I'm our only son. My elder sis invited me during last year Christmas period. When I came, I met this cutely beautiful girl, very loyal to my sis, going all errands for her and assisting her to take care of the house chores and children.

I silently picked interest in her while studying her moves in and out. I didn't ask any question about her. She's very beautiful like i said. I then Jokingly complimented her, and briefed her regarding my dying interest in her. She smiled, and told me that she was into a relationship with someone. Even living with the guy but the guy isn't taking any good care of her. That she wanted to quit the relationship at any slightest opportunity.

She collected my address and later visited me privately requesting for assistance for her school feels et al. To which I offered reasonable financial aids to her but nothing happened. My sis noticed her moves in my direction and warned me not to go into her cos she's with someone.

She has been disturbing me every day, asking for one form of assistance or another. Do you think it's bad to let go of the warning my sis gave me and dig it out with her even if it'll terminate her current relationship?

I'm tired of useless request for assistances without any string!... It seems I'm losing. Advice pls...

. So, wetin come bring "I'm our only son" to this matter now





BTW, why is she asking you for money when she's already in a relationship Airtel and Mtn got no business

Op, can't u b a philanthropist for once? Somebody can not ask u 2 help her again?

Nothing boastful about this pls. I'm only acknowledging my critical position in the family. If anything goes wrong possibly we are finished. That's why I'm seeking for advice.

Davash222:
. So, wetin come bring "I'm our only son" to this matter now

Davash222:





BTW, why is she asking you for money when she's already in a relationship Airtel and Mtn got no business

The thing tired me ooo.
When I tried to turn down her request, she nearly sick sometimes crying and disturbing my phones. I'm just worried.

me sef don experience dis kind nonsense. i just made myself unavailable she has been looking for me up till today

sherylbakky:
Op, can't u b a philanthropist for once? Somebody can not ask u 2 help her again?

Nothing's bad about being a philanthropist! But the individual involved is questionable.

falcon01:
me sef don experience dis kind nonsense. i just made myself unavailable she has been looking for me up till today

Pls how did you make yourself unavailable to her? If possible, let me try it out.

egbarison:

Nothing's bad about being a philanthropist! But the individual involved is questionable.

hmmm, I see...If u notice she wants somtin, u may give her what she wants...If not, charity is rewardable, dont stop bn nice

There's no issue here, as long as she's not holding a gun to your head, if you can and want to , you can help her but if you don't say it politely. Please keep her at arm's length while helping her too..

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Stop giving her money and follow your sis instruction. If she want to sick, is allowed. She is just using normal woman scope or strategy to take money from you. Op use ur brain. Peace.

try ur best to give her good knackings;help her one more time and disappear for ever..she don see u as ATM

DanDeeBoss:
Girl don see "Maga"

That kind thing!...

I'll try. Thank you.

Rosay15:
Stop giving her money and follow your sis instruction. If she want to sick, is allowed. She is just using normal woman scope or strategy to take money from you. Op use ur brain. Peace.

Typical Nigerian girls... The moment you ask them out, you're owing them automatically.

This girl will collect your money and share it with the other guy. Shine your eyes

Bleep if u want to bleep....mumu are u running a charity?

ceeroh:
Typical Nigerian girls... The moment you ask them out, you're owing them automatically.

Too bad!

egbarison:
I'll try. Thank you.

... You're welcome bro

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egbarison:
I'm tired of useless request for assistances without any string!... It seems I'm losing. Advice pls...

DM me her phone number, lemme take up the charity role. Meanwhile, pray for my quick recovery from what i don't know. Thanks

Hillsabah18:


DM me her phone number, lemme take up the charity role. Meanwhile, pray for my quick recovery from what i don't know. Thanks

You need be strong first to take up the irritating task. I will advise you to save yourself first before you can be of helpe to others (especially gold diggers).

ceeroh:
Typical Nigerian girls... The moment you ask them out, you're owing them automatically.

This girl will collect your money and share it with the other guy. Shine your eyes

Op listen to this post.

You are truly our only son... SMH ode... Some gals need help not love, learn to tell d difference...

This Op self....


She see ATM that dispense without any signatory and stress..... And you want her to stop patronizing such.....
Op don't be greedy Biko...... Give her money.

Her boyfriend doesn't take good care of her..... Biko Give her money.

Your Sis is against her moves.... Ladies are like that, still give her money.

You feel you are losing.... It's called Investment.

Friends with benefit.....

Guy, the babe don mumu zone you period.

Headlesschicken:
Some gals need help not love, learn to tell d difference...

Okay

nobisgod:
Guy, the babe don mumu zone you period.

Smh

Why Did She Choose To Get Help From You And Not Your Sister? OMO You Nice O, OMO This Na Double Double, She De Collect From You And De Collect From Her Guy, Two ATM Machines. Keep It Up O DonT Stop Cos Someone Might Be Sick Again And Again

Sharp babe!

This is a typical Nigerian girl, the best way to be free from her requests is to act broke most times. The annoying part is that they don't care if you are ok or not.

Tell her your container lost at sea. Infact ask her to borrow u 5k let's observe her reaction... I'm sure she'll drop u like hot yam