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I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by micklick: 4:12pm On Aug 02, 2010 |
Please help out! It wasn't so before. Am a young married man of 40 years, married 2 years ago. I am very faithful to my wife and have been blessed with a child. I discovered that recently I no longer have any urge or passion in sex with my wife. While we make love, I feel very lazy and no push or urge on my side, though my manhood gets gets erect. I feel very bad. Any solution? |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Outstrip(f): 9:17pm On Aug 02, 2010 |
There is no need to freak out. It happens. A lot has happened in the last two years. Her role is not just wife anymore and yours in just not husband anymore. There is a child now and she might not be looking sexy 24/7 like she used to. Tell her your fears and turn the romance back on. Maybe you guys have kind of lost touch a little emotionally. You just have to work at bringing it back. Goodluck |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by tpiah: 11:13pm On Aug 02, 2010 |
viagra? |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Outstrip(f): 12:45am On Aug 03, 2010 |
He said he gets erect. Do you want him to kill his wife |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by SALady(f): 1:02pm On Aug 04, 2010 |
Outstrip: ^^^Couldnt have said it better |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by seyibrown(f): 2:34pm On Aug 04, 2010 |
Discuss with her about how to make sex more exciting for both of you! Maybe whisk her away for a weekend somewhere nice(making sure that your child is in safe hands though), you both relax, no distractions, and just concentrate on fanning the passion aflame again. |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Nobody: 2:41pm On Aug 04, 2010 |
micklick: You call 40 yrs young? better go and start counting your grey hairs |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Gadols(f): 4:23pm On Aug 04, 2010 |
jennykadry: Why not 40 yr old man is young. even 55yr old is young. am 48yrs and very active. Na grey hair be d matter? wetin? |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by opuro(m): 5:03pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
e de happen. make man de chop the same soup for two years! ol boy manage am so. na so our papa dem manage our mama. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by spicyhoney(f): 5:05pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
I wonder why a 40 years old man would say he is young, I beg you are quite old. Well to the main issue, its just a thing of the mind; you should engage her in romantic talks, watch romantic movies and do things together like you were doing before marriage also if she's changed her dress style after marriage make her go back to dressing like she use to while u were dating and even add a little of provocation to it when she is at home and probably you are stressed out most times so just try to be relaxed whenever you are with her and do a lot of cuddling and smooching it might help. You could also try to make your s3x life a little adventurous, try wild and new things with her and before you know u might be looking forward to having it all the time. |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by spikedcylinder: 5:26pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
Nawa o. This marriage thing no be small matter o. |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Gadols(f): 7:17pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
if 40 is old what would u call a 60yr old? i think most of you here are 16yr olds thats why. my wife is 40yrs old and she is so young even after 4 children. a 40 yr old is young. |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Gadols(f): 7:19pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
40 yr old is old for what? for sex? or romance? come on dude, at 48 am cruising in hot romance with my, |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Gadols(f): 7:19pm On Aug 05, 2010 |
wife. |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Nwaka77: 3:31am On Aug 06, 2010 |
@Poster So what the heck do you want us to do? Send you some urge through the internet? And where are the chuvinist pigs? I guess if a woman posted this it would have garnered 10 pages by now. Go back to being single and let her find herself a man worthy of her love. Bush thing, Bloody hypocrates, Ufas! |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Outstrip(f): 3:52am On Aug 06, 2010 |
Nwaka77: Why you dey vex biko |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Nobody: 9:28am On Aug 06, 2010 |
I wonder why a 40 years old man would say he is young, I beg you are quite old. LMAO spicy honey, you wicked ooooo @Gadols why are you taking it personal? a 40 yr old man isnt young it is the hard truth, yes @ 50 people are still agile but there is a difference btw been agile and been actually old. Yes at the old age of 50 people are stil strong but it does not change the fact that they are quite old |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by chika98: 2:40pm On Aug 06, 2010 |
LMAO! Una don finish the guy He is young and looking for solutions. The state of marriage in Nigeria is well "interesting" |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by spicyhoney(f): 4:55pm On Aug 06, 2010 |
jennykadry:I no wicked my dear, I was just being sincere from my heart cause if were him, even if i look and feel like 16, I would just say a man of 40(there is even respect in the sound of it) and not a young man of 40 cause I don't know what a man of 25 will call himself if 40 is a young man |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by luap: 6:34pm On Aug 06, 2010 |
Obviously you two are not evenly yoked. Hopefully her passion is the same as yours or she just might seek something else on the side. |
Re: I Don't Feel Any Urge Or Passion for my wife anymore by Nobody: 1:55am On Aug 07, 2010 |
spicyhoney: I can imagine this scenario Question: Why are you not married and when are you thinking of settling down? 40 yr old: No i am not in a hurry afterall I am still a young 40 yr old man |
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