It’s really tough to fight strong feelings that you have for
someone who is off-limits, not right for you, or who has
come into your life at a bad time. If you’re trying to
resist falling in love, search for independent fulfillment
in your life and distance yourself from the person you
have feelings for. Once you’ve found the right person
and you’re ready for love, work on accepting and
embracing it.
1. Focus on your personal goals.
Put the energy that you would spend on a relationship
into bettering yourself. Make a list of some ways that
you could improve yourself, and then pick one to work
towards that you think will really help you to feel happy
and proud of yourself. Develop a schedule and/or plan
that will help you accomplish this goal and stick to it
Make a goal to advance in your career or improve your
grades at school.
Make a goal to get into better shape. For example,
commit to going to the gym 4 days a week

2.Spend time with your family and friends.
Everyone needs to socialize with and feel supported by
others, whether single or in a relationship. Do fun
activities with family members and close friends that
you enjoy spending time with so that you feel connected
to others without being in a relationship. This can be
beneficial whether you’re going on a walk with just your
mom or are bowling with 15 of your classmates.
However, it might be a good idea to steer clear of
spending a lot of time with couples as a “third wheel,”
as this may make you feel lonely and/or left out.

3. Tap into your creativity. It can feel very empowering
to be in touch with your ideas and intelligence. Creating
anything you’re passionate about will allow you to
express yourself, which may help you feel happier. Sign
up for that improv class you’ve been putting off or work
on a couple of short stories in your free time if you love
writing.

4 . Ignore your inner critic. For one reason or another,
many people resist falling in love. If you really care for
someone in your life but you’re struggling to commit to
loving them, your own thought processes are likely to
blame.
Every time a thought like “Don’t trust them; you can’t
trust anyone,” or “They don’t love me; they’re just going
to hurt me,” pops into your head, dismiss the thought by
saying something like, “That’s just the fear talking,” or
“This isn’t my past relationship,” to yourself.

Source : www.uchehub.com.ng/2018/01/sure-way-to-resist-urge-to-fall-in-love.html?m=1

nice... i will never fall in love again, Bleep love.

agbonkamen:
nice... i will never fall in love again, Bleep love.

sorry, I know how excruciating it can be to be heartbroken, just had an experience also, it really gives sleepless nights.