Sharing deep secrets can be a way of improving intimacy in relationships. But, women tend to focus more on the little disrespect in the message you convey, ignoring everything else you said. Therefore it is necessary to mind what you say, to avoid hurting her or yourself too. Although you may feel the urge to say everything, but until both of you have gotten to a very high level of understanding, don’t say these things to her.

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