Virgin wife, experienced husband, is it fair?

hard to find but hey, life ain't fair either
don't see anything wrong with that.
they will learn and teach each other
at least one of em is experienced.

The fact that she lied and was not straight in the beginning was wrong

i believe he married her for love not because he thought her hymen was intact.
what about all the virgin girls whose lot in life is to end up with over experienced men already infested with disease?
move on with your life jare!

Please what is d  fuss about.
           Much ado about virginity, serves him and all those who anchor their love on virginity, right. it's time 4 people to stop loving people because of ephemeral attributes that can be ther today, and gone 2moro. IF U CHOOSE TO REMAIN A VIRGIN AND SITUATION  IN LIFE FAVOURS YOU , DONT CRUCIFY OTHERS DAT DONT HAVE A SIMILAR FATE, IT'S DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS. What we shuld encourage is self- discipline  and tolerance.
  Some ladies get disvirgined through rape, or other forms of abuses and they still view themselves as virgins pending when they meet the right man. Others lose their virginity by having it removed surgically. some also through some strainous sports like horse riding . there are also those who remove their hymen consentingly through sex 4 reasons best known to them. Are u trying to tell me these ladies don't deserve  to have a shot @ marriage? 
          Are u God to decide whether it's fair or not?
      BUT IF HE FEELS HE HAS BEING SHORT CHANGED , HE SHULD TAKE HIS CASE TO THE SUPREME COURT.
   Instead of him to  concentrate on how to make his marriage work he is crying over split milk . If we really scrutinize him we 'll discover some traits worse than promiscuity.
MR SANCTIMONIOUS . NA YOU HOLY PASS
 

well said BIKINI
but the fact is that she lied, there is no reason to lie, it makes no since, if you lie about that what else you gonna lie about, but i do understand ur view, well said

Its unnecessary to lie in the first place. But if its ok for a virgin wife to marry non virgin husband. The reverse should not be an issue

It's not fair at all.

nothing in life is fair.
the earlier u realize it, the better, chin up n prepare to take ur advanced s,ex class, n u beta pray u hv a willing n patient teacher!

Lai-lai!! The wife should let her husband catch up!

Okija_juju:

Lai-lai!! The wife should let her husband catch up!

^^^True talk.

How can it be proved that a guy is a virgin?
Women are really suffering

nikkykay:

How can it be proved that a guy is a virgin?
Women are really suffering

How can you tell if a baseball bat is new or old?! Simple; Check it for wear, scratches and tear!!

nikkykay:

How can it be proved that a guy is a virgin?
Women are really suffering

Women are not suffering, it's called dignity!

I actually used to think that it didn't matter until i entered relationships in which the babes had slept with almost everyone that said "hi" to her.

The thought of the fact that someone if it's even only one had been with my "wife-to-be" kept haunting me and I knew I couldn't really live with it. , I better seek out someone who had never been with any guy.