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"Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by IamHeWrites: 6:39am On Aug 23, 2018
Open marriage is the type of marriage where the man and the woman with each other's consent, are allowed to cheat.

is it really being practiced in Nigeria?

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9546/do-people-practice-open-marriage-in-nigeria-lady.html

Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by HeWrites(m): 6:39am On Aug 23, 2018
undecided

Yes, We do but without each others consent.

But our madams practice it most.

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Ytea(f): 6:43am On Aug 23, 2018
Not this Nigeria, they both may cheat steady but none must find the other out. That's how this works in Nigeria.

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by starpower(m): 6:44am On Aug 23, 2018
We dem plenty but like our politicians we no dey declare asset.

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by izzou(m): 6:58am On Aug 23, 2018
undecided

What is now the essence of the marriage?

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Olalan(m): 7:02am On Aug 23, 2018
We don't do such in Nigeria......but a peep into most marriages would reveal cheating is happening codedly by both parties

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by mofeoluwadassah: 7:35am On Aug 23, 2018
If you're caught by ur spouse....na die be that o cheesy grin

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by SirMichael1: 7:58am On Aug 23, 2018
mofeoluwadassah:
If you're caught by ur spouse....na die be that o cheesy grin

Are you sure you know what open marriage means??

How can you be caught by your spouse and be made a public spectacle when you both have agreed to fück around?

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Nobody: 8:03am On Aug 23, 2018
Nigerian men will not like this this, they prefer to have the open marriage if it only favours them.

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by mofeoluwadassah: 8:04am On Aug 23, 2018
SirMichael1:


Are you sure you know what open marriage means??

How can you be caught be your spouse and be made a public spectacle when you both have agreed to fück around?
it's not possible for you and your spouse to agree to that here in Nigeria bro.....you either do it secretly and be save for some time or you do it openly and be caught ASAP

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Auladimeji(m): 8:12am On Aug 23, 2018
Colourich:
Nigerian men will not like this this, they prefer to have the open marriage if it only favours them.

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by phrancys001(m): 8:12am On Aug 23, 2018
Yes they do but accompanied by open stabbing with intestines gushing out.

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by SirMichael1: 8:16am On Aug 23, 2018
mofeoluwadassah:
it's not possible for you and your spouse to agree to that here in Nigeria bro.....you either do it secretly and be save for some time or you do it openly and be caught ASAP


Don't say it is impossible for two married humans to agree for an open marriage. That's shortsighted of you.

Just as marriages are closed here, there are also open marriages.

Imagine a marriage that was setup by the parent of both spouse and these couples do not like themselves one bit. So they agree within themselves to see other people but never get anyone pregnant or get pregnant.

Or a scenario where two party knowing their sexual orientation as Gay anf Lesbian agrees to get married to avoid the prying eyes of extremely concerned Nigerians. Now these two persons will never find themselves interested in each other so why is it impossible to see others?

Think beyond your horizon!

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Lapalapa: 8:18am On Aug 23, 2018
Open marriage? Haven't heard of that... But open relationship, sure, sure n very sure
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by mofeoluwadassah: 8:19am On Aug 23, 2018
SirMichael1:



Don't say it is impossible for two married humans to agree for an open marriage. That's shortsighted of you.

Just as marriages are closed here, there are also open marriages.

Imagine a marriage that was setup by the parent of both spouse and these couples do not like themselves one bit. So they agree within themselves to see other people but never get anyone pregnant or get pregnant.

Or a scenario where two party knowing their sexual orientation as Gay anf Lesbian agrees to get married to avoid the prying eyes of extremely concerned Nigerians. Now these two persons will never find themselves interested in each other so why is it impossible to see others?

Think beyond your horizon!
ok have heard you

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Wilfredpat22(f): 9:13am On Aug 23, 2018
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from??

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Amberon1: 9:18am On Aug 23, 2018
Lmao grin
phrancys001:
Yes they do but accompanied by open stabbing with intestines gushing out.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Amberon1: 9:24am On Aug 23, 2018
Such reasoning has caused more harm than good to humanity. There is nothing like open marriage here. There is also nothing like sexual preference here. Marriage is only between man and wife.
That someone doesn't subscribe to your satanic belief doesn't mean they don't have a broad horizon.

From open marriage to homosexuality to transgerism to bestiality to gender binary/fluidity to paedophilia and very soon we will be forced to accept incestuous relationships too.
SirMichael1:



Don't say it is impossible for two married humans to agree for an open marriage. That's shortsighted of you.

Just as marriages are closed here, there are also open marriages.

Imagine a marriage that was setup by the parent of both spouse and these couples do not like themselves one bit. So they agree within themselves to see other people but never get anyone pregnant or get pregnant.

Or a scenario where two party knowing their sexual orientation as Gay anf Lesbian agrees to get married to avoid the prying eyes of extremely concerned Nigerians. Now these two persons will never find themselves interested in each other so why is it impossible to see others?

Think beyond your horizon!

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Abbeyme: 11:11am On Aug 23, 2018
Lubbish
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by 3millionia: 11:12am On Aug 23, 2018
HeWrites:
undecided

Yes, We do but without each others consent.

But our madams practice it most.





*coughs*
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by slightlyMad(f): 11:13am On Aug 23, 2018
Ytea:
Not this Nigeria, they both may cheat steady but none must find the other out. That's how this works in Nigeria.

That is your answer righr there honey

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by kolafolabi(m): 11:13am On Aug 23, 2018
Open marriage is a marriage or relationship in which both partners agree that each may have sexual relations with others.

That cannot be possible.

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by dafemnet: 11:14am On Aug 23, 2018
Funny thread
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by YorubaEmir: 11:14am On Aug 23, 2018
What a stewpid inconsequential question
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by zicoraads: 11:14am On Aug 23, 2018
Will religion and culture allow it?

But as much as it isn't widespread, I think I know of a couple who actually did this. The man had this lady he was always seen around with. The wife had this guy drop her off on few occasions. It was in the barracks and everyone wondered why the man especially was always acting all cool and all. I think a few people that met him to tell him about his wife, he told them to mind their business.

They never had a child too.

But I cannot for the life of me even think of another man on my girlfriend, not to talk of wife. Not in this lifetime!

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by ebig21(m): 11:14am On Aug 23, 2018
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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by blackgold90(m): 11:14am On Aug 23, 2018
SirMichael1:



Don't say it is impossible for two married humans to agree for an open marriage. That's shortsighted of you.

Just as marriages are closed here, there are also open marriages.

Imagine a marriage that was setup by the parent of both spouse and these couples do not like themselves one bit. So they agree within themselves to see other people but never get anyone pregnant or get pregnant.

Or a scenario where two party knowing their sexual orientation as Gay anf Lesbian agrees to get married to avoid the prying eyes of extremely concerned Nigerians. Now these two persons will never find themselves interested in each other so why is it impossible to see others?

Think beyond your horizon!
bros i envy the dry vegetable you dey smoke...where did you buy them

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by alizma: 11:15am On Aug 23, 2018
HeWrites:
undecided
Yes, We do but without each others consent.
But our madams practice it most.
consent is the center point here.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Bizibi(m): 11:15am On Aug 23, 2018
Amberon1:
Such reasoning has caused more harm than good to humanity. There is nothing like open marriage here. There is also nothing like sexual preference here. Marriage is only between man and wife.
That someone doesn't subscribe to your satanic belief doesn't mean they don't have a broad horizon.

From open marriage to homosexuality to transgerism to bestiality to gender binary/fluidity to paedophilia and very soon we will be forced to accept incestuous relationships too.
that will be the end of civilization if majority of the world's population accept incest as norm......

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by SirMichael1: 11:18am On Aug 23, 2018
Amberon1:
Such reasoning has caused more harm than good to humanity. There is nothing like open marriage here. There is also nothing like sexual preference here. Marriage is only between man and wife.
That someone doesn't subscribe to your satanic belief doesn't mean they don't have a broad horizon.

From open marriage to homosexuality to transgerism to bestiality to gender binary/fluidity to paedophilia and very soon we will be forced to accept incestuous relationships too.
There's nothing like open marriage here but there's something like a cheating spouse right? There's someone like Bobrisky here right? They're forced marriages planned by parents here in Nigeria right? They're gays living amongst y'all rights?

Why don't y'all stop your fūcking hypocrisy and instead of sneaking around to fūck behind your spouse, sit and sign a contract of an open marriage with a time span?

Son, if you keep perusing through my posts and keep giving me needless mentions, I'll give you what you're looking for.

Also, that nonsense isn't the pattern of evolution of relationships or whatever you meant it to be. No one can force you to do something you don't want but only make you see reasons to do them.

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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by RexTramadol1: 11:18am On Aug 23, 2018
From open marriage to




Open heavens!

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