Pataricatering:
Humanity will always win over religion ! Same bible that says you shouldn’t remarry will still say no fornication ! So you marry a terror and proceed to have an unhappy marriage- you divorce then you have to remain celibate without sex nor a companion? It’s all these rubbish irrational dogma that will eventually kill religion ! You can’t subvert the will of humans - it’s just not possible!

Twoclans:


The catholic church is one church that finds it very difficult to annul marriages ,I am a catholic and I know that the church is beginning to soft pedal based on current realities. My parish alone has had three annulments this year alone.I was just looking at the priest today when he was preaching against separation and I was asking myself shebi this guy has forgotten so soon.

Righteousness89:

No bro... are u reading the same bible am Reading?
if you have a Red lettered Bible you will notice that those words were by JESUS HIMSELF..

Matthew 19:9
And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

bedspread:


If u decide to That , you are not Permitted to Re-Marry by The GOD..

Righteousness89:


And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

What Exactly don't u understand here!

Righteousness89:


And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

What Exactly don't u understand here!

edeXede:


This is why muslims make jest of christian doctrines. Some christian cant explain or seems not comprehend whta is written in the bible.

The bible makes it explicitly clear that you are only allowed to file for divorce only if one of the spouse committed adultery and only if you deem it fit not to forgive him/her.Then, file for divorce and remarry.

Mathew 19:8-9 says Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

The bible went further and talk about how he sees people that divorced their spouse for any reason except sexual immorality,

Malachi 2:16 says 16 “The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the LORD, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,” says the LORD Almighty. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful.

sacramento1212:


Hmmmm...I will have to reconfirm this from the holy book. My understanding was that the only grounds for divorce is adultery and after which any of the both parties can remarry.

Chineke1stSon:

The keyword here is EXCEPT...it means except a partner was divorced on the grounds of adultery then it will be wrong for the partner who was wronged(cheated upon) to remarry..it is as clear as day in that passage.

bedspread:


Bro Biblically there is nothing like proper dissolution of marriage.. Only Death permits a Man or Woman to Re-Marry.....

A Woman whose Husband is a serial beater can leave the house to save her Life... but is not Permitted to Re-marry..

If you can't forgive your spouse due to infidelity or whatever you are not Permitted to Re-marry. Except for Death sake

Righteousness89:
No! The Bible is simple to Read...

Except for Fornication- The Reason for divorce

And shall Marry Another, Committeh Adultery.

And Whoso Marrieth her which is put away commits Adultery..

Pataricatering:
She should simply poison him instead , abi ?

Righteousness89:
Bible is not Religion.
Bible is The Word of GOD! That's why all effort to Cripple the Bible has failed.... it's GOD'S WORD

akeentech:
Oh! this scripture is as confused as it's readers

Righteousness89:
No! The Bible is simple to Read...

Except for Fornication- The Reason for divorce

And shall Marry Another, Committeh Adultery.

And Whoso Marrieth her which is put away commits Adultery..

kullozone:
These ones don't even know anything other than to embarrass their religion. Even the unbelievers study their holy bible more than them.

Mumu people...

Mtcheeew

Righteousness89:

Bro Read the Bible with Understanding..

Matthew 19:6-9 is very clear...

V.9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

If you hv to put away your wife, you are not permitted to Marry another woman.

The Bible says Marriage is till death do you part.. The Bible cannot contradict itself..

Death is the the only thing permitted for a man to Re-Marry..

GOD even hates Divorce see Malachi 2:16

Righteousness89:
Re- Marrying while your spouse is alive is Adultery, No matter who conducts such Marriage.... Infact it's not a marriage.. it's an act of Immorality!

See Matt 19:6-9

XaviDayo:
Why e be say I don't get asked the question if I am a Christian before being able to comment here. But if na Friday, Seun go put one nonsense caveat before person fit talk im mind. Double standard

SmilingMary:
One thing I have come to understand is this, humans always want what they want. This is very bad. Before you marry, know all that concerns marriage, it isn't a simple business deal, u walk in and easily work out from. If you know u can't do what is necessary incase certain mishaps occur, then don't marry. If you know u can't remain single after divorce, then don't marry. Stop using words like happiness, abuse etc to justify certain things. It's clear as day, u can only divorce in the case of infidelity on the part of your partner. So anytime you partner acts unaccordingly u chicken out because u ain't happy. Marriage isn't business deals. God holds it seriously and that's what will send many people to hell on the last day.

malel1:



I have read people's post here ,
Recently my wife left our union, saying she anit happy.
I don't hit her, I don't cheat on her , I don't keep late nights , I provide for her, I do a lot for her and she still Insists that she is not coming back.
Biko In such situation am I not suppose to remarry?
Her only complain was am not organized

OneJ:


Matt 19:6-9
v9"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS, and marries another woman commits adultery"

From a biblical standpoint, Jesus himself approved divorce when one or both spouses goes outside the marriage arena , which violates the marriage union (Hebrew 13:4. 1 Cor 7:2).

The other option is forgiveness, if U don't wanna go the divorce route (Col 3:12-14) "Bear with each other & forgive whatever grievances you may have against another."

Pls shine your eyes here.... with understanding.
If a spouse quits his /her marriage, to carry on with another woman/man, that spouse is guilty of defilement of the marriage union. He is an unbeliever (who no longer believes in) your marriage,so let him/her go. Nsogbu adighi.
Pls Go obtain a legal divorce & set yourself free to remarry again.

"But if an unbeliever leaves, let him/her do so. A believing man or woman is NOT BOUND IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES. " 1 Cor 7:15.

Because she divorced a serial cheat & Casanova, make she no marry again ?
Dump that crap into a dustbin!!!
.
Go & marry again. It's your God-given right. "For God has called you to live in peace".
NOT in pieces of emotional trauma ,man made induced guilt & stigma.

OneJ:


Matt 19:6-9
v9"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS, and marries another woman commits adultery"

From a biblical standpoint, Jesus himself approved divorce when one or both spouses goes outside the marriage arena , which violates the marriage union (Hebrew 13:4. 1 Cor 7:2).

The other option is forgiveness, if U don't wanna go the divorce route (Col 3:12-14) "Bear with each other & forgive whatever grievances you may have against another."

Pls shine your eyes here.... with understanding.
If a spouse quits his /her marriage, to carry on with another woman/man, that spouse is guilty of defilement of the marriage union. He is an unbeliever (who no longer believes in) your marriage,so let him/her go. Nsogbu adighi.
Pls Go obtain a legal divorce & set yourself free to remarry again.

"But if an unbeliever leaves, let him/her do so. A believing man or woman is NOT BOUND IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES. " 1 Cor 7:15.

Because she divorced a serial cheat & Casanova, make she no marry again ?
Dump that crap into a dustbin!!!
.
Go & marry again. It's your God-given right. "For God has called you to live in peace".
NOT in pieces of emotional trauma ,man made induced guilt & stigma.

OneJ:


Matt 19:6-9
v9"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS, and marries another woman commits adultery"

From a biblical standpoint, Jesus himself approved divorce when one or both spouses goes outside the marriage arena , which violates the marriage union (Hebrew 13:4. 1 Cor 7:2).

The other option is forgiveness, if U don't wanna go the divorce route (Col 3:12-14) "Bear with each other & forgive whatever grievances you may have against another."

Pls shine your eyes here.... with understanding.
If a spouse quits his /her marriage, to carry on with another woman/man, that spouse is guilty of defilement of the marriage union. He is an unbeliever (who no longer believes in) your marriage,so let him/her go. Nsogbu adighi.
Pls Go obtain a legal divorce & set yourself free to remarry again.

"But if an unbeliever leaves, let him/her do so. A believing man or woman is NOT BOUND IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES. " 1 Cor 7:15.

Because she divorced a serial cheat & Casanova, make she no marry again ?
Dump that crap into a dustbin!!!
.
Go & marry again. It's your God-given right. "For God has called you to live in peace".
NOT in pieces of emotional trauma ,man made induced guilt & stigma.

Chineke1stSon:

Lol nigerians and their love for roundabout argument..you just reiterated my point by your first two lines...but you can't see it or refuses to acknowledge it..

Righteousness89:
Re- Marrying while your spouse is alive is Adultery, No matter who conducts such Marriage.... Infact it's not a marriage.. it's an act of Immorality!

See Matt 19:6-9

Chineke1stSon:
Even with all the Bible quotations in this thread they are still confused..Christ explicitly said that the ONLY justifiable case for divorce is adultery..which means that if your partner commits adultery, he or she has broken the sacred bond of marriage...and in such case, the partner who was wronged is perfectly right to seek divorce..it is there in black and white...but if you divorce except it be for adultery and then go ahead to remarry then it is a sin..but if you divorce on the grounds of adultery and remarry it is not a sin....

Righteousness89:

Bro Read the Bible with Understanding..

Matthew 19:6-9 is very clear...

V.9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

If you hv to put away your wife, you are not permitted to Marry another woman.

The Bible says Marriage is till death do you part.. The Bible cannot contradict itself..

Death is the the only thing permitted for a man to Re-Marry..

GOD even hates Divorce see Malachi 2:16