sane93:
I might sound weird but it's no biggie to me. A guy might not fit me but fit my friend. It's all about who you're compatible with. I don't even mind my ex dating my sister because all I wish for my sister is happiness and if she has found it in my ex then both should enjoy. Though I will tell her all your weaknesses o, to avoid heartbreak that I could have prevented. Same applies to my friends. As long as your ex and her bestie don't mind then feel free. The trouble I see here is the bestie being able to trust that you two are done for real. Most people find it difficult to believe that ex lovers can remain friends with no strings attached. All the best.

I was typing a message for u but I had issues so i quickly cooked up this, I had to go but am ashamed a lady wrote this..A guy can fvck u and then go to you sister and you see nothing wrong with it...chaiii cos you think you don't fit, I dont want to call you names but the last time I checked women who posses such attitudes are not far from hoes....Am just angry with u now seriously ...shift jare.

Op pls discard this advice.

Even your profile speaks volume .

sane93:

You missed my point. The guy you described above is a dog and I don't date such, neither my sisters nor friends. And I'm talking love here not sex. Everything must not be about sex. I can't advice anyone to throw away love because of such unfounded sentiments. Some people be acting as though it's incest. See Shania Twain's story. So many others. So it's happening and there's nothing wrong with it as long as both parties are genuinely in love with each other.

I can see you are talking from female perspective, Men are far far far jealous than women. I can bet it with you that insecurities on the part of so-called now-husband will not allow him to enjoy the marriage, how would he feel if his friend which is ex boyfriend of his wife comes to visit him, most especially if the friend didnt him at home but met wife which she was her boyfriend

UniQue84:
I was typing a message for u but I had issues so i quickly cooked up this, I had to go but am ashamed a lady wrote this..A guy can fvck u and then go to you sister and you see nothing wrong with it...chaiii cos you think you don't fit, I dont want to call you names but the last time I checked women who posses such attitudes are not far from hoes....Am just angry with u now seriously ...shift jare.

Op pls discard this advice.

Even your profile speaks volume .

Aiit boss, ur point noted.. really appreciate ur time

UniQue84:
I was typing a message for u but I had issues so i quickly cooked up this, I had to go but am ashamed a lady wrote this..A guy can fvck u and then go to you sister and you see nothing wrong with it...chaiii cos you think you don't fit, I dont want to call you names but the last time I checked women who posses such attitudes are not far from hoes....Am just angry with u now seriously ...shift jare.

Op pls discard this advice.

Even your profile speaks volume .

Your spirit is angry at the hypocritical person you are. If you're looking for "hoes" kindly check your lineage. You sound very uncultured, ill mannered and uncivilized. And to think you're forming Christian but you go about calling people names. Op asked for an advice, give yours and go away. Everyone is entitled to an opinion. I dare you to back up your point with Bible verses because I can back up mine. It's people with your perverted mindset that sees something wrong with it because you have "useless" so many ladies and done abominable things with them that you won't want them for someone close to you. If you took out time to actually read the post instead of going through my profile you would have seen where Op said he wasn't intimate with his ex. It's playboys like you that will see it as incest but can cheat on your gf or wife with her sisters or friends. It's obvious you know nothing about love and how the heart works because most of your relationship I presume are centered on lust. You sound like a child so grow up. Sorry for the harsh words if any. Peace.

sane93:

Your spirit is angry at the hypocritical person you are. If you're looking for "hoes" kindly check your lineage. You sound very uncultured, ill mannered and uncivilized. And to think you're forming Christian but you go about calling people names. Op asked for an advice, give yours and go away. Everyone is entitled to an opinion. I dare you to back up your point with Bible verses because I can back up mine. It's people with your perverted mindset that sees something wrong with it because you have "useless" so many ladies and done abominable things with them that you won't want them for someone close to you. If you took out time to actually read the post instead of going through my profile you would have seen where Op said he wasn't intimate with his ex. It's playboys like you that will see it as incest but can cheat on your gf or wife with her sisters or friends. It's obvious you know nothing about love and how the heart works because most of your relationship I presume are centered on lust. You sound like a child so grow up. Sorry for the harsh words if any. Peace.

Thank God u were able to carefully read through my write up. it's like many guys that had commented earlier didn't see where I stressed on the fact that I was in a No-sex relationship with my Ex.. But anyways sha, I really appreciate all the comments

PrimadonnaO:



You're seeking validation because you already know there's something highly wrong with your decision.

There are girls everywhere. Just leave two best friends alone, silly!

I'm actually seeking validation cox I'maware if the fact that we humans belong to diverse school of reasoning and thought

I married him

Bad idea , sorry to say but look for another lady .

Zainabhamzat20:
Bad idea , sorry to say but look for another lady .

Aiit.. wouldn't u mind if I pm you...

olawaleseun:
Aiit.. wouldn't u mind if I pm you...

Sure go on.