Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,162,800 members, 7,851,694 topics. Date: Thursday, 06 June 2024 at 05:44 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Never Do This (1062 Views)
Never Do This by frankkky: 9:32am On Jul 08, 2010 |
never put down or talk down about your brothers or sisters to your spouse,it will always backfire,i see some peeps always making this mistake |
Re: Never Do This by neily(f): 12:59pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
Really? But can u talk down about ur spouse to ur brothers or sisters? |
Re: Never Do This by browncocos(f): 12:59pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
NEVER DO THIS Never put down or talk down about your SPOUSE in front of your family,friends and sister,brothers It will always back fire A lot of people keep making this mistake! |
Re: Never Do This by neily(f): 1:02pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
Really? But can u talk down about ur spouse to ur brothers or sisters? |
Re: Never Do This by browncocos(f): 1:16pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
neily: i wonder my sister? |
Re: Never Do This by Spyker: 1:59pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
I really think it is all about character and upbringing. If you were brought up in such a manner, that's how you will behave. IMO, it goes both ways i.e. for the man and the woman. |
Re: Never Do This by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
. |
Re: Never Do This by mutter(f): 7:47pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
How true this is some of us only realise after making that mistake |
Re: Never Do This by MrsSiena1(f): 9:10pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
Well I believe that when you have issues with your brothers or sisters you can discuss it with your spouse without putting them down. And also you don't tell your brothers or sisters about some issues concerning your spouse. What happens between you and your partner should be your business and what happens between you and your brothers and sisters is your business too but only to be discussed with yr spouse. |
Re: Never Do This by whiteroses(f): 11:33pm On Jul 08, 2010 |
good info thanks |
Re: Never Do This by Outstrip(f): 8:51pm On Jul 09, 2010 |
Mrs. Siena:For the most part. It still depends on the spouse though. It definitely goes both ways because when you guys have ironed out issues others will still be carrying it on their head. |
Re: Never Do This by tpiah: 8:59pm On Jul 09, 2010 |
if the brother or sister is acting up or otherwise messing up and has already become the talk of the town, then not brainstorming the situation with your spouse might achieve nothing. however, i see the op's point. Not everyone is mature enough to know how to handle information. the spouse should also not act immaturely since any relative from either side can have issues. of course i'm assuming the marriage is a normal one and not the cat and mouse games that pass for relationships these days. this is why they say it takes a village and also why african cultures consider marriage a serious matter-you're marrying regardless how much love nwatintin dey do una. anyway, prayer is more important. |
(1) (Reply)
What Is Your Take On Inter Tribal Marriage? / Why Are Nigerian Thoughts About Spiritualism Different From White Men's? / How To Make Your Wife Happy
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 12 |