Hi guys i need ur advice on this; i have a guy that has never raised his hands on me before no matter what i do. To my gr8est shock my guy raised his hand to beat me because his got a new gurl who he's crazy about, guys should i stay or leave b4 it gets beyond beating to stupor. pls need ur advice

Hi sis, no matter what anyone says here, you gonna do wat you gonna do. As a woman, i can never take these ff from a man no matter what.

1. Cheating
2. Beating/Abusive

He's showing you the way already. He's cheating on you, you are aware of it and he's hitting you over it. Simply means he's through with you.

Pls forgive me, how can you love someone who treats you like that? He cheats, beats and you are still thinking of staying? Je ne comprend pas!

lol,
so he beat you
what did u do
no guy would beat a gurl except she's Just been plain naughty esp in bed~

Guy hit you because "he has got a new girl he is crazy about" and you are here asking if you should stay with him?

SA Goddess:

Guy hit you because "he has got a new girl he is crazy about" and you are here asking if you should stay with him?

Crazy rite?

SA Goddess:

Guy hit you because "he has got a new girl he is crazy about" and you are here asking if you should stay with him?

i KNOW ur BF beats u often
he even beat u today~
dont think i do not know~

Even I don't understand women sometimes! 

190:

i KNOW your BF beats u often
he even beat u today~
dont think i do not know~

He would be a fool to do that, and what is supposed to happen when he is done, kiss and make up?

I'd say leave but would U listen, especially considering that I don't have sufficient info to give that advice besides that the guy is dating someone he cherishes more than u and his reactions to U with respect to that have shown he is lacking in character.

U want to change him?

continue to dey collect the beatings na. abi why u dey ask us this kin jamb question

frm your story the guy is crazy about some other gal,if you dont leave eventually he will.b good to urself leave him

@POSTER,

on ur tracks, SET, RUNNNNNN.

If u value urself MORE, then i don't think u should be here, asking us questions on whether or not to. I mean, the hell u should know that he could KILL u in any seconds if he wants to since such situation like that has arised. U hav got to save urself quickly!
Although one is left to wonder if that was actually urself talking, 

Lizt, there are two kinds of men in this world: gentlement and jerks. A gentlement never ever hit
a women. Jerks hit women, kids, animals you name it. I am going to tell you something else, this behaviour
doesn't improve. It gets worse. And the worse is he beat you for another woman sake, sweetheart where is your common
sense? why are you even asking questions? Do not let love blinfold you pls I beg LEAVE NOW!

hmm

bug24:

@POSTER,

on your tracks, SET, RUNNNNNN.

i dnt know why some pple are so daft-minded

U think he is under a spell?

or u just enjoyed being beaten?

im sorry but i nominate this for dumbest post of the year

Dude has another girl he is crazy about and he smacked the sh it outta you because of her and you are here asking if you should stay or go. well if you have to ask then you should stay because you deserve the beatings.

You're asking about staying with a guy that a.) beats you and b.) has another girl in the wings? You need a slap, a stiff drink or to be institutionalized.

Deep Soul:

Love does strange things to people

The most unpardonable crime in my book is violence.
Ther's no justification for an abusive man. None.

Poster,
Don't mind these people jor.
By the time you land in the hospital with both legs hanging in the air and your face bandaged like Sunita, you'll know whether you should leave or not.

lol, true talk

no question about it no second thoughts

leave him straight.

Dem no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall.

Deep Soul:

Love does strange things to people

The most unpardonable crime in my book is violence.
Ther's no justification for an abusive man. None.

Poster,
Don't mind these people jor.
By the time you land in the hospital with both legs hanging in the air and your face bandaged like Sunita, you'll know whether you should leave or not.

lol!

hmmmmmmm

This is what you can do,

Option 1: Continue to accept the beatings and eventually die,

OR

Option 2: Reenact the scene in the Burning Bed starred by Farrah Fawcett and SET THAT NUKKA ON FIRE!

I am still sleep, PARDON ME,

@poster Please do not leave this guy. Apparently you have run out of Cover Girl makeup and you enjoy having your guy paint your face black and blue free of charge.Sorry I forgot that you are a very generous lady and you have volunteered yourself as a boxing bag since standard boxing bags can be quite costly in the market. And the guys that said Nigerian girls are very stingy have obviously not met you.