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| Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Oct 03, 2018 |
The Bible condemns re-marrying when your spouse is still alive; but why do some pastors encourage it?? Are they reading newspaper or the Bible?? Some churches even join couples who have divorced and spouse is still alive.. The only supported re-marriage is when ones spouse is dead... Add your contribution, but if you disagree, create your own Bible... 20 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 1:55pm On Oct 03, 2018 |
Re- Marrying while your spouse is alive is Adultery, No matter who conducts such Marriage.... Infact it's not a marriage.. it's an act of Immorality! See Matt 19:6-9 44 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Ubenedictus(m): 2:15pm On Oct 03, 2018 |
olsome:That is wrong, a validly married person can't be remarried while their patner is still alive unless he is an unbeliever according to paul. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by budaatum: 2:48pm On Oct 03, 2018 |
Ubenedictus:Even after divorce and both parties have gone their separate ways? I guess that's one reason why people don't follow what the Bible says and write their own! 13 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Ubenedictus(m): 7:55pm On Oct 03, 2018 |
budaatum:civil divorce does not seperate a valid marriage according to Jesus any attempt to remarry is adultery. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by budaatum: 2:33pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
Ubenedictus:Oh well, he divorced her (or vice versa) they were 28 at the time with no kids. Most people would rather get on with their life and remarry than wait for their ex to die, while some might just kill the ex if they believe they shouldn't remarry till ex dies. Wasn't Jesus just against divorce anyway? 6 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 8:21pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
olsome: Righteousness89: Ubenedictus: Matt 19:6-9 v9"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS, and marries another woman commits adultery" From a biblical standpoint, Jesus himself approved divorce when one or both spouses goes outside the marriage arena , which violates the marriage union (Hebrew 13:4. 1 Cor 7:2). The other option is forgiveness, if U don't wanna go the divorce route (Col 3:12-14) "Bear with each other & forgive whatever grievances you may have against another." Pls shine your eyes here.... with understanding. If a spouse quits his /her marriage, to carry on with another woman/man, that spouse is guilty of defilement of the marriage union. He is an unbeliever (who no longer believes in) your marriage,so let him/her go. Nsogbu adighi. Pls Go obtain a legal divorce & set yourself free to remarry again. "But if an unbeliever leaves, let him/her do so. A believing man or woman is NOT BOUND IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES. " 1 Cor 7:15. Because she divorced a serial cheat & Casanova, make she no marry again ? Dump that crap into a dustbin!!! . Go & marry again. It's your God-given right. "For God has called you to live in peace". NOT in pieces of emotional trauma ,man made induced guilt & stigma. 54 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 8:38pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
TRUE LIFE Story... A married couple lived together for a decade with out any issues. The man was a serial cheat & philanderer. He infected her with STD.& coupled with taunts from in laws over her childless state. She was heartbroken. She meticulously gathered all the evidence she needed & eventually sued for divorce. The Court of Law annulled the marriage. Today this woman has remarried & she is a proud mother of two kids in a happy & stable marriage.. God allows divorce & it's NO SIN to remarry when your former spouse is alive. God has called you to peace not man made bondage or stigma. 45 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 9:23pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
OneJ:Bro Read the Bible with Understanding.. Matthew 19:6-9 is very clear... V.9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. If you hv to put away your wife, you are not permitted to Marry another woman. The Bible says Marriage is till death do you part.. The Bible cannot contradict itself.. Death is the the only thing permitted for a man to Re-Marry.. GOD even hates Divorce see Malachi 2:16 14 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 1:06am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Righteousness89: Bro , God hates sin but accepts repentant sinners (2chr 33:1,6,10-13). Likewise God hated the divorce that ancient Israelites obtained on flimsy excuses. "Jesus replied ,'Moses permitted you to divorce your wife because your hearts were hard.'." Mal 2:14, Matt 19:3,7,8. Jesus said "MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS" (adultress/adulterer) of either spouse is a valid reason for divorce, that is dissolution of the marriage covenant. Matt 19:9. If that marriage union is not properly dissolved, U commit adultery when U marry him/her. Apostle Paul said that death dissolves a marriage covenant. Romans 7:2,3 . Going by Jesus explicit statement in Matt19:9 & Paul's epistle in Rom7:2,3, "By Law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive". In other words , a woman divorced for "marital unfaithfulness" is not bound to any husband whether dead or alive. That is, a woman/man commits adultery when she/he marries someone whose marriage union (that is, their previous marriage ) was not properly dissolved, (either traditionally by the refund of bride price or a Court of Law). The violation of a covenant by either party to the agreement renders it null & void. The proper dissolution of any marriage sets both partners free. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by bedspread: 8:30am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Righteousness89: 2 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by bedspread: 8:32am On Oct 07, 2018 |
[s] OneJ:[/s]Bro , Heaven and Earth Will pass but the Word of GOD will not... There is No Modification to the WORD OF GOD (The Bible) GOD hates Divorce Malachi 2:16, Matt 19:6 Re-Marrying when your spouse is Alive is an act of Adultery... 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by obaataaokpaewu: 8:32am On Oct 07, 2018 |
That's the gospel reading for today 5 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by akeentech(m): 8:32am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Oh! this scripture is as confused as it's readers 3 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Olohunjedalo(m): 8:32am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Righteousness89:The buybull is even confused . 3 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Nobody: 8:33am On Oct 07, 2018 |
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| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Splasshhh(f): 8:34am On Oct 07, 2018 |
This is shit Why handle marital affairs like any other business contract. Who does this shit and feels cool about it. I am beginning to hate this guy jooor. Please, checkout my handle 2 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Partnerbiz(f): 8:34am On Oct 07, 2018 |
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| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by XaviDayo(m): 8:35am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Why e be say I don't get asked the question if I am a Christian before being able to comment here. But if na Friday, Seun go put one nonsense caveat before person fit talk im mind. Double standard 12 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Jettage: 8:35am On Oct 07, 2018 |
OneJ: You are a good student of the bible 4 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by CuteMadridista: 8:35am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Christianity is synonymous with confusion. if you doubt this just read the thread and see how Christians disagree with each other despite claiming to have the "leading" of the same "Holy Spirit" 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by edeXede: 8:36am On Oct 07, 2018 |
 This is why muslims make jest of christian doctrines. Some christian cant explain or seems not comprehend whta is written in the bible. The bible makes it explicitly clear that you are only allowed to file for divorce only if one of the spouse committed adultery and only if you deem it fit not to forgive him/her.Then, file for divorce and remarry. Mathew 19:8-9 says Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” The bible went further and talk about how he sees people that divorced their spouse for any reason except sexual immorality, Malachi 2:16 says 16 “The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the LORD, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,” says the LORD Almighty. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful. 2 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Tinalex(f): 8:38am On Oct 07, 2018 |
They don show again!!! Some people just follow the bible sheepishly, so cos the spouse is alive he should not marry again but to keep hoping from one woman to another to satisfy his sexual urge n emotional needs? Have you ever had a critical thinking of books of Paul to see that he is sort of an extremist and discriminatory gender based? Do you ever think of his background before he met Christ and how all this reflects in his teachings? If you comply with the biblical teachings sheepishly and strictly trust me you would have been homicidal or committed suicide @op. Biko...live n let's live. It's Chris Attoh's live not yours so stop the judgement!!! 6 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by EhisChelsea1(m): 8:38am On Oct 07, 2018 |
olsome: In one breath, u requested for contribution and in d very next says those who disagree should create their own Bible. D issue I ve with ur summation is dat u write with an air of finality...u don talk am, na so e be... Marriage, Divorce and remarriage is allowed under certain conditions. U should read Paul's epistles to get this picture clear. This issue has put lot of persons in emotional bondage for yrs cos their pastor or church says dey must remain single cos their ex partner is still alive.....its is a teaching woth no foundation in d scriptures... Just like diz ur assumption... U feel its wat d bible sags buy search for ur self properly. Its not |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by kullozone(m): 8:39am On Oct 07, 2018 |
These ones don't even know anything other than to embarrass their religion. Even the unbelievers study their holy bible more than them. Mumu people... Mtcheeew  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by bedspread: 8:40am On Oct 07, 2018 |
OneJ: Bro Biblically there is nothing like proper dissolution of marriage.. Only Death permits a Man or Woman to Re-Marry..... A Woman whose Husband is a serial beater can leave the house to save her Life... but is not Permitted to Re-marry.. If you can't forgive your spouse due to infidelity or whatever you are not Permitted to Re-marry. Except for Death sake 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Zither(m): 8:44am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Re-marriage is possible when — one partner cheats on the other — one partner decides to divorce another (the other partner being a Christian is not mandated to forcefully keep the one leaving) — one partner dies This is why it is very very necessary to take steps to ensure you're making the right decision before tying the knot with someone. 1 Like |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by rabbi1234(m): 8:44am On Oct 07, 2018 |
I don't think any pastor can conduct such marriage, any pastor that does that is an agent of Satan not of God. If you love God, you will surely do His Will. 3 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by tosyne2much(m): 8:44am On Oct 07, 2018 |
CuteMadridista:Hahahaha  4 Likes |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by sacramento1212: 8:46am On Oct 07, 2018 |
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| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by good4all40: 8:46am On Oct 07, 2018 |
This rule sounds harsh in fact l have never heard or read such before, there are many ways divorce can occur in marriage aside from infidelity as long as it makes sense. In Islam, divorce can happen in any form or way as long as it is in line with Islamic law. |
| Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by eph12(m): 8:47am On Oct 07, 2018 |
Righteousness89:Would it be better if you read it this way? V.9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife and shall marry another, except it be for fornication, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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