house am kind of confused, dating a girl just 21 and am like more matured in age than she is, everything was very rosy till that time came,the changing period.when they want to do things and explore.am really confused cos most of the things she does annoys me.its like a new person.been dating her for 2yrs now, but since she clocked 21 its a different thing entirely, is it worth going tru the stress guys,is it worth waiting for,or i should just more on.a very rosy relationship now has turned to quarrell today,quarrell tomorrowPLS HELP ME GUYS AND GALS, made up my mind  on what to do but need more advise,

don P:

.its like a new person.been dating her for 2yrs now, but since she clocked 21 its a different thing entirely

Ok let me get something, is she dating some1 else that ur sure of?
I dont think there's any particular age for a girl 2 change so thats outta the question.

@ Poster,

The truth is nothing can be done to tame her at this stage than to let her be and satisfy her curiosity. Who knows, she may not explore too far before she wanders back to you. It aint abnormal for her to want to explore. This is an inevitable stage in every being. The difference is the ability to control and grace to keep on track.

The bond can be sustained and situation managed if she loves you.

All you need to do is learn how to make your relationship work.
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*What U have to do, do it quick. Delay is dangerous.*
That's my advice, considering that U are engrossed in "thinking of breaking up" more than in "thinking of how to make it work"

Anyhow sha, I have understood from what U have said, that U aren't so much of a mature guy. U want something rosy just cos Ur relationship is waking up to reality? Every intimate relationship wakes up sometime just like children grow up. It can't be naturally dreamy dreamy all the time if it wil have substance.
Getting another girl won't "solve Ur problem" with this one. Call it off if U must but don't go adding list of gf's to Ur CV. Those things affect a man later. girls don't go away. ex or incumbent.

who cares now.

thanks guys,ur kind and strong words wud go a long way.i guess i have to try not to be over protective, i really appreciatecos last weekend we spent it all through together and i had to start seeing things from anoda perspective,instead of the break up angle

being there bruv, and i can tell it's a very thin ice to ski on. if u want her, endeavor to ensure things work out and u will enjoy d relationship more than u anticipated but if your doubt is overwhelming, pls let her go and now too.