Many people have grown up believing that falling in love would be in a similar fashion to the fairytales we see on the big screen. The notion of this fantasy love, otherwise called fairytale romance is a contemporary topic that makes one wonder; does it exist or do people merely need a little reality check?
Some people daydream about romantic moments with prospective lovers with whom they would embark on an erotic picnic in a beautiful park, or one who will sit side-by-side with them on a beach, under a balmy weather, beholding the beauty of the horizon. They also dream of a perfect relationship, where they will find the perfect lover who does everything right, and always makes them happy. To this end, fairytales provide the perfect escape to this "perfect" world that holds the perfect partner.
Fairytales create the impression that love at first sight is the norm, and that relationships are based on (unbelievably) high chemistry and strong mutual attraction. Little surprise that the hugely popular Disney animation, ‘Frozen', portrays a young woman who is swept off her feet by a handsome Prince just after a day of their meeting. How flimsy is that?
In a similar way, a Prince falls in love with Cinderella in just one night. And his clichéd romance would make him have the whole kingdom searched in order to find his “true love”. Can such be envisaged in reality?
The idea behind this fantasy love completely bypasses the process of relationship formation of mutual affection, understanding, trust and creating a lasting friendship with the person you may want to commit to.
In fairytale romance, people skip this process and relationships are formed almost instantly. Nowadays, it is not uncommon the you see lovers tying the nuptial knot only after weeks of meeting. It is safe to say that they simply got attracted to each other almost immediately and got carried away by the heat of the moment. Such is an instance of fairytale romance, which in the world we live today, won't last long.
Given the fact that these lovers did not take their time to understand each other better and root their friendship before walking down the aisle, they are most likely to end up with a broken relationship sooner than later.
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