From the beginning, no girl determines the type of family or environment that she is born into. That decision is not up to her to make, it is only when she grows up a little that she begins to realize the manner of family or environment that she has been born into.

But family and environment are two of the most important factors that determines human behavior and character. When we are born, our families go a long way in shaping our behaviors, characters and beliefs and the environment in which we find ourselves further reaffirms or challanges these beliefs.

Now, no girl chooses to be born into a good or bad family, but her family is still going to have a major impact on her life. If she is born into a family that lay a lot of emphasis on good family values & behaviours, then she is going to follow those principles and grow up to become what we refer to as a "good Girl". And if a girl is born into a family where there is no much emphasis on good family values and behaviours, then she is going to be left without proper guidance & direction and would likely grow up to become what we term a " bad Girl".

But I want us to identify one key point here which is "Choice". The good girl didn't choose to be good initially, she was simply born into it and the bad girl never choose to be bad from the beginning, she too was born into it. It is only later, at a certain point in their lives, that both girls are presented with a choice. To either maintain the status quo or to transition into someone else.

For the god girl, she is presented with a the choice; to either remain good as she has always been or to transition unto the bad side. While for the bad girl, she also is presented with a choice; to either remain bad as her family or environment has shaped her to be or to transition unto the good side.

Now, this is where human beings desire for "Change" comes to play. Because the good girl has been good all her life and has always been well behaved, she might want to add some spice to her life by seeking to live a life that is different from the one that she has known. And who does she go to when she wants to experience the bad side? That's right, the "bad Guy".

For the bad girl, because she has been bad almost all her life and has always lived a life without proper guidance, she too might also want to add some spice to her life by seeking an experience that is different from the one that she has become accustomed to. And who do you think she runs to when she wants to experience the good side? Yeah, she goes to the "good Guy".

So, as you can see, there can be badness in every good girl and goodness in every bad girl. It all boils down to "Choice" and the availability & willingness of someone to help in making that desire a reality. The End.

Some bad gals change at da wrong age,not fair for da gud guys

Nice write up.

Adasun:
Some bad gals change at da wrong age,not fair for da gud guys

That's one way to look at it. What if she didn't have a choice before, but now that she does, she has choose to be good?

Biglittlelois:
Nice write up.

Thanks.

LoveCapsule:


That's one way to look at it. What if she didn't have a choice before, but now that she does, she has choose to be good?

don't have a choice till 40yrs? Bro she knew what she was doing

here we go again

Adasun:
don't have a choice till 40yrs? Bro she knew what she was doing