Please do not mind the grammartical errors, I am sharing as sent by the blog reader.

"Am a young lady ,engaged, still an undergraduate started working sometimes last year. there this guy in my company bt nt in same office different branches.bt they come around once a while or meeting days.i dont notice him anyway wen they come around bt sometimes same last year wen they came around for a meeting he walked up to me, i can say that was the first time i really noticed him he demanded me to help him out on somethings which i agreed.after then we av been communicating almost everyday he wooed me which i knw definetly he will do one day bt i told him i am engaged.

He cooked up different stories that his G/F jst dump him normal guys lie LOL.,bt i never dance to his tone.bt we still communicate on phone almost every,chat online.evrything started at DEC. wen i was suppose to go 4 a program and i invited him which he agreed to go wit me and the program was all nite, lol and behold we were at the program together bt it started rainin around 1am till day break we were together cos evry where was crowdy and it was an open feild program i had no choice than to be in his arms till morning cos it was very cold.

Ever since the friendship grew stronger each day even wen we dont see each other bt talk on phone evryday, any day i didnt talk to him it look like my day as nt been complete like wise him any day we did nt talk maybe cos of busy schedule he call the nxt day to accuse me of nt calling even to find out wat was wrong that he didnt call .any way i do most of the calling cos he claimed he's too busy sometimes to call which i agreed cos i knw the nature of his job.after the christmas break in office he invited me to his house which i did.

Even b4 then av spoken to the sister on phone,on getting there thinking i will get bck that same day bt he confused me to stay i must confess i reallly enjoyed him all nite,ever since then we av been having dates, my fiancee is nt away of this nt even anyone. bt am afraid will this still continue cos my introduction is jst few weeks to this time and am planning 4 my wedding.

I knw I cant marry him and i knw he cant also cos he confessed lately he has a 11yrs relationship bt he has nt promise marriage cos he was considering.. CONTINUE...

An excellent reason why most men view women with disdain. You have gone from being the main chick to someone’s side chick.

Confused op

You're mad..... Go for mental check up first

The MARRIAGE will never see the light of the day
I bet my UNIVERSITY DEGREE
It's not a CURSE but an established fact

MissRaine69:
An excellent reason why most men view women with disdain. You have gone from being the main chick to someone’s side chick.

Please, shut up.
This goes both ways.
Not specific to any gender per sè

highpriestess:

Please, shut up.
This goes both ways.
Not specific to any gender per sè

Well just a slight correction, since I am not talking I cannot really shut up can I?
Please use per se correctly that actually upset me.

EVILFOREST:
The MARRIAGE will never see the light of the day
I bet my UNIVERSITY DEGREE
It's not a CURSE but an established fact

True
You don’t need to be Sherlock Holmes to figure that one out

on getting there thinking i will get bck that same day bt he confused me to stay i must confess i reallly enjoyed him all nite,ever since then we av been having dates
Hmmm...some women fall in love after good drilling though.

Hanty! Its his joystick you are in love with...#radarada

Smh .. I pity the unfortunate husband to be

Sorry to say this, but undergraduate girls are the most confused set of ladies, dating one brings problems..

Niggas should just chill and date matured ladies and leave this undergraduate folks till they grow some sense...

In other news,

Evilforest I messaged you here

I swear this happen to most ladies about getting married there would just be one fling relationship that makes you doubt if you really love your real guy . Babe get married to your fiancée get a new line after and as the communications the feeling would die down a bit.

you lied, how can it rain for that long in December?

MissRaine69:
An excellent reason why most men view women with disdain. You have gone from being the main chick to someone’s side chick.

An olosho will always remain an olosho

This girl is sick..

Yuceeluv:
Hanty! Its his joystick you are in love with...#radarada

exactly

aunty keep this guy at close length, just incase ur fiance can't give u maximum satisfaction.
its a win-win