oweniwe:

@ tpia & ileke-idi.  Mr. Cork Is yoruba jor! Otherwise, he wouldn't be criticising igbo celebrities anyhow, and his "writing accent" (no oofeinse) if you study it carefully is yoruba. 190 is definitely yoruba (don't forget that his NL wife, omolola is yoruba). Dobodobo is definitely yoruba. Why can't you people own up? I guess its coz nobody wants to be associated with them. . . . And make una no call me tribalist o. Grew up in abeokuta (my second home), so i can spot out any yoruba coz they have a pattern of communication (like the don't argue too much like the igbo or hausa. They just tell you their mind go.

oweniwe:

My brother o. Na jokes section i de hang out now. I de kill english for here . . . https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-492003.1280.html Una argue argue argue about delta igbo, ikwerre igbo, sand sand igbo na im drive me commot from here

excanny:

Dear, dont be worried. Believe, igbos are the most accommodating i've seen in this world. Why? Igbos are very migratory in nature. They cannot to be hostile to strangers because most times they are often strangers. Probably you are yoruba. She worked in Lagos? Many igbos who lived/worked in Lagos develop what i call 'retaliatory dislike' (myself inclusive) due to the unwelcome attitude of the locals to immigrants. Its your boyfriend that will 'sell' you to his mum, together with your attitude. Normally, igbo girls are raised to be hardworking, they do all stuff of tough task, like ride bicycles. I'm not saying you ride a bicycle, just showing how tough igbo girls are expected to be. If you are not lousy and industrious, you'll be good enough for any igbo mother-in-law and accepted.

oludashmi:

You said in one of your posts that Igbo girls that marry Yoruba men are products of inferiority complex,. Now are you advising this lady (another tribe) to become a product of inferiority complex by marrying an igbo man cos it is a natural phenomenal.

excanny:

1. Funmi, bawo?  Se o si wa ni Lag. Moni cousin mi kan l'eko ti oma trip fun ti o ba ri. He's the kind of Igbo product that Yoruba girls roll themselves over for(fair, tall and cute). O complain fun mi pe awon girls Yoruba won je ki ohun gbadun. Mo fe ki o meet tie someday.


Ok, back to your question. 
An Igbo man, on the other hand, will do everything to protect his wife and marriage because they just dont have the time to be looking for '2. ale', or for philandering with everything in skirts.

This why a Yoruba woman  or 3. any other women are better protected in the arms of an Igbo man than vice versa.
I speak the truth, babe.(no ofeinse).
Maa send mail si e soon concerning cousin mi.

1. O ti n cra.ze ti pe. . . ti awon omo yoruba ba n roll fun cousin e, ki lode ti ko ti mu ikan ninu won, he is just looking for a way to avoid purchasing a girl as if he was buying a house in Ikoyi. . . he wants a place they will tell him we are not for sale and do not sell our children

2. As for 'ale', there is no man on this planet earth including 'clergy men' who is not polygamous by nature, given same parameters! And looking at our forefathers (all over Nig and Africa, SA president has more than 5 wives), they used it as a means of explaining how wealthy they were cos the number of wives, children and pple they catered for justified their affluence! Se o mo pe there is no bas.ta.rd in Igbo land, all children (proven or not) MUST be accepted by the husband, hence they dont do DNA like other tribes even though their women are the only ones who keep giving birth to whites in the name of genetic mistake lol. (no offence).

My neighbour from Ebonyi, his present wife is the third (wives are from Imo and Anambra), and the probability of sending her away btw this yr and the next is 95% and take the forth. The two women have thereby re-married.

3. Also, 60% of the married men who have approached me (sincerely) are Igbos who have vowed to their wives that there is no one else after them . . . . I even know one in Ikeja right now who already has a second wife in Ikorodu but the wife doesnt know and he is still trying to woo me. A calabar friend of mine who married Igbo just got to know that he has 3 kids in the US. Two different friends of mine (Yoruba) who married your pple has called me twice (God is my witness) that I should avoid them cos they are not real. So what's your point?

An Nnewi born and bred colleague has vowed never to marry an Igbo and her boy friends are always either Yoruba or Edo, she said she wont say more than that. If she eventually marries Edo or Yoruba, you pp;e will say a Yoruba man has married another Igbo girl instead of saying she has just escaped from the lion's den.

So have it in mind that Yoruba men do theirs in public while Igbo men do it in hidden. . . all the same, men are men!!

Inked_Nerd:


When did you ask me out? .  So, you're always in the politics section?

excanny:

^^^ lol.
What gets me is that their targets are usually their friends' wives or daughters. They are even known to sleep with their own daughters, which is kind of exclusive to them minus the 'calabars'. They see it as some kind of 'superiority conquest'. It has to be a married woman for the thrill to be achieved. It's publicly encouraged and celebrated. It is further encouraged by the muslim polygamists among your people. I dont want that kind of destiny for my sisters. Yoruba women are used to it and it's fine if they like it.

excanny:

^^^ lol.
1. Yes, once in a while you find an Igbo married man with such tendencies, but believe me, they are largely in the minority. That's why like you said 2. we dont bother about DNA tests because unfaithfulness is rare and a strange concept. 3. The belief is that the gods of the land will kill such a woman or 4. man that flirts outside their matrimonial home.

1. Not once in a while at all.
2. I grew up see that it is possible for a woman to be 4-5 months pregnant for her husband who has been out of the country for over a year and everyone (Yoruba, calabar, hausa around) thought the man will send her packing when he arrived but he PROUDLY said it is forbidden to reject the pregnancy in Igbo culture cos anything that comes out of her is his this is just one of the many i have seen but I dont want to expose you

3. That my Nnewi colleague brings 2 of her friends (married) who live in PH and Enugu to the office but you know the secret, they come to Lag and any other part of Nig where market is high to meet their men friends (also married), take enough money from them and go back to their husbands, THEY ARE HIGHLY FAITHFUL indeed. . . .leave faithfulness jo, it is an individual thing, no tribe, no race judgement. . . . they used to share their secrets with me but ever since I told them to stop it, they started excluding me frm their discussions.

3. Beliefs were effective in every culture b4 the arrival of the colonial masters . . . .but at their arrival, they brought us education and christianity then told us that our beliefs were mere superstitions and baseless so we started doing the abomination things secretly and nothing happened to us, hence we got to know that beliefs are things of the mind.

4. Even men? You are a big liar. Cos all your fore-fathers should have died and your name shouldnt have been heard cos they all had more than one wives and concubines. . . .leave lies for coming children

excanny:

^^^ lol.
The embrace of Christianity from the europeans imbibed monogamy into our psyche and nothing can change that. An Igbo man can never be too BOLD bringing a second wife into his home. His mother must not hear it.

You know you guyz say so much about us cos you are scattered around our land and see us, whereas you have forgotten that worst things are happening in the SE where my pple, your pple and other tribes are far less.

Will be going to your village this december? When was the last time you even visited?

oludashmi:

[color=#000099]Hmmnn, infact, there is no better way to describe you than a shallow minded. Where you not here on NL in June when a man's 12 years girl was carrying his 7months old baby in delta state and Igbos quickly disowned them that they are not Igbo, later you will be dragging them to be Igbo by force but neglect them at any negative thing.

oludashmi:


I grew up see that it is possible for a woman to be 4-5 months pregnant for her husband who has been out of the country for over a year and everyone (Yoruba, calabar, hausa around) thought the man will send her packing when he arrived but he PROUDLY said it is forbidden to reject the pregnancy in Igbo culture cos anything that comes out of her is his this is just one of the many i have seen but I dont want to expose you.

You know you guyz say so much
about us cos you are scattered
around our land and see us,
whereas you have forgotten that
worst things are happening in
the SE where my pple, your pple
and other tribes are far less.

Will be going to your village this
december? When was the last
time you even visited?

excanny:

What gets me is that their targets are usually their friends' wives or daughters. They are even known to sleep with their own daughters, which is kind of exclusive to them minus the 'calabars'. They see it as some kind of 'superiority conquest'. It has to be a married woman for the thrill to be achieved. It's publicly encouraged and celebrated. It is further encouraged by the muslim polygamists among your people. I dont want that kind of destiny for my sisters. Yoruba women are used to it and it's fine if they like it.

chic2pimp:

You sir are an Airhead. . . . . . Or do you have any evidence to show that Incest is exclusive to only the Yoruba and Calabar tribe?

How some can type so much yet fail to say anything meaningful really beats me.

chic2pimp:

You sir are an Airhead. . . . . . Or do you have any evidence to show that Incest is exclusive to only the Yoruba and Calabar tribe?

How some can type so much yet fail to say anything meaningful really beats me.

excanny:

Sharrapp, dia. You want me to start washing Yoruba's dirty linen in public by digging up news items? Like i told oludashmi i just want to speak the truth, not to cause oofeinse.

Yoruba peeps are my people. They schooled me, get it?

excanny:

Sharrapp, dia. You want me to start washing Yoruba's dirty linen in public by digging up news items? Like i told oludashmi i just want to speak the truth, not to cause oofeinse.

Yoruba peeps are my people. They schooled me, get it?

Ileke-IdI:

My brother, I don't know o.

Yet some of the outrageous stuff I've heard. . .

Yorubas have more divorce cases
Igbos have less divorce cases
Yorubas commit more incest
Igbos that marry Yorubas suffer from inferiority complex
Yorubas commit more despoil
Yorubas can fly

Self-glorifying ppl. . . . I'd have understood this if we atleast have some VALID stats.

sbeezy8:

is excanny a girl?

Actually i'll say sth thats quite politically incorrect. No proper igbo girl will marry a yourba cock(i mean born and breed in igboland).
Most of the igbo girls who are born in yourbaland(especially Lagos) grow up with some form of inferiority complex. I've personally met quite a number. Usually they speak little or no igbo, are unfamiliar with igbo culture, but fluent in yourba.
So yourba cocks with no game to hook up a yourba chick find these as easier prey. Ofcourse they usually falld to find 'solace' for their inferiority complex(not all though)
So for a yourba cock to marry an igbo girl 2 conditions must be met:
1. The igbo girl is breed in yourbaland, usually speaks yourba, culturally disconnected from her native igbo homeland.
2. The yourba cock has no game to get a yourba girl.
From my findings and interveiws on inter-tribal relationships, its the same reasons why you have more hausa men marrying yourba girls. Many of my hausa friends have yourba wives

sbeezy8:


na only igbo gals that like to pump themselves up as if theyre more desired than other babes from other tribes and na only igbo guys who get problem with seeing igbo babes marry any NON eastern guy. HAHAHA

stillwater:

Ehn ehn, slow your roll. Is it an Igbo girl that started this thread? Better face the poster o.