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UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 7:49pm On Jan 10, 2019
Cinderella

"YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL , O MY LOVE,...TERRIBLE AS AN ARMY WITH BANNERS. BEAUTIFUL"-Song of Solomon 6:4

around the time when Jesus Christ was born the Greek had a story called Rhodopis which told of a lowly Greek girl of the same name, who was bathing and an eagle
snatched one of her sandals and flew with it to Egypt.in Egypt that sandal was dropped into the lap of the king who, both stunned by the beauty of the sandal and the
strangeness of the event, commanded the search for its owner. eventually Rhodopis was located and the king married her.

the theme of the story gained massive universal appeal. so much that 800 years after the events of the New Testament; in the distant land of China, another story like it appeared that narrated how a pretty girl called Ye Xian, staying with a stepfamily, had the magic bones of a fish that, after she was left behind at home while everyone
attended a festival, helped her dress nicely and attend, but after her stepfamily recognized her at the festival she fled, dropping one of her slippers that the king finds
and uses to track and eventually marry her.

From there through the centuries the story has been retold through more than 1000 versions across the World. However, the most popular version of Cinderella came from France in 1697, under the name Cendrillon. It is this version that dominated all others. (in English the story became Cinderella because the girl of the story worked in the kitchen a lot and firewood and coal being the fuel of the times left ash on her and the other name for ashes is"Cinder"; a word which was then turned to Cinderella) in this version Cinderella is a very pretty and kind but overlooked girl whose widower father marries a woman with two ugly daughters who become Cinderella's abusive step sisters. when the Prince throws a ball (event) Cinderella is left behind in the kitchen and in her depressed state in tears a fairy godmother appears, turns a pumpkin into a horse carriage and mice, rats, lizards into horses, coach man and foot men and
her rags into a lovely jeweled gown; and sets her off to the event the catch being that the magic spell will hold till midnight. the first ball happens without a glitch but the second ball, the following evening, sees the Prince fascinated by Cinderella's beauty, and the feeling being mutual, Cinderella loses track of time and only when the clock strikes 12 midnight does she rush out. in her rush her slipper falls off. the Prince takes the slipper across the kingdom making every girl try it on to locate its owner. eventually she finds the beautiful Cinderella covered in soot and ashes, she tries the slipper on and it fits perfectly.the Prince marries her and gives her riches for her rags.

While"Beauty And The Beast" is about a woman's attraction to Bad Boys and herdesire to change them; and"Sleeping Beauty" is about a special brand of a man who can awaken a woman's dormant Inner Hoe; and "Snow White" about the competition of looks and wombs every woman is waging against every other woman; "Cinderella" is a simpler look at the age-old interlocking of masculine money with feminine beauty. Women have always understood the power of their beauty over men; its not for nothing that Solomon in the Song of Solomon declares the Shulamite maiden's beauty to be as fearsome as an army!!! (6:4). Beauty in a woman literally scares thecrap out of men like a real army with guns do. But men are only beginning to awake to the power of their money over women.

LOST IN TRANSLATION.
when a woman says to a man: "I need a man who'll take care of me!" she means she needs a man who'll meet her FINANCIAL needs. however, when that same woman says to a man:"Let ME take care of you!" she's NOT telling the man she'll take care of his financial needs.No. she means something entirely different: when she tells the man "let me take care of you", she means she wants to meet the man's SEXUAL needs. its the same sentence but it changes meaning according to whom its directed. because a woman's need is not the same as a man's need. women need money, men need sex. when a woman says"Take care of me" she has her own need for money in her mind but when she says"I'll take care of you" she has a man's need for sex in her mind. so that statement means one thing to her and another thing to
a man. men and women both have a need, but that need is NOT the same, it only has an EQUIVALENT. a woman's need for money IS THE EQUIVALENT of a man's
need for sex . just as dick and the pussy are not the same but the dick is the male equivalent of the female pussy. you cant understand a woman's need until you convert it to its male equivalent then it will make sense to you. every need, desire and fear a woman has there is a male equivalent (not a male similarity) ; and to win with the woman's needs, desires and fears you have to identify those equivalents in yourself first to get an idea of where she's coming from.

man and woman were once 1 creature whose only weakness was loneliness (Adam @ Eden before Eve) ; this 1 creature was divided into 2 like a piece of paper torn in half where the 2 opposing sides fit neatly again into each other when two soul-mates meet.

on the list below are a few of a Woman's needs, desires, traits and fears and their male equivalents on the right. Whats on the left affects a woman the same way as whats on the right affect a man.


FEMALE
NEED,DESIRE,TRAIT,FEAR =====> MALE EQUIVALENT
beauty------------------------------------------>wealth
insecurity(her weakness)-----------> ego (his weakness)
Emotional manipulator---------------> Physical controller
Reputation (her asset) ---------------->respect(his asset)
Maturity (her desire in a man)------>youthfulness (his desire in a woman)
experienced lover (her need)-----> virgin lover(his need)
deep voice(her turn on) --------------->sweet voice (his turn on)
good girl (girl@her best) ------------->Bad Boy (guy@his best)
slut (girl@her worst)--------------------> Nice Guy(guy@her worst)
ornamental(she's eye-candy)--------> utilitarian (he's a workhorse)
tears(her defence) ----------------------->fist(his defence)
bored--------------------------------------------> lonely
will die for her child -------------------->will die for his wife
time(her greatest enemy-------------> time (his best friend)
abstinence(is waste to her)-------------->abstinence (is preservation to him)
loved through romance ------------------->loved through respect
worst decade for love 30-40 ------------>worst decade for love 20-30
beauty fades from 25 ----------------------->beauty begins from 35
emotionally jealous -------------------------->sexually jealous
loves decorative gifts e.g flowers-----> loves functional gifts e.g drill And hammer
has an expiry date --------------------------->has a delayed start


everytime you hear women mention whats on the left concerning themselves always know that if they were guys they would be talking about whats on the right its the male EQUIVALENT of that. e.g a man's fist does the same work as a woman's tears. what a man achieves by looking strong a woman achieves by appearing weak and helpless. a man has to look intimidating to get his way, while a woman has to cry to get her way. the fist is the equivalent of the the woman's tears.

OR, a gentle voice does to a man what a commanding
voice does to a woman.

All these opposites and equivalents are to show you that to get a girl you MUST NOT bring out your feminine side like Nice Guys do by reflecting her traits; but you get a girl by AMPLIFYING your masculinity which typically expresses itself in contradiction to feminity..

masculinity VS feminity is the basis of all sexuality, even lesbians have one girl looking boyish and another looking girlish; while gays have one man looking ladylike and another manlike. Human sexuality activates in the presence of these opposites.

so showcase the things that separate a boy from a girl and you'll attract a girl. But if you showcase the things that girls and boys have in common, you'll attract a girl but only as a friend not a lover because if you mimic her traits all she'll see is another girl.....but with a dick..but a girl nonetheless. That is; to make a girl into a non-sexual pure friend show her how similar you are by demonstrating your similarities like how you both love and fear the same things. She'll find in you a kindred spirit. Someone to talk and share with.Friendships are about maintaining
comfort zones.

But to make a girl into a sexual kind of a friend you show her how DIS-SimILAR and DIFFERENT you are by demonstrating your differences like how her fears ARE NOT your fears so she knows when she's with you she's
safe. Demonstrating how you love different things and her being with you is her chancefor growth as she tries out new things.

every need,desire and fear you have as a man, a woman has her own corresponding need,desire and fear..... its equivalent and usually its OPPOSITE e.g like how skinny
men love fat women and how talkative women end up with quiet men and how Players end up with forgiving GFs.... You get the picture. Your job is to match your
need, desire and fear to her corresponding (NOT SAME ) need,desire and fear-the table above is a starting point.

HER BODY IS YOURS; YOUR BANK ACCOUNT IS HERS
female beauty is the equivalent of male wealth. that's the Equivalent of Equivalents: the summary of Cinderella. a man is beautiful to a woman when he has money and a
woman is rich to a man when she is beautiful. a Prince and a beautiful lowly girl become the same class because her beauty makes her equal to his wealth, and his wealth makes him equal to her beauty.

When a man tells a woman she is beautiful a woman knows he wants her face, which means he wants her body, which finally means he wants the sweet thing between her legs. When a woman tells a man he is intelligent a man must know the woman wants his mind, which means she wants what his mind can achieve, which is his career, which translates to money in his pocket. (Intelligence=good grades=good career=good job=good salary=good lifestyle for her) . I say A MAN MUST KNOW because to most men it's not immediately clear to them why women like intelligent men.

Check it out: while money is a man's beauty; beauty is a woman's money. a man taken advantage of financially feels used exactly the same way as a woman taken advantage of sexually. what a man pays for in cold hard cash, a woman pays for by looking beautiful (you have seen it in clubs: "Ladies free before midnight" ). a man has to pay cash for a lift in a stranger's car while a woman who looks pretty enough gets it free. a man's money is his beauty and a woman's beauty is her money.

when the wealthy Prince marries the lowly beautiful Cinderella he is seen as marrying someone on his level; and the beautiful Cinderella marrying the wealthy prince is also seen as marrying someone on her level. No one scolds the Prince for marrying below his class and no one
congratulates Cinderella for marrying above her class. people see Cinderella's exchange of beauty for wealth and the Prince's exchange of wealth for beauty as a fair exchange. both beauty and wealth have the same value in that they are both the best thing in the World each gender can have. a man at his best is a rich man while a
woman at her best is a beautiful woman. because beauty means to the woman what wealth means to the man. beauty in a woman is the EQUIVALENT of wealth in a
man.

A wealthy man will never have ugly children and a beautiful woman will never have poor children. The marriage of a wealthy man and a beautiful woman brings
wonderful things.a beautiful woman born poor will never die poor because money is Sexually Transmitted. However, when a wealthy man marries an ugly girl everyone is pissed. and when a beautiful girl marries a poor man everyone is confused.it feels like someone has been robbed!!! its not a fair exchange. Its how ugliness and poverty is perpetuated in this world.

women pay for money with sex, men pay for sex with money. A clever girl seeks to get money without giving pussy, that is Free Money. A clever boy seeks to get sex without giving money, that is Free Sex. but in a healthy exchange a woman hands over her body to her man while a man hands over his bank account to his woman.

The joy of a man is in his woman's body and the joy of a woman is in her man's money. that's why men get addicted to sex while women get addicted to
shopping. The same reason guys spend the whole day at the mall checking out chicks and girls spend the whole day at the mall window-shopping. Men look for money to get women while women look for men to get money. The same reason why in hip hop music videos guys throw money (toimpress girls) while girls prance around half-naked (to impress boys).

women seek financial security and men seek sexual security. Sex is hard to get for men while Money is hard to get for women. But Money is easy for men while Sex is easy for women. So in exchange for a lifetime supply of sex a man offers a woman a lifetime supply of money. And so the woman marries for support and the man marries for sex.
# TheRedPill
# MGTOW.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by HeWrites(m): 7:50pm On Jan 10, 2019
angry
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jan 10, 2019
This guy your threads are all about woman,you no they tire undecided

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 7:58pm On Jan 10, 2019
SilentListener:
This guy your threads are all about woman,you no they tire undecided
no one is forcing you to read them.

Just imagine 20+ more still to come!!! You are not tired yet my friend. You will be.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 7:59pm On Jan 10, 2019
HeWrites:
angry
did I hurt your feelings baby boy?
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 8:06pm On Jan 10, 2019
Miseducations awaiting to be uploaded:

Season Of The Thug
The Prostitute And Her Pìmp
Badboy - a study of a diamond in the rough
The Player
A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick
Mother-Nature's Tender Love For The Player
The Power Of Narcissism
Sex With Strangers
The Under-Utilized GF
The Way You Start With A Woman Is How You End With Her
Lessons From A Bitch
Think Like A Hoe, Act Like A Man
Guys Are Like That, Girls Are Like This
That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason
Cheaters And Losers
Don't Respond To Emotional Punches With Physical Punches
The Strings Women Pull To Control You Like A Puppet
The Secret Language Of Girls
Decoder - What Girls Says VS What They Really Mean
What makes you a good fucker makes you a bad father (and vice versa)
Get Your Bad Boy On
The Coward's Guide To Getting A GF.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by joeeee240(m): 8:10pm On Jan 10, 2019
AMAZING!!!!!!! grin. boss, please which kind of books do you read that inspires these write ups?

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 8:53pm On Jan 10, 2019
joeeee240:
AMAZING!!!!!!! grin. boss, please which kind of books do you read that inspires these write ups?
Hustler and Playboy tongue
I hate reading.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by SOFTDRINK: 9:49pm On Jan 10, 2019
ubunja:
Miseducations awaiting to be uploaded:
Season Of The Thug The Prostitute And Her Pìmp Badboy - a study of a diamond in the rough The Player A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick Mother-Nature's Tender Love For The Player The Power Of Narcissism Sex With Strangers The Under-Utilized GF The Way You Start With A Woman Is How You End With Her Lessons From A Bitch Think Like A Hoe, Act Like A Man Guys Are Like That, Girls Are Like This That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason Cheaters And Losers Don't Respond To Emotional Punches With Physical Punches The Strings Women Pull To Control You Like A Puppet The Secret Language Of Girls Decoder - What Girls Says VS What They Really Mean What makes you a good fucker makes you a bad father (and vice versa) Get Your Bad Boy On The Coward's Guide To Getting A GF.
Ubunja please always quote me whenever you drop any these vibes.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by micolaj: 10:03pm On Jan 10, 2019
ubunja:
Miseducations awaiting to be uploaded:

Season Of The Thug
The Prostitute And Her Pìmp
Badboy - a study of a diamond in the rough
The Player
A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick
Mother-Nature's Tender Love For The Player
The Power Of Narcissism
Sex With Strangers
The Under-Utilized GF
The Way You Start With A Woman Is How You End With Her
Lessons From A Bitch
Think Like A Hoe, Act Like A Man
Guys Are Like That, Girls Are Like This
That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason
Cheaters And Losers
Don't Respond To Emotional Punches With Physical Punches
The Strings Women Pull To Control You Like A Puppet
The Secret Language Of Girls
Decoder - What Girls Says VS What They Really Mean
What makes you a good fucker makes you a bad father (and vice versa)
Get Your Bad Boy On
The Coward's Guide To Getting A GF.

The master is back

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by justiniyke29: 10:05pm On Jan 10, 2019
ubunja:
Miseducations awaiting to be uploaded:
Season Of The Thug The Prostitute And Her Pìmp Badboy - a study of a diamond in the rough The Player A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick Mother-Nature's Tender Love For The Player The Power Of Narcissism Sex With Strangers The Under-Utilized GF The Way You Start With A Woman Is How You End With Her Lessons From A Bitch Think Like A Hoe, Act Like A Man Guys Are Like That, Girls Are Like This That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason Cheaters And Losers Don't Respond To Emotional Punches With Physical Punches The Strings Women Pull To Control You Like A Puppet The Secret Language Of Girls Decoder - What Girls Says VS What They Really Mean What makes you a good fucker makes you a bad father (and vice versa) Get Your Bad Boy On The Coward's Guide To Getting A GF.
more ink to your pen bro, halls me when u drop the others.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jan 10, 2019
Wow!

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 3:44am On Jan 11, 2019
justiniyke29:
more ink to your pen bro, halls me when u drop the others.
will do

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 3:45am On Jan 11, 2019
SOFTDRINK:
Ubunja please always quote me whenever you drop any these vibes.
Mos Def.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jan 13, 2019
ubunja:
[s]no one is forcing you to read them.

Just imagine 20+ more still to come!!! You are not tired yet my friend. You will be[/s].
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Biglittlelois(f): 11:56pm On Jan 13, 2019
shocked shocked what planet are you from?
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Snow87(m): 12:19am On Jan 14, 2019
Too much oil dey ur head sir, I want to be like u when I grow up.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 12:39am On Jan 14, 2019
[quote author=SilentListener post=74737439][/quote]as your moniker says, silence. Loool.
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Nobody: 12:43am On Jan 14, 2019
ubunja:
as your moniker says, silence. Loool.
gtf off my mentionundecided your miseducation nonsense won't work on me now scram.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 12:46am On Jan 14, 2019
SilentListener:
gtf off my mentionundecided your miseducation nonsense won't work on me now scram.
telling me this on my own thread. Loool. You came You saw You were Conquered.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Nobody: 12:48am On Jan 14, 2019
ubunja:
[s]telling me this on my own thread. Loool. You came You saw You were Conquered[/s].
i don't read your trash, get it?
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 12:52am On Jan 14, 2019
SilentListener:
i don't read your trash, get it?

Calm Down. You read my posts. We both know :

SilentListener:
This guy your threads are all about woman,you no they tire undecided

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by AyamStarch: 9:19pm On Jan 14, 2019
ubunja:
Miseducations awaiting to be uploaded:
Season Of The Thug The Prostitute And Her Pìmp Badboy - a study of a diamond in the rough The Player A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick Mother-Nature's Tender Love For The Player The Power Of Narcissism Sex With Strangers The Under-Utilized GF The Way You Start With A Woman Is How You End With Her Lessons From A Bitch Think Like A Hoe, Act Like A Man Guys Are Like That, Girls Are Like This That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason Cheaters And Losers Don't Respond To Emotional Punches With Physical Punches The Strings Women Pull To Control You Like A Puppet The Secret Language Of Girls Decoder - What Girls Says VS What They Really Mean What makes you a good fucker makes you a bad father (and vice versa) Get Your Bad Boy On The Coward's Guide To Getting A GF.
Happy new year Master Ubunja, interesting read between. A player is nothing but a woman with a dick should be very interesting read too
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Nobody: 10:54pm On Jan 14, 2019
SilentListener:
i don't read your trash, get it?

Why always visit the compound of a friend u don't like?

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 2:26am On Jan 15, 2019
modestbrowser:


Why always visit the compound of a friend u don't like?
NL is full of pretenders like him

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Freeko4: 9:08am On Aug 31, 2019
ubunja:
Cinderella

"YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL , O MY LOVE,...TERRIBLE AS AN ARMY WITH BANNERS. BEAUTIFUL"-Song of Solomon 6:4

around the time when Jesus Christ was born the Greek had a story called Rhodopis which told of a lowly Greek girl of the same name, who was bathing and an eagle
snatched one of her sandals and flew with it to Egypt.in Egypt that sandal was dropped into the lap of the king who, both stunned by the beauty of the sandal and the
strangeness of the event, commanded the search for its owner. eventually Rhodopis was located and the king married her.

the theme of the story gained massive universal appeal. so much that 800 years after the events of the New Testament; in the distant land of China, another story like it appeared that narrated how a pretty girl called Ye Xian, staying with a stepfamily, had the magic bones of a fish that, after she was left behind at home while everyone
attended a festival, helped her dress nicely and attend, but after her stepfamily recognized her at the festival she fled, dropping one of her slippers that the king finds
and uses to track and eventually marry her.

From there through the centuries the story has been retold through more than 1000 versions across the World. However, the most popular version of Cinderella came from France in 1697, under the name Cendrillon. It is this version that dominated all others. (in English the story became Cinderella because the girl of the story worked in the kitchen a lot and firewood and coal being the fuel of the times left ash on her and the other name for ashes is"Cinder"; a word which was then turned to Cinderella) in this version Cinderella is a very pretty and kind but overlooked girl whose widower father marries a woman with two ugly daughters who become Cinderella's abusive step sisters. when the Prince throws a ball (event) Cinderella is left behind in the kitchen and in her depressed state in tears a fairy godmother appears, turns a pumpkin into a horse carriage and mice, rats, lizards into horses, coach man and foot men and
her rags into a lovely jeweled gown; and sets her off to the event the catch being that the magic spell will hold till midnight. the first ball happens without a glitch but the second ball, the following evening, sees the Prince fascinated by Cinderella's beauty, and the feeling being mutual, Cinderella loses track of time and only when the clock strikes 12 midnight does she rush out. in her rush her slipper falls off. the Prince takes the slipper across the kingdom making every girl try it on to locate its owner. eventually she finds the beautiful Cinderella covered in soot and ashes, she tries the slipper on and it fits perfectly.the Prince marries her and gives her riches for her rags.

While"Beauty And The Beast" is about a woman's attraction to Bad Boys and herdesire to change them; and"Sleeping Beauty" is about a special brand of a man who can awaken a woman's dormant Inner Hoe; and "Snow White" about the competition of looks and wombs every woman is waging against every other woman; "Cinderella" is a simpler look at the age-old interlocking of masculine money with feminine beauty. Women have always understood the power of their beauty over men; its not for nothing that Solomon in the Song of Solomon declares the Shulamite maiden's beauty to be as fearsome as an army!!! (6:4). Beauty in a woman literally scares thecrap out of men like a real army with guns do. But men are only beginning to awake to the power of their money over women.

LOST IN TRANSLATION.
when a woman says to a man: "I need a man who'll take care of me!" she means she needs a man who'll meet her FINANCIAL needs. however, when that same woman says to a man:"Let ME take care of you!" she's NOT telling the man she'll take care of his financial needs.No. she means something entirely different: when she tells the man "let me take care of you", she means she wants to meet the man's SEXUAL needs. its the same sentence but it changes meaning according to whom its directed. because a woman's need is not the same as a man's need. women need money, men need sex. when a woman says"Take care of me" she has her own need for money in her mind but when she says"I'll take care of you" she has a man's need for sex in her mind. so that statement means one thing to her and another thing to
a man. men and women both have a need, but that need is NOT the same, it only has an EQUIVALENT. a woman's need for money IS THE EQUIVALENT of a man's
need for sex . just as dick and the pussy are not the same but the dick is the male equivalent of the female pussy. you cant understand a woman's need until you convert it to its male equivalent then it will make sense to you. every need, desire and fear a woman has there is a male equivalent (not a male similarity) ; and to win with the woman's needs, desires and fears you have to identify those equivalents in yourself first to get an idea of where she's coming from.

man and woman were once 1 creature whose only weakness was loneliness (Adam @ Eden before Eve) ; this 1 creature was divided into 2 like a piece of paper torn in half where the 2 opposing sides fit neatly again into each other when two soul-mates meet.

on the list below are a few of a Woman's needs, desires, traits and fears and their male equivalents on the right. Whats on the left affects a woman the same way as whats on the right affect a man.


FEMALE
NEED,DESIRE,TRAIT,FEAR =====> MALE EQUIVALENT
beauty------------------------------------------>wealth
insecurity(her weakness)-----------> ego (his weakness)
Emotional manipulator---------------> Physical controller
Reputation (her asset) ---------------->respect(his asset)
Maturity (her desire in a man)------>youthfulness (his desire in a woman)
experienced lover (her need)-----> virgin lover(his need)
deep voice(her turn on) --------------->sweet voice (his turn on)
good girl (girl@her best) ------------->Bad Boy (guy@his best)
slut (girl@her worst)--------------------> Nice Guy(guy@her worst)
ornamental(she's eye-candy)--------> utilitarian (he's a workhorse)
tears(her defence) ----------------------->fist(his defence)
bored--------------------------------------------> lonely
will die for her child -------------------->will die for his wife
time(her greatest enemy-------------> time (his best friend)
abstinence(is waste to her)-------------->abstinence (is preservation to him)
loved through romance ------------------->loved through respect
worst decade for love 30-40 ------------>worst decade for love 20-30
beauty fades from 25 ----------------------->beauty begins from 35
emotionally jealous -------------------------->sexually jealous
loves decorative gifts e.g flowers-----> loves functional gifts e.g drill And hammer
has an expiry date --------------------------->has a delayed start


everytime you hear women mention whats on the left concerning themselves always know that if they were guys they would be talking about whats on the right its the male EQUIVALENT of that. e.g a man's fist does the same work as a woman's tears. what a man achieves by looking strong a woman achieves by appearing weak and helpless. a man has to look intimidating to get his way, while a woman has to cry to get her way. the fist is the equivalent of the the woman's tears.

OR, a gentle voice does to a man what a commanding
voice does to a woman.

All these opposites and equivalents are to show you that to get a girl you MUST NOT bring out your feminine side like Nice Guys do by reflecting her traits; but you get a girl by AMPLIFYING your masculinity which typically expresses itself in contradiction to feminity..

masculinity VS feminity is the basis of all sexuality, even lesbians have one girl looking boyish and another looking girlish; while gays have one man looking ladylike and another manlike. Human sexuality activates in the presence of these opposites.

so showcase the things that separate a boy from a girl and you'll attract a girl. But if you showcase the things that girls and boys have in common, you'll attract a girl but only as a friend not a lover because if you mimic her traits all she'll see is another girl.....but with a dick..but a girl nonetheless. That is; to make a girl into a non-sexual pure friend show her how similar you are by demonstrating your similarities like how you both love and fear the same things. She'll find in you a kindred spirit. Someone to talk and share with.Friendships are about maintaining
comfort zones.

But to make a girl into a sexual kind of a friend you show her how DIS-SimILAR and DIFFERENT you are by demonstrating your differences like how her fears ARE NOT your fears so she knows when she's with you she's
safe. Demonstrating how you love different things and her being with you is her chancefor growth as she tries out new things.

every need,desire and fear you have as a man, a woman has her own corresponding need,desire and fear..... its equivalent and usually its OPPOSITE e.g like how skinny
men love fat women and how talkative women end up with quiet men and how Players end up with forgiving GFs.... You get the picture. Your job is to match your
need, desire and fear to her corresponding (NOT SAME ) need,desire and fear-the table above is a starting point.

HER BODY IS YOURS; YOUR BANK ACCOUNT IS HERS
female beauty is the equivalent of male wealth. that's the Equivalent of Equivalents: the summary of Cinderella. a man is beautiful to a woman when he has money and a
woman is rich to a man when she is beautiful. a Prince and a beautiful lowly girl become the same class because her beauty makes her equal to his wealth, and his wealth makes him equal to her beauty.

When a man tells a woman she is beautiful a woman knows he wants her face, which means he wants her body, which finally means he wants the sweet thing between her legs. When a woman tells a man he is intelligent a man must know the woman wants his mind, which means she wants what his mind can achieve, which is his career, which translates to money in his pocket. (Intelligence=good grades=good career=good job=good salary=good lifestyle for her) . I say A MAN MUST KNOW because to most men it's not immediately clear to them why women like intelligent men.

Check it out: while money is a man's beauty; beauty is a woman's money. a man taken advantage of financially feels used exactly the same way as a woman taken advantage of sexually. what a man pays for in cold hard cash, a woman pays for by looking beautiful (you have seen it in clubs: "Ladies free before midnight" ). a man has to pay cash for a lift in a stranger's car while a woman who looks pretty enough gets it free. a man's money is his beauty and a woman's beauty is her money.

when the wealthy Prince marries the lowly beautiful Cinderella he is seen as marrying someone on his level; and the beautiful Cinderella marrying the wealthy prince is also seen as marrying someone on her level. No one scolds the Prince for marrying below his class and no one
congratulates Cinderella for marrying above her class. people see Cinderella's exchange of beauty for wealth and the Prince's exchange of wealth for beauty as a fair exchange. both beauty and wealth have the same value in that they are both the best thing in the World each gender can have. a man at his best is a rich man while a
woman at her best is a beautiful woman. because beauty means to the woman what wealth means to the man. beauty in a woman is the EQUIVALENT of wealth in a
man.

A wealthy man will never have ugly children and a beautiful woman will never have poor children. The marriage of a wealthy man and a beautiful woman brings
wonderful things.a beautiful woman born poor will never die poor because money is Sexually Transmitted. However, when a wealthy man marries an ugly girl everyone is pissed. and when a beautiful girl marries a poor man everyone is confused.it feels like someone has been robbed!!! its not a fair exchange. Its how ugliness and poverty is perpetuated in this world.

women pay for money with sex, men pay for sex with money. A clever girl seeks to get money without giving pussy, that is Free Money. A clever boy seeks to get sex without giving money, that is Free Sex. but in a healthy exchange a woman hands over her body to her man while a man hands over his bank account to his woman.

The joy of a man is in his woman's body and the joy of a woman is in her man's money. that's why men get addicted to sex while women get addicted to
shopping. The same reason guys spend the whole day at the mall checking out chicks and girls spend the whole day at the mall window-shopping. Men look for money to get women while women look for men to get money. The same reason why in hip hop music videos guys throw money (toimpress girls) while girls prance around half-naked (to impress boys).

women seek financial security and men seek sexual security. Sex is hard to get for men while Money is hard to get for women. But Money is easy for men while Sex is easy for women. So in exchange for a lifetime supply of sex a man offers a woman a lifetime supply of money. And so the woman marries for support and the man marries for sex.
# TheRedPill
# MGTOW.

Damn, dis masterpiece is too insightful

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by kamtrix(m): 10:31am On Sep 11, 2019
Oga ubunja. The true minister of women affairs. Boss please your advice and strategies are needed oh on how a younger man in his 20s can get women in their late 30s to 50s. Any thing you say I take as gold.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Martinez39(m): 10:57am On Sep 11, 2019
kamtrix:
Oga ubunja. The true minister of women affairs. Boss please your advice and strategies are needed oh on how a younger man in his 20s can get women in their late 30s to 50s. Any thing you say I take as gold.
How can you read a topic like this and still be asking this silly question? Are you not seeing the answers in this topic?

Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by kamtrix(m): 12:32pm On Sep 11, 2019
Martinez39:
How can you read a topic like this and still be asking this silly question? Are you not seeing the answers in this topic?
Lol. bros the general answers are there. I want him to treat them specifically. You know, like does their mindset change in any away after beauty fades etc
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by ubunja(m): 8:19pm On Sep 14, 2019
kamtrix:
Lol. bros the general answers are there. I want him to treat them specifically. You know, like does their mindset change in any away after beauty fades etc
of course the mind-set changes bro. A lot.

But there's a whole set of equations at work:

The younger a woman marries, the more chances later on she'll cheat with guys who are the age she was when she got married. Almost like trying to recapture her innocence.

Then there's the issue of lust etc.

I would have to write a full thread about it. But know this, MANY MANY OLDER WOMEN DREAM of young men. Cause it's about Power. And control. The pleasure is secondary.

Here in SA it's a trending thing.

And The way young girls are equally crazy for grown men or "uncles" is amazing... Good times.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by Charleys: 9:36pm On Sep 14, 2019
Ubunja why don't you create a blog or something? just asking

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Cinderella by issylarry(m): 8:21am On Sep 15, 2019
ubunja:
no one is forcing you to read them.

Just imagine 20+ more still to come!!! You are not tired yet my friend. You will be.
Wat do u tink abt a converted play boy meeting a virgin lady

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