It is alarming the rate at which relationships crash these days. As such, this tread will discuss the main reason for our failed relationships. This is necessary so that those who are still in it can learn a thing or two from your story and maybe, make it to the alter.


For me, everything was moving fine till she developed this attitude of verbally abusing me whenever there was an issue. At a time, we went for a date and talked about it at length that it won't happen again. We also agreed that whenever it does happen, it will be the end of our affair. She couldn't keep to that promise.

Let's hear from you friends...

After three months in a relationship, i get tired and bored. I stop calling or texting, stop showing the care i showed before. Always needing a break. I don't know what's wrong. i've tried to go much longer but i can't.

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I Playfully Kissed Another Girl

IamPlato:
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I Playfully Kissed Another Girl

She got to know?

Op, mine was similar to yours coupled with the fact that she cannot manage her anger... she has got a big ego that she feels she owes no one any apology when she is wrong until she feels like


Before we broke up, we had a little disagreement and she angrily left my place, expecting me to call her back and apologize as I always do. But I did no such. I was tired already. so I never call her again and she too did not call me till today. That was how the relationship ended. After a month I blocked her from all social media.


Thank God I have found a better woman now.

CeeteeBoii:
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What's this for?

peerless0012:
Op, mine was similar to yours coupled with the fact that she cannot manage her anger... she has got a big ego that she feels she owes no one any apology when she is wrong until she feels like


Before we broke up, we had a little disagreement and she angrily left my place, expecting me to call her back and apologize as I always do. But I did no such. I was tired already. so I never call her again and she too did not call me till today. That was how the relationship ended. After a month I blocked her from all social media.


Thank God I have found a better woman now.

Were u the cause of the misunderstanding?

Respect55:
What's this for?

That's space booking. Lol. I've modified it though.

Respect55:
She got to know?

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Yes o... I Dont Even Know How...

IamPlato:
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Yes o... I Dont Even Know How...

On a serious note I don't understand what u mean by 'Playfully...'
All the same, u were to kiss her alone and peck others at most

CeeteeBoii:
After three months in a relationship, i get tired and bored. I stop calling or texting, stop showing the care i showed before. Always needing a break. I don't know what's wrong. i've tried to go much longer but i can't.

Dnt u think u need to be counselled lest it starts manifesting after u tie the knot?

Respect55:

Were u the cause of the misunderstanding?

Not really. Actually, she threatened to leave my place saying I was talking to her anyhow. Meanwhile she is this type of person that will insult you anytime she is angry. But once you do the same to her, she explodes.

I just told her if she wanted to leave she should leave immediately. And that was it.

Respect55:
On a serious note I don't understand what u mean by 'Playfully...' All the same, u were to kiss her alone and peck others at most

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Actually I Deliberately Kissed The Girl

peerless0012:


Not really. Actually, she threatened to leave my place saying I was talking to her anyhow. Meanwhile she is this type of person that will insult you anytime she is angry. But once you do the same to her, she explodes.

I just told her if she wanted to leave she should leave immediately. And that was it.

One can easily infer the relationship wasn't healthy ab-initio

IamPlato:
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Actually I Deliberately Kissed The Girl

Look at where it landed u

I found out that he was married.

DaphneBr:
I found out that he was married.

Didn't u ask from the start?

Respect55:

One can easily infer the relationship wasn't healthy ab-initio

She was not that way from the beginning. She was all loving respectful. But it was all pretense. I got to know her true color when we spent time together.

Meanwhile, lots of guys were always on her neck for relationship. She felt was hot cakes and so can do whatever pleases her.

Also, she was a virgin and that might also added to her misbehavior somehow

Respect55:

Look at where it landed u

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I'm Loved By People Easily.


That Happened Last Year August. From Then Till Now, i Have Had 4 girls... I Know Its Not Right but I'm Just Trying To Say, I Dont Get freaked by Any Girl, neither Do I Go Head Over Hill

mmmm

Respect55:

Dnt u think u need to be counselled lest it starts manifesting after u tie the knot?

Seriously,that's my fear. I believe it could affect me when i'm ready to walk down the the aisle and i never wanna have any divorce record

peerless0012:


She was not that way from the beginning. She was all loving respectful. But it was all pretense. I got to know her true color when we spent time together.

Meanwhile, lots of guys were always on her neck for relationship. She felt was hot cakes and so can do whatever pleases her.

Also, she was a virgin and that might also added to her misbehavior somehow

Do u think k there were things u weren't doing right as well?
To add to mine, I asked for respect and submission, she saw it as slavery

IamPlato:
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I'm Loved By People Easily.


That Happened Last Year August. From Then Till Now, i Have Had 4 girls... I Know Its Not Right but I'm Just Trying To Say, I Dont Get freaked by Any Girl, neither Do I Go Head Over Hill

U need to change that mindset now.

CeeteeBoii:


Seriously,that's my fear. I believe it could affect me when i'm ready to walk down the the aisle and i never wanna have any divorce record

U need to confront that 'fear '. Visit a psychologist or ur pastor if u go to church

Respect55:
U need to change that mindset now.

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Why

Respect55:

U need to confront that 'fear '. Visit a psychologist or ur pastor if u go to church

Thanks for the advice

IamPlato:
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Why

Engaging and disengaging frequently. It might turn out to be normal to u with time

CeeteeBoii:


Thanks for the advice

All the best

I bought this space for 100,000 nairaland naira and the head of Abacha.

Nobody can take it away from me!

Respect55:

Engaging and disengaging frequently. It might turn out to be normal to u with time

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I Have Stopped It Actually

IamPlato:
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I Have Stopped It Actually

Good

Well, he was in a serious relationship with someone else and he lied PRA PRA to me that he's single and focusing on his career, only for me to know after 5 months that he's dating someone that even spends time in his family house, and he even denied it telling me she's his sister, may God help us all...At times I wonder what I did to him to did serve such..