it rings or beeps? This is very unhealthy in any relationship. Asking him who called or sent him a text can mean you don’t feel secured. Think of it as winning a point when you don’t ask. Don’t embarrass yourself because chances are it could be an unknown number, a relative, a friend, or even the telephone company.

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Do you watch p0*rn?

If a man has access to a computer, chances are he will have watched X-rated movies at some time or another. Watching it doesn’t take away from the fact that he’s with you. If you have a feeling he does watch it, don’t stress yourself about it. Asking him if he watches it will either lead to awkwardness or he might be forced to lie to you.

Do you think I’m getting fat?

This is another awkward question to ask your boyfriend. If you’re uncomfortable with how you look, then you can change it, if possible. You don’t need him to tell you so. Asking if you’re fat may trigger an automatic response. He might lie so as not to make you feel bad. He may also say “yes, you could do with losing a few pounds.” The latter will probably make you feel very bad about your self-confidence and wish you’d never asked.

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What would you do if I got pregnant?

The answer to this question depends on the status of the relationship itself. If you’ve been married for years and you’re looking to raise a family, then this question is appropriate. However if you’re teenagers who’ve been seeing each other for a month or so, stay away from this question completely. It’ll completely throw him off guard. This question isn’t worth asking. You don’t need to worry about pregnancy unless you are actually pregnant; if not, this question isn’t worth asking.

Source: http://www.healthdiary365.com/2018/05/08/for-the-ladies-7-questions-you-should-never-ask-your-boyfriend/

Re: For The Ladies: 7 Questions You Should Never Ask Your Boyfriend by 1bunne4lif(m): 8:18am On May 08, 2018
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Re: For The Ladies: 7 Questions You Should Never Ask Your Boyfriend by timwudz(m): 8:19am On May 08, 2018
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