You’ve seen his text messages and there’s no doubt he is seeing another woman. You confront him, screaming with tears pouring down from your eyes. He apologizes and begs you to forgive him. He promises a faithful relationship, where he would love, respect and care for you. You believe he would change for the better and your confrontation finally ends in a crazy make out session. But wait, have you ever tried to reason; what if you were actually the lady by the side and there's no way that he’d leave his wife or girlfriend for you instead?

Here we decide to explore the side-chick’s role, focusing particularly on how one would know she’s just a side piece and not the main in a certain romantic relationship. Some obvious signs you would have known or heard about. However, there are still some subtle signs you have actually never even thought of.

https://www.sauceandsound.com/2018/06/13/5-ways-to-know-youre-just-a-side-chick/

1. He acts awkwardly when you visit unscheduled
He doesn't seem to enjoy surprise visits from you. Every visit is carefully planned and strictly by his invitation. He avoids meeting you unexpectedly and acts far from his normal self when you accidentally bump into each other outside your normal arrangements, being either rude or just unromantic. He sticks to time when he's out on a date with you and doesn't bother extending the time you both spend together, giving you excuses like he has work to do or a meeting.

2. He barely invites you over to his place
He may not want you to know where he lives, not because he is broke or because of his embarrassing roommate, but he doesn't want you to get too comfortable at his place or be seen by his girlfriend. He prefers meeting you outside his apartment or at your own place, and when you ask to return the favor, he says he doesn't want you to stress yourself.

3. He talks freely about other girls in your presence
Maybe he constantly talks about other girls to a certain suspicious level, giving you hints that you might not the only he's seeing. He doesn't care if you get jealous or insecure. As long as he is concerned, giving that impression of a perfect partner is not a priority when it comes to you. Maybe he talks about the features he likes in a woman, and you find out he's not even talking about the features that you possess. On the other hand, talking about other girls to his girlfriend might just be one of his bad habits or he's just trying to make you jealous.

4. He only calls when he wants something
You go days without talking to each other and he doesn't even try to reply your texts. There's no argument between the both of you, but he tends to only contact you when he needs something. After that, everything goes back to the way it was. It could mean that he is seeing someone else and you only come to his mind when your assistance is needed. But before you start jumping into the conclusion that you're a side chick, you should check to see if you were just dating a needy man-child in the first place.

5.He doesn’t really care about your emotions
He sucks at listening to you and would only want you to do things for him. The relationship you have with him seems one sided, you care about how he feels but he doesn't seem to want to know about your emotions. He may try to soothe your bruised emotions with material things, but you want something more than his expensive gifts.

https://www.sauceandsound.com/2018/06/13/5-ways-to-know-youre-just-a-side-chick/

Kodiwithsauce:
You’ve seen his text messages and there’s no doubt he is seeing another woman. You confront him, screaming with tears pouring down from your eyes. He apologizes and begs you to forgive him. He promises a faithful relationship, where he would love, respect and care for you. You believe he would change for the better and your confrontation finally ends in a crazy make out session. But wait, have you ever tried to reason; what if you were actually the lady by the side and there's no way that he’d leave his wife or girlfriend for you instead?

Here we decide to explore the side-chick’s role, focusing particularly on how one would know she’s just a side piece and not the main in a certain romantic relationship. Some obvious signs you would have known or heard about. However, there are still some subtle signs you have actually never even thought of.

https://www.sauceandsound.com/2018/06/13/5-ways-to-know-youre-just-a-side-chick/

1. He acts awkwardly when you visit unscheduled
He doesn't seem to enjoy surprise visits from you. Every visit is carefully planned and strictly by his invitation. He avoids meeting you unexpectedly and acts far from his normal self when you accidentally bump into each other outside your normal arrangements, being either rude or just unromantic. He sticks to time when he's out on a date with you and doesn't bother extending the time you both spend together, giving you excuses like he has work to do or a meeting.

2. He barely invites you over to his place
He may not want you to know where he lives, not because he is broke or because of his embarrassing roommate, but he doesn't want you to get too comfortable at his place or be seen by his girlfriend. He prefers meeting you outside his apartment or at your own place, and when you ask to return the favor, he says he doesn't want you to stress yourself.

3. He talks freely about other girls in your presence
Maybe he constantly talks about other girls to a certain suspicious level, giving you hints that you might not the only he's seeing. He doesn't care if you get jealous or insecure. As long as he is concerned, giving that impression of a perfect partner is not a priority when it comes to you. Maybe he talks about the features he likes in a woman, and you find out he's not even talking about the features that you possess. On the other hand, talking about other girls to his girlfriend might just be one of his bad habits or he's just trying to make you jealous.

4. He only calls when he wants something
You go days without talking to each other and he doesn't even try to reply your texts. There's no argument between the both of you, but he tends to only contact you when he needs something. After that, everything goes back to the way it was. It could mean that he is seeing someone else and you only come to his mind when your assistance is needed. But before you start jumping into the conclusion that you're a side chick, you should check to see if you were just dating a needy man-child in the first place.

5.He doesn’t really care about your emotions
He sucks at listening to you and would only want you to do things for him. The relationship you have with him seems one sided, you care about how he feels but he doesn't seem to want to know about your emotions. He may try to soothe your bruised emotions with material things, but you want something more than his expensive gifts.

https://www.sauceandsound.com/2018/06/13/5-ways-to-know-youre-just-a-side-chick/

Do these ho.es even care if they are side chick or back chick? All they are after is money and d!cks..