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Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Lrichnancy: 2:07pm On Dec 06, 2018
Good afternoon my fellow romacelanders. I've been a conversant user of this platform and I've seen people post their worries here with helpful advices coming from you all.

My problem is that, anytime I have sex, I rarely dip in 5 thrusts before I release (cum). I've tried all kinds of sex enhancement drugs but still the same. Even at times, without penetration, could be romance, I'll cum.
I've been masturbating since about 14years which I don't know maybe is the cause of my quick ejaculation.
Whenever I try to stop masturbation, and didn't do it for about 5 days, I do feel this urge like I want to release (cum) which if I don't find a way to release, I'll definitely have a wet dream. I hate feeling this way..
Most times when I release( cum) I feel my penis aching me. It's giving me a lot of concern please kindly help me out..

Even my new girlfriend that I just managed to deflower, doesn't get wet. I had to use lubricant to make her feel slippery down there to avoid pain..

Kindly help me with words of advice. I know I may be bashed and insulted but please for God's sake, help a brother in need..

I'll be looking forward to helpful information. Thank you! God bless you all.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Eberechi24(f): 2:09pm On Dec 06, 2018
Lefulefu, share your secret.
iLegendd, new client.
Like I always say, if your dick deformed you, let your tongue reform you. Up your pre intimacy skills too

Most important thing is climax. if it takes place, no one will have energy to check time .

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nobody: 2:11pm On Dec 06, 2018
Nanceer could help you. She is tested and trusted.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nobody: 2:12pm On Dec 06, 2018
Issa psychological something. Put mind over matter and you can last for hours (no jokes). There's nothing wrong with masturbation but as with everything else, too much of it is bad. Your brain has been wired to ejaculate asap as a result of prolonged periods of wanking. Only you can help yourself.

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by benzene00: 2:12pm On Dec 06, 2018
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nanceer(f): 2:15pm On Dec 06, 2018
vingeophysicist:
Nanceer could help you. She is tested and trusted.
smh
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by MissRaine69(f): 2:17pm On Dec 06, 2018
Because you think it will happen , it does.

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Lrichnancy: 2:20pm On Dec 06, 2018
Earthbound:
Issa psychological something. Put mind over matter and you can last for hours (no jokes). There's nothing wrong with masturbation but as with everything else, too much of it is bad. Your brain has been wired to ejaculate asap as a result of prolonged periods of wanking. Only you can help yourself.
Thanks for the comment sir. But I've done this many times, tried to take my mind off it but still get the same response. Even at times when I try to go for another round, I feel my d.ick aches me. The more round of sex I go for, the more the ache I feel down there..
I'm really worried sir
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nobody: 2:21pm On Dec 06, 2018
MissRaine69:
Because you think it will happen , it does.
Exactly!
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Lrichnancy: 2:23pm On Dec 06, 2018
MissRaine69:
Because you think it will happen , it does.
Thanks for the comment ma. But to be honest, I don't put my mind there like it's going to happen. I've done all I could. Used different types of sex drug enhancement.
I've used Hausa drugs sold around but all still the same.
There was a time I used an Hausa drug and went one round which didn't last a minute.. Had an errand to run which I did and I felt this pain in my abdomen and d.ick..
I don't understand anymore please help me
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nobody: 2:24pm On Dec 06, 2018
Want to take your mind off masturbation,be busy with work and hustle hard,exercise a lot,spontaneous human combustion in your pants is not the way to go bro,your dopamine would be bleeped
As for quick ejaculation,I don't think masturbation is the only or actual cause,your emotions or excitement level could be a cause....a guy who hasn't cummed for a while or is practising no-fap will cum quickly cos of excitement .....just take control of your emotion and excitement......No drugs can make you last ABI you wan die on top there

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nobody: 2:25pm On Dec 06, 2018
Lrichnancy:

Thanks for the comment sir. But I've done this many times, tried to take my mind off it but still get the same response. Even at times when I try to go for another round, I feel my d.ick aches me. The more round of sex I go for, the more the ache I feel down there..
I'm really worried sir
It happens to everyone na. Unlike women who can keep cumming for hours on end, men are not built that way. You need to rest after a few rounds otherwise, your climax becomes painful rather than orgasmic. Just take it slow next time you're inside her. Slow deep strokes and work your way up from there. You can do it. In the meantime binge on watermelon juice.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Emescot(m): 2:29pm On Dec 06, 2018
Stay away from masturbation, take alot of iron and zinc supplement, do alot of exercise, drink alot of water, keep ur mind off porn, never have sex with a full bladder, pre-intimacy before penetrating, stay off sex enhancing drugs, take more agbo and bitters, dont count ur strokes. That should help you

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Emescot(m): 2:32pm On Dec 06, 2018
Earthbound:

It happens to everyone na. Unlike women who can keep cumming for hours on end, men are not built that way. You need to rest after a few rounds otherwise, your climax becomes painful rather than orgasmic. Just take it slow next time you're inside her. Slow deep strokes and work your way up from there. You can do it. In the meantime binge on watermelon juice.
Yeah water melon is good, tomatoes, ginger and onions too and also bananas
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by MissRaine69(f): 2:39pm On Dec 06, 2018
Lrichnancy:

Thanks for the comment ma. But to be honest, I don't put my mind there like it's going to happen. I've done all I could. Used different types of sex drug enhancement.
I've used Hausa drugs sold around but all still the same.
There was a time I used an Hausa drug and went one round which didn't last a minute.. Had an errand to run which I did and I felt this pain in my abdomen and d.ick..
I don't understand anymore please help me
.....
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by MissRaine69(f): 2:40pm On Dec 06, 2018
Lrichnancy:

Thanks for the comment ma. But to be honest, I don't put my mind there like it's going to happen. I've done all I could. Used different types of sex drug enhancement.
I've used Hausa drugs sold around but all still the same.
There was a time I used an Hausa drug and went one round which didn't last a minute.. Had an errand to run which I did and I felt this pain in my abdomen and d.ick..
I don't understand anymore please help me

On second thoughts reading your post this is really getting to you down right? So this might help.
A group of drugs called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) do help with your issue especially Paroxetine.
Please stay away from Tramadol. It’s a slippery slope once you start.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Ahijo1990(m): 2:49pm On Dec 06, 2018
First of all.... STAY AWAY FROM PERFORMANCE ENHANCEMENT DRUGS IN WHATEVER FORM!! You're doing yourself more harm than good.

Secondly, there's no scientific proof that masturbation causes quick ejaculation, so take your mind off that. Although you need to reduce the rate at which you masturbate. It kills your vibes, confidence and sex drive when over-done.

Thirdly, how sexually experienced are you? If you just started having regular sex, poor performance like this not unusual and will go away with time. Like every other activity in life, you get better at sex with more practice. If you're not a newbie to sex, then there'd be more cause to worry.

Fourthly, what is the status of your penis after you cum? Does it stay hard enough for you to keep stroking or it goes flaccid? If it goes flaccid immediately, then you probably have mild/severe erectile dysfunction. If it doesn't go flaccid immediately, then it might be just pure excitement or psychological pressure. Either way, there are ways out.

Fifthly, try to relax. Prolong the pre-intimacy. Start with styles like cowgirl instead of missionary or doggy to reduce the intensity of pleasure and whenever you feel like coming, stop and kiss her or suck her boobs or do any other time to calm down. Eat well, sleep well and exercise well. Stay off fizzy drinks and sugary food. Eat more of cashew nuts, banana, roasted corn, pap, guava, coconut etc.


Once more.... STAY OFF PEDs!!

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nobody: 3:20pm On Dec 06, 2018
Eberechi24:
Lefulefu, share your secret.
iLegendd, new client.
Like I always say, if your dick deformed you, let your tongue reform you. Up your pre intimacy skills too

Most important thing is climax. if it takes place, no one will have energy to check time .
when op was guzzling down 10 bottles of beer at a sitting and consuming cake and sweet things anyhow he wasnt complaining oo.now dat d effect of im over indulgence don start to dey manifest dey will start crying but if u tell dem to slow down wen over indulging they will tell u to mind ur business.let him carry his cross biko.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Lrichnancy: 3:23pm On Dec 06, 2018
Ahijo1990:
First of all.... STAY AWAY FROM PERFORMANCE ENHANCEMENT DRUGS IN WHATEVER FORM!! You're doing yourself more harm than good.

Secondly, there's no scientific proof that masturbation causes quick ejaculation, so take your mind off that. Although you need to reduce the rate at which you masturbate. It kills your vibes, confidence and sex drive when over-done.

Thirdly, how sexually experienced are you? If you just started having regular sex, poor performance like this not unusual and will go away with time. Like every other activity in life, you get better at sex with more practice. If you're not a newbie to sex, then there'd be more cause to worry.

Fourthly, what is the status of your penis after you cum? Does it stay hard enough for you to keep stroking or it goes flaccid? If it goes flaccid immediately, then you probably have mild/severe erectile dysfunction. If it doesn't go flaccid immediately, then it might be just pure excitement or psychological pressure. Either way, there are ways out.

Fifthly, try to relax. Prolong the pre-intimacy. Start with styles like cowgirl instead of missionary or doggy to reduce the intensity of pleasure and whenever you feel like coming, stop and kiss her or suck her boobs or do any other time to calm down. Eat well, sleep well and exercise well. Stay off fizzy drinks and sugary food. Eat more of cashew nuts, banana, roasted corn, pap, guava, coconut etc.


Once more.... STAY OFF PEDs!!
Thanks for the comment sir. But what I notice usually after I cum is that, I go flaccid almost immediately. I've tried to put on a hold when I noticed I was about to burst and when I felt relived, I continued but still came quick..
It's really killing my vibes.
Before after I cum, I don't feel any kinda pain on my penis, but later on, I started having this ache in my penis after I cum. Even when I try pre intimacy with my penis, I do burst.. Even after a little of BJ, I do burst..

I'm tired. I'm beginning to feel it's erectile problem
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Eberechi24(f): 3:23pm On Dec 06, 2018
lefulefu:
when op was guzzling down 10 bottles of beer at a sitting and consuming cake and sweet things anyhow he wasnt complaining oo.now dat d effect of im over indulgence don start to dey manifest dey will start crying but if u tell dem to slow down wen over indulging they will tell u to mind ur business.let him carry his cross biko.
Epp him, We don't want another dying soul. We are almost at the end of 2018. We need his vote to send Buhari out cheesy

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Lrichnancy: 3:25pm On Dec 06, 2018
lefulefu:
when op was guzzling down 10 bottles of beer at a sitting and consuming cake and sweet things anyhow he wasnt complaining oo.now dat d effect of im over indulgence don start to dey manifest dey will start crying but if u tell dem to slow down wen over indulging they will tell u to mind ur business.let him carry his cross biko.
Really bro I don't take alcohol but I can say, yes, I do consume sugary stuffs.. I've taken herbal mixtures for Jedi should in case that was the problem but still, it's still happening.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Lrichnancy: 3:27pm On Dec 06, 2018
Eberechi24:

Epp him, We don't want another dying soul. We are almost at the end of 2018. We need his vote to send Buhari out cheesy
Lol.. Thanks ma'am.
If u read closely, you'd see my post is about two stuffs. First was about me and the second about my girlfriend who doesn't get wet no matter the intimacy. She do tell me she wants my d.ick in her but when I get down to action, everywhere down there is always dry making penetration difficult and painful..
Please help me out
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Lrichnancy: 3:29pm On Dec 06, 2018
MissRaine69:


On second thoughts reading your post this is really getting to you down right? So this might help.
A group of drugs called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) do help with your issue especially Paroxetine.
Please stay away from Tramadol. It’s a slippery slope once you start.
Really bro? Thanks a bunch.
But where do I get that drug u prescribed? And can u tell me how much it cost?
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nobody: 3:32pm On Dec 06, 2018
Eberechi24:

Epp him, We don't want another dying soul. We are almost at the end of 2018. We need his vote to send Buhari out cheesy
op cut down on ur alcohol consumption,cut down on ur sugary food consumption. increase ur intake of fruits and vegetables in ur diet.make water melon ur best friend and unripe plantain as well. and also exercise as well. if u do this u will be as lively as lexington steel. see ehn eberechi e get one of my guy ehn na so dem swear with this guy with beer.all im watsap pics na so d guy go dey hold bottles of beer and sometimes im go pose with plate of pepper soup plus beer.d guy stomach right now wen last i see am be like woman in the last stages of advanced pregnancy.wen i voice my concern im say na flexing tins.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Nobody: 3:36pm On Dec 06, 2018
lefulefu:
op cut down on ur alcohol consumption,cut down on ur sugary food consumption. increase ur intake of fruits and vegetables in ur diet.make water melon ur best friend and unripe plantain as well. and also exercise as well. if u do this u will be as lively as lexington steel. see ehn eberechi e get one of my guy ehn na so dem swear with this guy with beer.all im watsap pics na so d guy go dey hold bottles of beer and sometimes im go pose with plate of pepper soup plus beer.d guy stomach right now wen last i see am be like woman in the last stages of advanced pregnancy.wen i voice my concern im say na flexing tins.

grin As lively as Lexington Steel
grin As funny as Wesley Pipes
grin As confident as Mr Marcus
grin As rigid as Mandingo

If you know, you know wink
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Eberechi24(f): 3:49pm On Dec 06, 2018
lefulefu:
op cut down on ur alcohol consumption,cut down on ur sugary food consumption. increase ur intake of fruits and vegetables in ur diet.make water melon ur best friend and unripe plantain as well. and also exercise as well. if u do this u will be as lively as lexington steel. see ehn eberechi e get one of my guy ehn na so dem swear with this guy with beer.all im watsap pics na so d guy go dey hold bottles of beer and sometimes im go pose with plate of pepper soup plus beer.d guy stomach right now wen last i see am be like woman in the last stages of advanced pregnancy.wen i voice my concern im say na flexing tins.

Na im be thing with our men, they don't know anything about healthy lifestyle, they think taking excess beer and nkwobi Is enjoying life.
wetin they always dey their mind na money, money. them no know say if them get money and neglect themselves, women no go dey proud of them, she can even look outside If she's not disciplined.
A guy supposed dey sweet and fresh make im partner dey proud of am.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by Eberechi24(f): 3:55pm On Dec 06, 2018
Lrichnancy:

Lol.. Thanks ma'am.
If u read closely, you'd see my post is about two stuffs. First was about me and the second about my girlfriend who doesn't get wet no matter the intimacy. She do tell me she wants my d.ick in her but when I get down to action, everywhere down there is always dry making penetration difficult and painful..
Please help me out
a good lubricant will help.
Meanwhile your licky-licky skill go improve o.

Whenever are you about to cum, don't shot everything, reserve some cum. it will help you going.
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by amaniro: 4:00pm On Dec 06, 2018
Stop Fvckingcheesy
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by samysmoothfresh: 4:04pm On Dec 06, 2018
Op forgive me but i cant stop myself from lauging out loud.


I dey always laff people wey masturbation dey turn their once active pole to lifeless rope.

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by MissRaine69(f): 4:22pm On Dec 06, 2018
Lrichnancy:

Really bro? Thanks a bunch.
But where do I get that drug u prescribed? And can u tell me how much it cost?
Not a bro ....sister
I have no idea about costs.
A doctor/pharmacist would be able to help you with the prescribing aspect of things
Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by dreamworld: 4:26pm On Dec 06, 2018
Lrichnancy:
Good afternoon my fellow romacelanders. I've been a conversant user of this platform and I've seen people post their worries here with helpful advices coming from you all.

My problem is that, anytime I have sex, I rarely dip in 5 thrusts before I release (cum). I've tried all kinds of sex enhancement drugs but still the same. Even at times, without penetration, could be romance, I'll cum.
I've been masturbating since about 14years which I don't know maybe is the cause of my quick ejaculation.
Whenever I try to stop masturbation, and didn't do it for about 5 days, I do feel this urge like I want to release (cum) which if I don't find a way to release, I'll definitely have a wet dream. I hate feeling this way..
Most times when I release( cum) I feel my penis aching me. It's giving me a lot of concern please kindly help me out..

Even my new girlfriend that I just managed to deflower, doesn't get wet. I had to use lubricant to make her feel slippery down there to avoid pain..

Kindly help me with words of advice. I know I may be bashed and insulted but please for God's sake, help a brother in need..

I'll be looking forward to helpful information. Thank you! God bless you all.
I was in ur situation, but I stopped wanking up to a year plus without waking now I can last up to 40 minutes on first round, the second rounds no Cummings till forever

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Re: Romancelanders Please Help Me, I'm Dying by IHate9jerianss(m): 4:27pm On Dec 06, 2018
Lrichnancy:

Thanks for the comment sir. But I've done this many times, tried to take my mind off it but still get the same response. Even at times when I try to go for another round, I feel my d.ick aches me. The more round of sex I go for, the more the ache I feel down there..
I'm really worried sir
Click on the link below:
https://www.nairaland.com/3173733/how-nuturally-cured-premature-expulsion

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