Segzee1:
Bride cries out as husband cannot perform sexually

After reading through some of your articles on MATTERS OF THE HEART on dailyfamily.ng I decided to share my story.

I have two objectives of sharing this pathetic story of mine, one, to educate every young single lady out there. Two, to seek advice on what to do.

Growing up as a young lady, I always look forward to that day I will get married to my own husband, have children and in a happy home. But what am currently seeing now is the total opposite of my wish.

I met Tunji during my NYSC service in Kwara State, he is a handsome young looking guy, smart and a banker at one of the new generation banks in the state.

Just a year into our relationship, he proposed marriage to me. It was a wonderful thing to me and a surprise as he did this on the eve of my birthday. Without wasting time, I quickly gave him a “YES” answer.

Three months later we got married. On our wedding day, we received so many blessings from both parents and wishes from loved ones but it seems none of the blessings and wishes is working in our marriage.

The episodes of the story started on my wedding night. As a young lady and a newlywed bride, I expected that night to be special (you know what I mean) but what I experienced was a total difference.

My newlywed husband cannot perform his duty as a man (sexually), I mean his pen!s did not rise at all. It was just like a rubber hose.
At first, I thought it was due to the stress he went through during the day, so I decided not to bother him as I just went to bed like that. But to my greatest surprise, this went on from days to weeks and anytime I ask him he always gives one excuse or the other.

Two weeks ago, I decided to take it rough with him not minding what will happen. We fought for the first time in our marriage. Although he was begging me, but I told him to tell me the truth or I will quit the marriage as I can’t continue to be living with my husband like a brother and a sister.



The following day his mother came (I believed he called her), it was his mother who now explained everything to me. According to her, Tunji had a serious sickness that almost claimed his life when he was much younger. On treating the sickness with different kinds of medications, it affected his manhood (pen!s). The pen!s is there physically but cannot rise.

She later said on noticing this, they consulted a medical doctor who told them there is nothing they can do to make it rise but assured them that it does not affect the potency of his sperm. Meaning that the only way he can have children is through In Vitro Fertilization (IVF).

On hearing this, I busted into tears. I never believed Tunji can do this to me. He never discussed this with me during our courtship.

Now, he and his family are begging me not to leave him.
The issue now is not about having children through IVF but the fact that I won’t be satisfied sexually and I don’t want to cheat on him.

Truly, we love each other, but I don’t think I can cope with this.

What should I do? Please, I need your advice

SOURCE: https://dailyfamily.ng/my-newlywed-husband-cannot-perform-sexually-what-should-i-do/

Michellla:
Not opening up about his sexual issues is very selfish on the husband's part
A relationship built on lies is a dark fragile relationship that collapses at the slightest light of truth.

pryme:


So if you bought a Playstation you won't taste the control pads? Will you take the sellers word for it? In this country we're lying is as easy as breathing?

Michellla:
okay but I don't get how it relates to my comment?

Ay77:
Which kind Yoruba film be this

mhizv:
Well I think it's possible to achieve satisfaction/orgasm without having the d in the v

You both need to improvise,since you can have his kids through ivf,and you claim to love him very much,then work things out don't go running after another man cos of this...but Sha get used to receiving heads, vibrators etc your whole life


But through your one your courtship,your never felt his d get hard and you didn't ask questions or there was no heated moment between you guys?..strange



#super story

Starboytwo:
What is peni.s where there is love...

lefulefu:
so u guys no do any small play in za oza room abi? hmm na wah.anyway this should be an eye opener to any lady dating a guy and is about getting married to d guy and d dude is still insisting on no sex before marriage...sister biko insist on testing him down dere oo cos there are a number of young men these days that their tool are not working.some don destroy their male organ with stds from their risky sex lives while others diabetes and other sickness don finish d manhood.all i can advice is look for a
pastor that can make ur husband dick rise again.

pryme:


Tsk Tsk Tsk,

It's relates, you just missed it. You can't marry a man without tasting if his diiick is working.

A dead control pad (like the one on your profile) renders a perfect Playstation console useless, just like a dead diiick will render a good marriage useless.

Richdad50:
You really exposed yourself with your pics
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Segzee1:
Bride cries out as husband cannot perform sexually

After reading through some of your articles on MATTERS OF THE HEART on dailyfamily.ng I decided to share my story.

I have two objectives of sharing this patheti
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lefulefu:
maybe thry are strict evangelical christians so anythin tourchin,kissin or holding is a sin.

pryme:


Tsk Tsk Tsk,

It's relates, you just missed it. You can't marry a man without tasting if his diiick is working.

A dead control pad (like the one on your profile) renders a perfect Playstation console useless, just like a dead diiick will render a good marriage useless.

My control pad ain't dead But now I get your point.

mhizv:



Hmmm true..

That's why sometimes I don't condemn people who insist on testing before marriage........not everyone gets luck

dairykidd:

This paddy man u funny gan... Anyways be like one Pastor for GH dey run am that year... People go scam them tire sha. That's why we dey test drive b4 we pay put oo. Babe must dey on 9months sentencing before I even propose. Na my way make nobody judge me