According to this lady, toxic masculinity is teaching boys to be messy so that they can appear more masculine..

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/clean-boys-are-seen-as-girly-while-messy-boys-are-more-masculine-lady.html

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Capital Lie, I completely disagree with this deductions
Girly boys will forever remain girly whether clean or not while masculine boys will forever remain masculine whether they are clean or not

Her observation, her Wahala.

Naso

Nackzy:
Capital Lie, I completely disagree with this deductions
Girly boys will forever remain girly whether clean or not while masculine boys will forever remain masculine whether they are clean or not

Yes masculinity is not in being clean or messy, but in the physiq.

hisgrace090:



Yes masculinity is not in being clean or messy, but in the physic.

Physique? Absolutely not, physique is a gift and can be of different kinds but what makes you masculine is in your head

Gene mutation gat a lot to do here, one can still be masculine and still act girly.

One can also be skinny and still act muscline to the extent that girls respects him for his neatness and dominant traits.

Tajbol4splend:




Physique? Absolutely not, physique is a gift and can be of different kinds but what makes you masculine is in your head

In the head also accepted. Thanks or correction.

These are all semantics!

Masculinity is in the attitude.

How you say what you say!
And
How you do what you do!

Very simple.

I understand what she is trying to say though




But then again, most Gay boys are skinny.......

Very true, the other day I was reading on a thread on Facebook called IGBOIST.

most people labelled guys who took good care of themselves and their corner GAY. Girls were commenting saying some guys whom you walk into their apartment will quickly take broom and sweep the area where you just walked on. That act disgusted them.

Most were disgusted by the fact that some guys, iron their shirts, rub hair cream took care of their hair, polished their shoes and always wore neat clothes (general neatness really). They claimed that those who indulged in such acts are broke and gay

That the more dirty looking ones are the ones with money, so this poster isn't far from the truth atall. its how warped our mentality is. Even M.I sing am for song

IF YOU BE FINE BOY, DEM GO SAY IM TURN GAY - M.I

Nah before ooo no think am .... Very soon men self go dey wear fake everything ....

Fake chest
Fake hair
Fake voice .
Fake cucumber


Just wait and see ... We done dey learn how to sha pra pra ...

Any man wey no clean up ... Nah money do am so !!!!

I've observed this too in many cases, most guys that are extremely neat and too conscious of how they appear act alot like women.

But this ain't entirely true as their are masculine guys that are quiet neat too.

So you think bobrisky's case is because he's clean? I don't understand your point

my definition of girly and manly males
thank you

Just one of the many ways to trend on #BlackTwitter by Saying something stupid.
And you people went ahead and gave her what she wanted, by taking notice, commenting and retweeted the dumb Tweet even when you know it doesn't make sense and the person just wanted attention

Ok

delugajackson:
Very nice observation. But it all boils down to how you were brought up. I think our mothers saw the future already.

With the way these ladies lazy about these days, would it not be a thing of happiness to actually do your cooking, cleaning and tidying without waiting for a lady to do that for you? A typical Nigerian lady will cross her legs while you're sweeping. She will tell you she's not used to "hard life." Worst case, you both get married and she comes up with a nasty attitude. Refusing to cook because of some misunderstanding. You need to show her you're not disadvantaged in that regard.

Far from that, being clean should not considered as being girly. Rather, it is a responsibile attitude that stems from a childhood of discipline and orderliness. Privileged kids who have everything done for them end up becoming irresponsible adults afterwards. I see nothing masculine about not being able to wash your own clothes, fix your own meal and do your own cleaning.

U r one of the most intelligent people on this forum, ur comments r always reasonable and I look out for them!

Her opinion

interesting

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Priscy01:
According to this lady, toxic masculinity is teaching boys to be messy so that they can appear more masculine..

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/clean-boys-are-seen-as-girly-while-messy-boys-are-more-masculine-lady.html

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OP jux be capping bullshit, for my time nah all the cute clean guys dey pack all the babes

She said especially in secondary school. I think I agree with her on that.

Well done!! First class in Analysis of Men behaviour

Rubbish talk...next!

wether you are girly o or you are manly o or you are inbetween o...if you no get money, you are nothing o! Me I always wonder tho why naija gals tend to value their pussy so costly...And why naija guyz value their preek so lesssome of u can faka anything!

It's now official: Twitter gives stupid people a platform to showcase their talent.

If social media was non existent she would have kept the embarrassment associated with such tripe confined to her immediate surroundings.

Lol, does it concern me if anyone thinks of me as masculine or effeminate? I know what's between my legs, so what are they going on about?
I was brought up to be well groomed, to cook my meals, to clean my house and my surroundings.
Till today, I trim overgrown eye lashes and brows, pick nasal hairs, can't do without my hanky and I cook my meals. Anybody wey dey vex, make them con cut my deek