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5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by 24hoursreporter: 9:44am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Raising a child is a difficult task especially for parents that are not always around. In fact, you may try your best to give your child the best training, but they end up being influenced by the environment. It is very challenging to bring up your children in a crowded environment. Trust me, they tend to learn one or two bad habits unconsciously. This is why it is advisable for parents living in public compound to watch out for their children very well. In this article, you will learn the 5 ways a child can be spoilt in a Nigerian compound house. Take note of them and guide your kids jealously against them. Don’t lose-guard, otherwise, you will have yourself to blame. 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House #1. Tenants Start Teaching Them Adult Stuff An adult tenant within your compound tends to befriend your child and start teaching them adult stuff. They start seeing movies that are beyond them, learning some other without your knowledge. This is definitely one of the ways a child can be spoilt in a Nigerian compound house. #2. They Tend To Learn Bad Things From Other Kids Naturally, some kids are bad. They tend to influence other kids who play with them negatively. Whether these kids are petty thieves, disrespectful, do bad things with little girls etc, they are likely going to influence your own child. So, watch out for these kids and protect your child from them. Otherwise, they may turn your child into something in no time. We have heard stories of how little kids are caught having sex with themselves. These are some of the bad influences we are talking about. #3 They Secretly Learn From Tenants With Dubious Characters This is also among the ways a child can be spoilt in a Nigerian compound house. In every public compound in Nigeria, they must be a particular tenant with a dubious way of life. Trust me, once your child starts seeing their lifestyle often, they tend to secretly learn these lifestyles. If you are the type that is not conscious about what is happening around your children, they may become something else before you know it. It may interest you to know that every badly behaved child out there started so innocently. So, learn to nip certain characters in the bud once you notice them in your child. #4. Parents Are Not Home To Monitor Them Most Times It is a normal thing in Nigeria for parents to leave their kids at home alone during working hour. During this time, most kids are home alone, playing with other kids around the hood with no one around to monitor their activities. Guess what? This is the time they do the naughtiest things with their friends. However, it is advisable to always leave them with adults whenever you are not around. This is relatively better. #5. They Spy For Neighbours When you live in a hood when there are Yoruba demons, your kids are likely to be spying for them. In fact, they will help these players watch out if their girlfriends are coming around while they are with other girls. This could be normal, but in the long run, your child is actually learning something bad. Therefore, it is advisable to rebuke all illegal errands your child run for people within the hood. Source: http://www.24hoursreporter.com/2018/10/24/5-ways-a-child-can-be-spoilt-in-a-nigerian-compound-house/ 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by 24hoursreporter: 9:46am On Oct 24, 2018 |
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Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by wokewunuw: 9:49am On Oct 24, 2018 |
So true |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by ComrArk: 11:03am On Oct 24, 2018 |
I 4 say..... |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by ComrArk: 11:03am On Oct 24, 2018 |
U ve said ur says |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Justseyii: 11:04am On Oct 24, 2018 |
If you beat them and speak to them on a regular. His head will be correct 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by ftechclass: 11:04am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Pikin wey Wan spoil go still spoil whether compound or no compound. All this one na story 25 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by manikspears: 11:05am On Oct 24, 2018 |
just 1 way :TV 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 24, 2018 |
This generation don dey press phone from 3-4 . Before u know dem go enter xvid 6 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Nobody: 11:05am On Oct 24, 2018 |
manikspears:internet and music 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by jericco1(m): 11:06am On Oct 24, 2018 |
yes. should be checked |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Robert129(m): 11:06am On Oct 24, 2018 |
they run upandan |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by TDonald: 11:06am On Oct 24, 2018 |
No 5 = Not Bad 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by inoki247: 11:07am On Oct 24, 2018 |
we are in a Digital age with the way things are daz y u have to always put some privacy on the kids Tab, Phones also How can you be reading a Bible on the internet and all of a Sudden you see a pop up directing you to a Porn site if dat can happen to an adult e fit happen to d kids while doing is or her assignments |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Bustincole(m): 11:08am On Oct 24, 2018 |
#4. Parents Are Not Home To Monitor Them Most Times wit dis, it create so many tins like a child practicing to become g@y/lesbi@n dats parents fault sha 1 Like
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Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by katunboy: 11:08am On Oct 24, 2018 |
I have seen some of this happening most especially to girls. |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Jefferyhi86(m): 11:08am On Oct 24, 2018 |
It's only the will of God that our unborn children to have the fear of God 24hoursreporter: |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Nobody: 11:09am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Interesting piece If anything, it shows how much of a child's life is out of the control of the parents... |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Brownshugar69: 11:10am On Oct 24, 2018 |
A child that want to spoil will spoil. Not by all these points. Nor be rich man pinkin Dey spoil too 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by manikspears: 11:10am On Oct 24, 2018 |
yeyerolling: internet is even far. normal tv will do it |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by slawomir: 11:12am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Ok |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Nobody: 11:12am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Few months ago Mtn had issues with NCC on sim registration. A statement was released that an average of between 25million - 45million Nigerians recharge MTN daily. Ladies and Gentlemen this simply means that Olusegun Obasanjo earns about N25m -N45m every 24hrs of his life for the rest of his life and he can also pass this income to his children and generation(Legacy). 1 Like
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Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Cumtroller: 11:13am On Oct 24, 2018 |
When you have Afonja’s like these residing in your compound your girl child is already spoilt. Dem don already dip hand and preek inside her kpekus!!!! 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by abbeyty(m): 11:16am On Oct 24, 2018 |
What can damage pikin most is too strict parents, If you are too strict with your kids you are really damaging them |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by Nobody: 11:18am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Bring your child up to have a conscience. Leave religion out of it. Teach him right from wrong and no matter the amount of new-found knowledge from external influences, he/she will remain a good child. Nonye and Nwanne from the flat upstairs showed me inside of a vagina when I was barely 10. I was alternating between them for more than 5 years. Nobody taught me anything about sex prior to that. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by surgical: 11:19am On Oct 24, 2018 |
NnaaMenn:why are you passing information you are not sure of,we're you part of the agreement between obasanjo and mtn to know this 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by tunary(m): 11:35am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Playing kelekeke hide and seek and dipping their hands inside O, one of the hidden corners in the compound |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by oluwasegun007(m): 11:38am On Oct 24, 2018 |
NEIGHBOUR's WIFE WALKING TO THE BATHROOM WITH WRAPPER WITHOUT PANTS WITH BOMBOM SWINGING FREELY...... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by tunary(m): 11:39am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Earthbound:So they willingly open it for you to see inside or you cajoled them to open it for you |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by israelmao(m): 11:40am On Oct 24, 2018 |
Take it or leave it environmental and parental factors play big role in determining child's behaviour. |
Re: 5 Ways A Child Can Be Spoilt In A Nigerian Compound House by oluwasegun007(m): 11:42am On Oct 24, 2018 |
oluwasegun007: [b]NEIGHBOUR's WIFE WALKING TO THE BATHROOM WITH WRAPPER WITHOUT PANTS WITH BOMBOM SWINGING FREELY...... DON'T ASK ME HOW I KNOW, HAVE BEEN THERE......MY CHILDREN WON't GO THROUGH THAT LIFESTYLE.[/b] 1 Like |
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