Ok, this is pretty bizarre and I think I am being silly. I have a lady I am dating. We were looking through some stuffs the other day and I saw an urn with some powder inside. I discovered it belonged to her ex who is late. They had 2 kids, never married and she had said he was an asshole who didn't care about her kids.
So I am here thinking, WTF is she keeping parts of his remains? I weak pass dodo.

Hmmm...the heart never forgets. Surely, they must have had some good moments together for them to make two whole babies. Let her keep whatever she wants to keep of him

I have a particular ex who is just as much an axxhole as anyone can be. My sis and friend can't bear to hear his name. But, I think I still care enough to pure plenty water on him when he's burning. This isn't because I'm nursing a comeback but I can't forget the good times I had with him. The times he had to go through serious hell just to see me...the many opportunity costs for him to take me to and fro work...several several other things. Yes, he's an axxhole o, but he had his good sides. My sis and friend didn't understand though

sisisioge:
Hmmm...the heart never forgets. Surely, they must have had some good moments together for them to make two whole babies. Let her keep whatever she wants to keep of him

I have a particular ex who is just as much an axxhole as anyone can be. My sis and friend can't bear to hear his name. But, I think I still care enough to pure plenty water on him when he's burning. This isn't because I'm nursing a comeback but I can't forget the good times I had with him. The times he had to go through serious hell just to see me...the many opportunity costs for him to take me to and fro work...several several other things. Yes, he's an axxhole o, but he had his good sides. My sis and friend didn't understand though

Honestly I weak...so you wouldn't think its strange if your current partner keeps pics and stuff from an ex relationship?

Holocene:


Honestly I weak...so you wouldn't think its strange if your current partner keeps pics and stuff from an ex relationship?

If the person is alive... I would. However, deceased, I won't hold it against him. You absolutely have nothing to worry about.

sisisioge:


If the person is alive... I would. However, deceased, I won't hold it against him. You absolutely have nothing to worry about.

I wish I hadn't been that snoopish but I just feel betrayed. She always talked bad about him so I felt no biggie but now I think its over

Dude was a thug and was in jail for drugs so I felt I was a big upgrade

The guys dick must be unforgettable

Holocene:


I wish I hadn't been that snoopish but I just feel betrayed. She always talked bad about him so I felt no biggie but now I think its over

Haaa! You are this jealous of a dead person? Dang! Even if she didn't keep his remains, do you not think the kids are constant reminders? Move past this biko and enjoy your relationship. If the ex were to be alive and she's holding on to pictures and other memorabilia, then your resolve would be grounded.

Besides, she could be keeping the ashes for their kids. Just ask her questions and enjoy your relationship.