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then its where you're from

DezVienna:

Mans greatest failure is that they have are not in touch with their femininity.

i laff in swahili
wat do u women want sef- a woman or a man

wat do women want?

A woman simply wants a man to own up to his resposibilities. Where I come from doesn't define every single man, but I speak generally for the majority because the majority rules.

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Well say that . I don't speak old English. I damn near speak English. (Laughing).


Tell me something, why can someone with the texture of my hair or even white people hair walk around with a sloppy ponytail and be fine, and when a black person does it with their natural chemical free hair, they're being screamed on for coming outside like that? Whyc an't they just throw their hair back into a sloppy ponytail and run into the store, without worry about combing it so much they might as well get the $hit completely done before walking out side?

i dont relate at all, if i dont 'do' my hair anyone questioning me is asking for trouble and tbh i havent had anyone look at me and go why isnt your hair done. unless i'm actually at a party or something and my hair looks like i've just rolled out of bed.

these experiences you seem to have i've never had

Well Analissa, it could be because you're from a place where everyone is alike, and I'm from a multi cultaral country.

DezVienna:

Well Analissa, it could be because you're from a place where everyone is alike, and I'm from a multi cultaral country.

What country are you from?

oh my days

rokiatu:



oh my days

What does that mean?

Do not mind me, I behave like that in odd and funny situations Lmao
_Nairaland

Oh

What's the most boring thing in this life?

Loneliness

Not having a lover.

@rokiatu i take that to mean that if u are not bored at the moment then that means u are with someone even @Vendren agrees with u

@ chinedumo its night time here, (you don't want to know the time) am not bored and am not with anyone (at the moment)
I'm just addicted to nairaland (at the moment)

chindumo, it is 6:30pm where you live?

i dont get what u people are driving at

I didn't either, AT FIRST, now I do. They were clearly taunting me. I see who Dez'Vienna is, she is the member who started this forum. They obviously don't like her and accuses me of being her. I've seen this before. I'm officially clear of what is going on now.

@ DezVienna

I live in England, trust me it's multicultural enough.
I'm sorry that you seem to have trouble with people but there's truth in the saying someome can only do to you what you let them do.

^^

True.

intresting thread - Would love to have debate

so would i if a decent topic is suggested.

@rokiatu remember i said if u are bored at the moment, IF!!!!!!!!!!
obviously u are not
nairaland is keeping u occupied and accompanied
dont tell me u are addicted
cos there is no drug yet developed to cure a nairaland addiction

@Vedren sorry for the embarrassment
u will get over it
and for the help i formal propose
i think i will modify it according to ur needs
i heard u say u dont understand half the things said
i think that is were i can come in i will help u to understand our nigerian tongue and use of the english language and other native tongue as i can
how about this

@blacksta and @Analissa let see how this topic goes with u

The love or the lack of money is the root of all evil


in my understanding it is the love of money and not the lack of money that is the root of all evil
love for some thing leads to extremities and obsession
so u go by hook and crook means to obtain the hard currency
anything can go in place of money
if u have do do evil, so be it
it is that bad



what say ye??

^^ true but the lack of money can also lead to evil. Like if someone living in poverty decides to steal to feed his/her children who havent eaten in days and will surely die if they dont eat. But then this leads to the question is that really evil if the person has no other choice. Does the means justify the end?

It is depends on one's focus - I once watched a documentary where the person concerned had lived 8 years without any cash but was living off dump sites and in a caravan but the guy was content and happy . Some would say the guy is a miserable sod but on the other hand many have money but not happy and some have committed suicide Hollywood is perfect example.

poor people love money in order to get money
rich people love money in other to keep the money
so both to get money and keep it makes one do evil

Analissa:

so would i if a decent topic is suggested.

These topics are supposed to be about debate, so cares if you like it. That forces debate. Don't be so damn personal, hell.