From my research so far, I’ve come to understand that it is very important for we know that marriage is the mystery of two people becoming one. Intimacy is the pillar of every successful marriage and it is the responsibility of both parties. When we talk about intimacy, the husband and wife should be the most intimate persons and best of friends.

Love should exist amongst people who are married. It takes a process to become a couple, see it don’t just happen the two in the marriage are responsible for it.

What Is Intimacy?

Intimacy is the closeness of your relationship with your spouse – emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, sexually, and in many other ways. Intimacy is not an end but rather a journey that lasts throughout your marriage.

ntimacy means a warm, close, confidential or private relationship, which develops through long association, friendship and familiarity. Intimacy is the bonding process that place to make the two to become.

Understanding The Needs For Intimacy?

There are so many needs for intimacy, here they are;
Spiritual Needs:

You must understand your likes and needs spiritually as husband and wife and help each other to attain it. For example, if your husband likes waking up in the middle of the night to read or study, you can be of help to him by alerting him when it is time to wake up: You, too, can also do likewise and make him a cup of hot tea. You can encourage him to do some spiritual exercise that he needs.

Emotional Needs:
Psychological Needs:

For intimacy to be developed in a marriage, you must understand your husband’s emotions. When he is depressed, try to find out what is happening and encourage him. You must not allow an “uncaring attitude” to creep into your home likewise the man too.

You must also understand some masculine peculiarities as they desire:
1. Profound respect
2. Admiration
These are two basic things, which every man craves from his wife.
Physical Needs:

Intimacy can be developed if you understand what your husband’s physical needs are and meet them. You should satisfy his physical needs by;
1. Giving your husband the type of food he likes, and not the one you like. Even, if you do not like a particular type of food before, you could try to adjust simply because of him.
2. Always wear the color or type/style of dress he likes, not the one you want to wear. If he does not like a particular dress, it is not advisable to keep wearing such.
3. Adopt hairdos or styles that he likes, not what you like.
4. Be available to him when he wants to make love to you.
5. Do everything to please him. This will aid in developing intimacy because he will trust and have an interest in you. Do everything to please him.

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