friend of mine is in a relationship with a lady 23years old, who has a child, a boy of 6 years old. The lady claim to love the guy but almost every secons of their time the lady always attend to her son and this is getting my friend sad and he is planning on walking away from the relationship. The lady was even saying that, she will take her son with her after marriage, and the guy declined, since then they have been having serious issues ,infact the lady sisters are all saying that the boy will definately follow her mon when my friend went to report to them,this lady used her son pictures on face book, whatsup, even as her phone screen saver ,respectively and my guy is alway not happy with that. Hardly is anytime she is going out to the guy place, the boy will be sad and beg her mom by saying mom dont go,etc

abandon ship!

l don't see da boy as a threat to their relationship.
he is still a kid, with time he will be weaned.
if he marries da girl, when she gives birth for him, her attention will automatically shift.
he should accept da boy as his own and show him love, datz something da boy will never forget

Levels1:
friend of mine is in a relationship with a lady 23years old, who has a child, a boy of 6 years old. The lady claim to love the guy but almost every secons of their time the lady always attend to her son and this is getting my friend sad and he is planning on walking away from the relationship. The lady was even saying that, she will take her son with her after marriage, and the guy declined, since then they have been having serious issues ,infact the lady sisters are all saying that the boy will definately follow her mon when my friend went to report to them,this lady used her son pictures on face book, whatsup, even as her phone screen saver ,respectively and my guy is alway not happy with that. Hardly is anytime she is going out to the guy place, the boy will be sad and beg her mom by saying mom dont go,etc

nonsense jealousy
Dats her son for Christ sake
If you dnt like it u can walk away
Rubbish thread.
So who the person dey follow do competition

I don't understand, does your friend expect her to neglect and abandon her son cos of him? Didn't he know she has a son before he started the relationship If a mother can shun and not love her child that she gave birth to, then that means she will be a terrible wife and mother to his kids if he eventually marry her, tell your friend that a.k.a. you.

I don’t understand this? Please clarify. A woman has a son who she gave birth to. Met a guy and the guy expects her to abandon her son once she is married to him.

I am sorry but her son comes first before a stranger. Any man that cannot love and accept her son as his own should please park and leave the women and her son alone. Her son is used to having his mum alone to himself - now he has to get used to this new man who is a stranger. He has to adjust- he is only six years old and it will take him a while. For a long time it has been only this six year old and his mum.

The guy is being so ridiculous and unrealistic. Do people actually dump their children away because they are getting married to someone that is not the child’s father? What a foolish request for him to make. It shouldn’t even cause fight. The lady should have walked away as soon as he made the foolish request. When he met her he knew she had a child so ....

Biglittlelois:
I don't understand, does your friend expect her to neglect and abandon her son cos of him? Didn't he know she has a son before he started the relationship If a mother can shun and not love her child that she gave birth to, then that means she will be a terrible wife and mother to his kids if he eventually marry her, tell your friend that a.k.a. you.

You be mumu,for saying a.k.a. you. Senseless fellow.

anthonyuncle:
l don't see da boy as a threat to their relationship.
he is still a kid, with time he will be weaned.
if he marries da girl, when she gives birth for him, her attention will automatically shift.
he should accept da boy as his own and show him love, datz something da boy will never forget

You are just too much , mr. Noted.

shege45:
nonsense jealousy
Dats her son for Christ sake
If you dnt like it u can walk away
Rubbish thread.
So who the person dey follow do competition

Must you respond, fool?

Omoge87:
I don’t understand this? Please clarify. A woman has a son who she gave birth to. Met a guy and the guy expects her to abandon her son once she is married to him.

I am sorry but her son comes first before a stranger. Any man that cannot love and accept her son as his own should please park and leave the women and her son alone. Her son is used to having his mum alone to himself - now he has to get used to this new man who is a stranger. He has to adjust- he is only six years old and it will take him a while. For a long time it has been only this six year old and his mum.

The guy is being so ridiculous and unrealistic. Do people actually dump their children away because they are getting married to someone that is not the child’s father? What a foolish request for him to make. It shouldn’t even cause fight. The lady should have walked away as soon as he made the foolish request. When he met her he knew she had a child so ....

I understand your point, you actually talk like a lady,cos men wont have talk the way you do. And again, most men avoid single parent cos of this kind of dispute. Sincerly speaking , i will have walked away if its should be me cause relationship should strictly be between two individual and without third party. I already advise him to walk away and search for simeone without a baggage .