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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by PrettyEneawan(f): 12:03am On Mar 05, 2019
You Can Make Him Lively, God Out Together And Watch Movies Together

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Sevenkiss(m): 12:04am On Mar 05, 2019
Na so...��
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 12:05am On Mar 05, 2019
FuckBots:
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This is a wickedness of the highest order grin
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 12:06am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
no sex yet, thanks

Let him pop your cherry grin after all, u ain’t a brand new nah

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 12:15am On Mar 05, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Post like this gives credence to the useless saying that girls love "bad guys". You don't want him because you think he is boring.

I understand that you want a lively partner, but I will suggest you take a look at how he behaves around others. There are many reasons he loses confidence around you

1. He loves you too much.
2. You have this dominating aura. Some ladies and guys have it. They have a way of looking at you that makes you swallow saliva.
3. He never saw a relationship with you happening. Maybe because he thinks you are way out of his league. EPL things ehn

Give him time, when he is free enough with you or is done basking in the euphoria of his new found love, he will pickup. You sef go fear.

Hold that guy o.
Guys like this no get wahala.

No be all these ones wey once you enter their house, they will on gen, close door, put on loud music and start asking if you are comfortable sitting on the chair, abi you will come sit on the bed.

What good can u offer guys except sex ?

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by IMASTEX: 12:17am On Mar 05, 2019
AntiBrutus:

No be all these ones wey once you enter their house, they will on gen, close door, put on loud music and start asking if you are comfortable sitting on the chair, abi you will come sit on the bed.
Lol. . .you be bad girl.
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by CyberWolf: 12:31am On Mar 05, 2019
rottennaija:
and that's how good guys lose good girls and that's how good girls lose good guys
Exactly and that’s nature for you. Like poles will always repel while unlike poles will always attract.

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Delaw00(m): 12:33am On Mar 05, 2019
Lol bro ur monica/siggycheesy....Op
badadvice:
Op, that guy you're talking about is a "nice guy" and you should fight to keep him unless of course you're one of those girls who like bad guys in their youth and later pray and fight to settle with a nice in the future.
I'll advice you make him comfortable around you by being yourself around him, and by being yourself, i mean being your real self i.e how you were born.
Dress in front of him.
Touch "him" like you own it.
And if possible, fvck more than enough confidence into him.
When a guy becomes comfortable seeing your unclothedness, or having sex with you, he level of confidence around you will pique and you would end up not living a boring life!
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by oladele00(m): 12:45am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Thanks a lot, this means so much to me. He is very active and social with both male and female, but once it's about me he becomes very quiet, it's annoying at times. That's why I decided to hear from people in order to avoid making a mistake. Thanks once again
What are u waiting for?.. Go ahead and fuvk the hell out of him

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Lhimeet(m): 12:45am On Mar 05, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Post like this gives credence to the useless saying that girls love "bad guys". You don't want him because you think he is boring.

I understand that you want a lively partner, but I will suggest you take a look at how he behaves around others. There are many reasons he loses confidence around you

1. He loves you too much.
2. You have this dominating aura. Some ladies and guys have it. They have a way of looking at you that makes you swallow saliva.
3. He never saw a relationship with you happening. Maybe because he thinks you are way out of his league. EPL things ehn

Give him time, when he is free enough with you or is done basking in the euphoria of his new found love, he will pickup. You sef go fear.

Hold that guy o.
Guys like this no get wahala.

No be all these ones wey once you enter their house, they will on gen, close door, put on loud music and start asking if you are comfortable sitting on the chair, abi you will come sit on the bed.

Like they say, the rest na history grin cheesy

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by omooba969(m): 12:46am On Mar 05, 2019
Godsent12:
believe me,that guy is trying to be careful,he does not want to say or do anything that will hurt you,thats why he is humble while talking to you,he really loves you. I'm that kind of guy.

So u be mumu. undecided
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by MrMcJay(m): 12:48am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Thanks a lot, this means so much to me. He is very active and social with both male and female, but once it's about me he becomes very quiet, it's annoying at times. That's why I decided to hear from people in order to avoid making a mistake. Thanks once again

That guy likes you scatter.

He's reserved when with you cos he is careful and won't want to do or say something foolish which may piss you off.

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Richmoney1(m): 12:53am On Mar 05, 2019
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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by naijagee: 12:58am On Mar 05, 2019
LOL..May God help them https://www.naijagee.com
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 1:02am On Mar 05, 2019
Give him a very good Mouth Action
Dino Melaye kind of confidence will come

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Rhea(f): 1:03am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Good evening house, please I need your honest opinion on this issue.

There's this guy who has been my friend for a long time. He asked me out recently. He has very good qualities.

The issue is, he lacks confidence whenever he's talking to me thereby making him boring.
I'm thinking of turning down his request because I can't imagine myself living a boring life or are there ways I can help him improve on that?

Thanks

Most confident men have numerous admirers. If you seek those type of men, be ready to join a long queue. Otherwise, be patient with this guy.

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by omooba969(m): 1:08am On Mar 05, 2019
apelike1:
you are destined to be failure in life undecided

Just look at this women! angry When the Mr Right show up, them tag him as boring or not fun but rather like the one who will bombard them with beatings and treat them like a piece of shiit undecided

Our naija women are Soo stvpid to the extend that they started obtaining sense at the age of 30 and above but it is already too late undecided

You this unfortunate fellow, the road you are about to walk will be full of shiit and misery for you angry



USELESS

Baba èwo ntèpè! undecided undecided

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Offpoint1: 1:15am On Mar 05, 2019
It baffles me how some bunch of strangers who have never met someone in reality would come on cyber space with the conclusion "He's a nice guy" "He's a bad bad"


seekingOp, if you're not comfortable with his lack of confidence towards you, give him a red-light now, it's better now than later. You're only to say yes to him if you know weather he later changes or not you're still going to love him for who he is, if you know you can't... just give him the red light now.
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Organs(m): 1:16am On Mar 05, 2019
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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 1:27am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Good evening house, please I need your honest opinion on this issue.

There's this guy who has been my friend for a long time. He asked me out recently. He has very good qualities.

The issue is, he lacks confidence whenever he's talking to me thereby making him boring.
I'm thinking of turning down his request because I can't imagine myself living a boring life or are there ways I can help him improve on that?

Thanks

Yes it is, Please TURN HIM DOWN, HE DESERVES WAY BETTER THAN YOU, go & find ur Mr confident nigga & leave dis dude to find a real woman who will appreciate him.


After 5-10 years it will be clear whether you made the right or wrong choice.

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by showafrica(m): 1:36am On Mar 05, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Stay with him, hes just scared of making the wrong move, guys like that gives peace of mind.

Players Don teach you something...or you are mature enough. I think OP is still a teenager or early 20s by the time the so called confident guys will come her way, she will be back here like... Why do men cheat and all men are dogs lol.

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 1:41am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Thanks a lot, this means so much to me. He is very active and social with both male and female, but once it's about me he becomes very quiet, it's annoying at times. That's why I decided to hear from people in order to avoid making a mistake. Thanks once again

He is really into you Ma'am and that's why he is always in his best behavior when with you ( although you find it annoying grin).

Give him a chance and if he remains boring, end the relationship.

What have you got to lose?
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Heterodox(m): 1:42am On Mar 05, 2019
Chi59:


cheesy cheesy
Even shy, quiet guys can't be trusted o.
You can trust me. I'm not shy, but quiet.

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Owodiran1(m): 1:54am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Good evening house, please I need your honest opinion on this issue.

There's this guy who has been my friend for a long time. He asked me out recently. He has very good qualities.

The issue is, he lacks confidence whenever he's talking to me thereby making him boring.
I'm thinking of turning down his request because I can't imagine myself living a boring life or are there ways I can help him improve on that?

Thanks
you have the power to carve what you want. Make him lively. Be the source of his confidence. Unlock his hidden courage. By default he ain't boring. He's just shy. I am sure you are pretty
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Reeberry: 1:56am On Mar 05, 2019
AntiBrutus:
Post like this gives credence to the useless saying that girls love "bad guys". You don't want him because you think he is boring.

I understand that you want a lively partner, but I will suggest you take a look at how he behaves around others. There are many reasons he loses confidence around you

1. He loves you too much.
2. You have this dominating aura. Some ladies and guys have it. They have a way of looking at you that makes you swallow saliva.
3. He never saw a relationship with you happening. Maybe because he thinks you are way out of his league. EPL things ehn

Give him time, when he is free enough with you or is done basking in the euphoria of his new found love, he will pickup. You sef go fear.

Hold that guy o.
Guys like this no get wahala.

No be all these ones wey once you enter their house, they will on gen, close door, put on loud music and start asking if you are comfortable sitting on the chair, abi you will come sit on the bed.
You want make I slap your yansh abi? grin

How you take know type guy him be? Nawao. Him fit be killer self. Dey there. grin
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by nextnear(m): 1:56am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Good evening house, please I need your honest opinion on this issue.

There's this guy who has been my friend for a long time. He asked me out recently. He has very good qualities.

The issue is, he lacks confidence whenever he's talking to me thereby making him boring.
I'm thinking of turning down his request because I can't imagine myself living a boring life or are there ways I can help him improve on that?

Thanks
He has VERY GOOD qualities, VERY!!!.
but he lacks confidence whenever he is talking to you, so that is the only issue you wanna turn him down for.
You are not serious at all, in fact you are insane... Are you kidding me, what is happening to you yourself, in fact i think its you that have issue, maybe he should even turn you down self instead. Coz i don't understand people like you.
Can you imagine.
Ok ok you know what... Please turn him down, please, biko turn him down, then you will see how one reasonable beautiful and God fearing youg lady will come and turn him up, high up for you and the world to see.
Nonsense... If you like carry the matter go Instagram or even facebook... God will help you not to make the mistake of posting his name and address. You will see how mircale ladies will locate him.
You better go and pray on your head especially about your attitude. That you will not push away your joy with your own hands.

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Truckpusher(m): 2:05am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
no sex yet, thanks
Hanty!! Even after sharing this thing to everyone , you’re here forming for the innocent boy ! There is God oh !! grin

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by CsRockefeller(m): 2:06am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Good evening house, please I need your honest opinion on this issue.

There's this guy who has been my friend for a long time. He asked me out recently. He has very good qualities.

The issue is, he lacks confidence whenever he's talking to me thereby making him boring.
I'm thinking of turning down his request because I can't imagine myself living a boring life or are there ways I can help him improve on that?

Thanks

I'm that guy right now as the pawn in another lady's chess. Just that unlike your guy, she's never going to consider me.

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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by chiedu7: 2:34am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Good evening house, please I need your honest opinion on this issue.

There's this guy who has been my friend for a long time. He asked me out recently. He has very good qualities.

The issue is, he lacks confidence whenever he's talking to me thereby making him boring.
I'm thinking of turning down his request because I can't imagine myself living a boring life or are there ways I can help him improve on that?

Thanks
Una never start and u find him boring, when una don dey for like a year u fit craze.

A man is at his best, when he is chasing u.

If he is boring now, ein go murd u with boredom later.

NO GO THERE
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by faceland: 2:35am On Mar 05, 2019
seekingop:
Good evening house, please I need your honest opinion on this issue.

There's this guy who has been my friend for a long time. He asked me out recently. He has very good qualities.

The issue is, he lacks confidence whenever he's talking to me thereby making him boring.
I'm thinking of turning down his request because I can't imagine myself living a boring life or are there ways I can help him improve on that?

Thanks

If you are aging follow him.... However, whatever you are looking for, you would find and still come back to the boring guy.
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Yale9(m): 2:41am On Mar 05, 2019
Shaku shaku and zanku are for lazy people


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