You're entitled to your mentality to be honest, I'd advise you free her and find someone else with a similar mindset though, you guys simply aren't compatible and it would be unfair to expect all these adjustments from her since you didn't meet her like that. Good luck

Wasnt able to read through all the replies here but hope Im not late to the party.

@OP, you absolutely know who you are and what you wanted in a woman. It's a known fact that men love to be respected a lot as the head of his home no matter what. I wouldnt say you were wrong on what you had wanted for yourself.

Please, sit her down and have a discussion with her on this, put her to tests thereafter and follow your heart thereafter.

Guitarlife:
Dear Nairaland family,
Its really tricky and deep, I would appreciate objective and unbiased analysis.

To answer your main question, NO, it wouldn't be wise.

What changes in marriage is that the good and bad things you experience during courtship will continue to occur, but to a higher degree.

My frank analysis: She doesn't suit you.

Reason: You do not share the same values on the role of man/woman in marriage. Doesn't make her a bad person but just not a good fit for you.

If you go ahead, be prepared to continually deal with the issue because you both will always differ when it comes to that topic.

You say you strongly feel she'll give you issues on authority matters already, so why set yourself up for a lifetime of regret?

Oga, DON'T DO IT!

Lastly, read this:
https://www.nairaland.com/4520062/15-divorced-people-reveal-subtle