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Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by nigerbobo(m): 4:07pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
Hello N/landers, I met a guy who posed that question to me and thought to bring it down here for discussion. Please tell me what u think. |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by tunnytox(m): 5:52pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
Why not? if her husband consent to it and also with a condition that there will be nothing intimate between them |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
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Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
chaircover: what are real friends for, if not to help you in your times of needs?! would you rather they go and get a loan at the bank where the rates are sky high? @poster IMHO if there isnt any seedy/evil intent at the back of the mind of the lender and the partner is fully aware of the loan then why not? as long as they can keep up with the repayment! sign a IOU and be done with it. |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Pittbaby(f): 7:51pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
only if the husband agrees , but she may be opening a can of worms that will rot her marriage . even if the man agrees he may have some difficulty dealing with it . |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Fhemmmy: 7:51pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
Not at all, cos it is an insult to the husband. Also, it is an invitation to revamping what was there |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Fhemmmy: 7:52pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
Pittbaby: Only a foolish husband would agree to such nonsense |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Sissy3(f): 8:12pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
Fhemmmy: some women still have maintainfriendship with their exs even when married. if the wife and husband agree to it and their is no string attached . . , . . . |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
@FHEMMMY so what should they do if the ONLY person who could borrow them the money is EX and the husband is broke like a church mouse?! i guess the reason for the loan is a very important one. |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Sissy3(f): 10:00pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
chaircover: what if the husband agrees to it? or you think no husband will ever agree to such? |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by skfa1: 10:04pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
As for me NO. |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by luap: 10:40pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
Expose the dysfunction for what it is. Going outside to ex lovers, there is no excuse. I do not care how you justify it. Wrong is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
i would understand that a husband would be reluctant because that will expose his broke self to the ex BF. . . . . . . . god forbid, lol. she left the rich guy and now struggles financially with the guy she married. husband's ego will be bruised if the world knew that he couldnt man up!! |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by adamse(f): 11:40pm On Jun 01, 2010 |
it depends on certain conditions.if they still maintain a good relationship,why not?without or with the husbands consent.without ,because the hubby probably likes his ego,definately wouldnt give consent to an assistance from his wifes ex.but since they are really in need of cash,the wife could do it secretly.BUT NO STRINGS ATTACHED. If then,a string has to be attached,assistance should be seeked somewhere else. |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by skfa1: 12:22am On Jun 02, 2010 |
luap: Thats right adamse: But remember that this days, no man wants to give out without attaching a string, not even to talk of ur ex GF for that matter, I tell you what, something will have to be attached. I dont think its the right thing to do, seek help from somewhere else to avoid some words you dont wanna hear somewhere later. |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by adamse(f): 1:23am On Jun 02, 2010 |
adamse: thats y i said a good relationship |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Nobody: 6:51am On Jun 02, 2010 |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Nobody: 7:56am On Jun 02, 2010 |
It is not even encouraged to make Ex boy/girl a family's friend let alone to turn to he/she for financial assistance. Your Ex boy/girl when married can easily fall in love with you if given the slightest opportunity. A responsible husband should disagree to that no matter how worst the case maybe. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Sissy3(f): 8:12am On Jun 02, 2010 |
i hear you Chair |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by nigerbobo(m): 8:55am On Jun 02, 2010 |
Big-Man: Thats very true. it doesnt take much for Ex boy/girl friend to re-ignite something when given the opportunity, am of the opinion that once married, you should have absolutely nothing else to do with your Ex. |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by rickie4us(m): 11:14am On Jun 02, 2010 |
chaircover: thank you very much my sister. This is the best response so far |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by toideve(m): 11:18am On Jun 02, 2010 |
when a man continues to buy a woman panties as gifts he will one day want to see how they look on her for me Hell No! |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by topkin(m): 11:22am On Jun 02, 2010 |
Really, i don't see anything wrong in it. It all depends on her husband and the relationship she has/keeps with ex, I really don't see anything wrong in it! |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by bestman09(m): 11:33am On Jun 02, 2010 |
I dont think it is alright!!!!! The lady would have killed the ego of her husband b4 her ex and beleive me, it can lead to something else |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by bestman09(m): 11:38am On Jun 02, 2010 |
I dont think it is alright!!!!! The lady would have killed the ego of her husband b4 her ex and beleive me, it can lead to something else! |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by SeanT21(f): 11:38am On Jun 02, 2010 |
NO!! That will shame your husband. |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by dbigrod(m): 12:02pm On Jun 02, 2010 |
[size=16pt]@POSTER, WHAT IF THE EX ASK FOR `THAT THING` IN RETURN FOR THE ASSISTANCE?[/size] |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Missybabe(f): 12:11pm On Jun 02, 2010 |
i don't it is alright at all. it is better to look for the assistance somewhere else |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by dbigrod(m): 12:13pm On Jun 02, 2010 |
[size=16pt] Missybabe: IS THIS D MISSY B I KNOW?WERE U BANNED?[/size] |
Re: Should A Married Lady Ask Her Very Rich Ex-boy Friend For Finaicial Assistance? by Pennywise(m): 12:19pm On Jun 02, 2010 |
This scenario plays out all the time especially if the wife is a 'wise-girl'. And no the husband usually doesnt get to know. If the girl wants to keep things straight and let the husband know abt her intentions and he accepts, things can get unpredictable when they are out of the woods. If a woman must then she must not disclose and she has to be prepared to deal with the emotional fallout of an extra marital relationship that often results esp if she keeps going back. You also have the occasional shameless husband who will put their wives on the forbidden path for cash or contract. |
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