BedLam:
Yes and still older

spartacus11:


Can i get a house for 80k in Abuja.

akeentech:
You mean, u ar a kid?

Didi2d:
For me, I knew most of her bad attitude. But I thought she will adjust and change for good when we eventually start staying together, but I was totally wrong. Now am in the regretting zone.

germainediva:
I don't envy any married woman in this part of the world...most are not happy....marriage these days is a scam...women are really strong they endure alot.

BedLam:
Yes and still older

kinzation:
depends in the area bro..
though I stay with an uncle of mine in kubwa Abuja here..but I think its 100k above

midehi2:

You are a good person and husband

Alennsar:

OK av checked your profile and I think you should check Durumi 3 out but a room is 60 to 70 thousands oo depends on your luck and is close to town also.

smart6:


Yea, the case that cause palava in homes is where man and wife work but finance is oga's lot. That's the case type i wish to know how couple manage it.

Elder001:


It'll only happen if you allow such to happen..

There are two types of males in this world:

Alpha males and
Beta Males.

Alpha males are the ones that won't share bills with their wives and at the same time won't share house chores with their wives... they're pre dominantly found in Africa and some parts of Asia.


Beta males are the ones that share bills with their wives and at the same time share house chores with their wives... they're pre dominantly found in western countries and some parts of Asia.


Alpha males are already going to extinction in civilized countries.. a lot of them have embraced the "Beta male" concept.


The type of man you choose to be is what'll answer your question..

Goodnight.

spartacus11:


Actually that's were i need ur help, one who can help me find a house, if 100k will be the total package dat will be fine, since I'm not on ground, and i don't know my way on ground

If you're willing to help i will be grateful

bettercreature:
Still searching........! Amarachi won’t talk to me again

Ayoadedoyin:
I am not married yet, but I think wen u marry ur friend, ur marriage is likely going to have less conflict, even after u finish raising ur children, all u do together is talk, so pls marry someone u wont get tired to talking to

tabithababy:
I don't understand why a woman will forgo all what she has worked for in her youth days just to please a man that can throw you out of his life at any time

Very unfortunate situation .. After all the money her parent must have spent to make sure she is a literate

Haaaa... Aye le .. Ibosi o

salt1:
Nothing really changes after marriage, except maybe personal appearance. You both get older and fatter /slimmer depending on financial and health choices.

Many of the issues that will impact a marriage will already be noticed during courtship, but because we are in love, we push them under the table and believe that the spouse will change, but people hardly change except they really want to.

The point is that, at any stage in the marriage, we can CHOOSE to be more or less affectionate, more or less open financially etc. It's not marriage itself that brings the changes but our personal choices.

I know because I've been married for quite a long while

Boleyndynasty2:
what did you do to her naw?

OrangeDream:
For the first time in my life, i felt violated by my own bathroom when her friend (the longest period in the world) paid her a visit.


She carries bushy hair around in the house like my grandmum and spit around too.


I don't even think my roof will survive our 5th anniversary cos that woman will snore it down very soon.



Worst, how can i forget how she took meat from our pot, suck the soup and threw the meat back inside the pot?.


I don't know whether to call this PREDICAMENT, PROBLEM OR PALAVA?

bettercreature:
Well she called me the only dangerious man in her life so i had to find my way to give peace a chance

OrangeDream:
For the first time in my life, i felt violated by my own bathroom when her friend (the longest period in the world) paid her a visit.


She carries bushy hair around in the house like my grandmum and spit around too.


I don't even think my roof will survive our 5th anniversary cos that woman will snore it down very soon.



Worst, how can i forget how she took meat from our pot, suck the soup and threw the meat back inside the pot?.


I don't know whether to call this PREDICAMENT, PROBLEM OR PALAVA?

Elder001:


and to those fools who've the habit of taking their Nigerian wives to USA and UK.. keep on taking them there.. by the time they're through with you.. your eyes are gonna open..

Never trust Nigerian ladies. ..take them to the UK and USA and you'll be given the blackmail of your life.

ireneidiva:

How women give up their careers for marriage is beyond me.

paparazzi1987:


Bross stop hating. Its a choice, Loves conquers all bro.

Why would a responsible spouses stay away from each other for the rest of their lives.

It is just 1 world bro we should learn to enjoy it and live happily.

She struggled with me since my undergraduate days even when i no even fine at all with my big head and thiny neck..

Even if na paradise i go bring her come join me