yvyy:

@big-gy.thanks but i dnt wish to wait that long to mother a kid.while waiting for a miracle and smthing to happen ,we thot its an option to make d waiting comfortable.

Big-Man:

@yvyy - Have you and your spouse exhausted every medical examination that proved it is impossible for you to have a baby? If yes, I still advise it is too early to go for adoption just two years into your marriage rather turn your attention to God.

Experience has showed that couples can still make babies against medical tests after over 10yrs of marriage. Deep yourself in the Lord and see the life of Abraham and sarah as an encouragement that there is nothing God cannot do. Going for adoption now means accepting defeat so early and it doesn't show enough faith. I am not against adoption of a baby but it should be taking as the last resort.

Fhemmmy:


But please and please, if you are not sure you would love that kids the way you would have loved your own blood kids, please, leave them alone where they are, cos there are so many people that adopt, only to show those kids hell when they start having their own kids.

Good luck

yvyy:

@ african queen,fhemmmmy and dupsy, thanks y'll.u guys r right about d love thing.and afriqueen thanks for the encouragment. but u knw its not all abt damning wt other people say its also abt how they will relate it to the child when he/she is growing up.

also am not sure in my working place if i will be entitled to d 3 months maternity leave to takia of the baby if they knw its adopted baby.so wt do i do.my hubby doesnt want us to lie abt d kid so i also dnt knw hw his extended family will react to me and d baby on dat.

yvyy:

@ african queen,fhemmmmy and dupsy, thanks y'll.u guys r right about d love thing.and afriqueen thanks for the encouragment. but u knw its not all abt damning wt other people say its also abt how they will relate it to the child when he/she is growing up.

also am not sure in my working place if i will be entitled to d 3 months maternity leave to takia of the baby if they knw its adopted baby.so wt do i do.my hubby doesnt want us to lie abt d kid so i also dnt knw hw his extended family will react to me and d baby on dat.

dave247:

Though adoption is not a bad ideal, but for me i still believe your child will come soon. but 2 year is too fast for that, just be prayerful, Much love

chaircover:

iice sorry I just had to smile at your caption "bald guys dont have a bad hair day"

They do o!!  Don't you see how they sometimes rub pomade on their heads and it is shining.  Someday s the pomade is too shiny, someday's the is shining only on one side and so on 

rofl. .

deagleng:

Please House Advice Me, What should I do?

I am a man, 40 years of age, my spouse is 38; I got married nine years ago. My spouse had given birth to a baby girl while she was in Secondary school; the girl finished her SS 3 this year.

But since I got married to my wife, she had been unable to conceive. We’ve tried medical and native drugs none worked.

I suggested to my wife that we should adopt a baby, she refused, I suggested this because I love children and I want to have the one I could call mine.

I suggested to my wife nine years ago when we got wedded that she should let her daughter stay with us, she refused, the girl stayed with her parents.

Recently after, thorough medical examinations, it was discovered that I have low spermatozoa count, yet my wife did not cooperate with me on the said adoption.

Advice me, what do I do?