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Reasonable Lies by Atila1(f): 11:25am On Sep 24, 2010
'A MAN WHO HAS NEVER LIED TO A WOMAN HAS NO RESPECT FOR HER FEELINGS'. 'LIES' occupy d ist position on d dislikes list of most people. I came across this statement and am wondering,wat does it mean? Is this y some guys lie , do they do it wit good intentions or is it just in their DNA!
Re: Reasonable Lies by Nobody: 7:09pm On Sep 24, 2010
if the person who made that statement knew anything about RESPECT, he wouldnt have written that garbage statement. this statement was probably made by liars to feel better about their deceit. ALL LIES ARE BAD, however anyone wants to look at it!

just because it makes a few people feel better about themselves, doesnt make a LIE RIGHT.

some people have to lie because the truth is too ugly to achieve whatever goal they are after when they lie.
Re: Reasonable Lies by 1102(m): 8:12pm On Sep 24, 2010
^^
Now tell me u didnt tell your ex a couple of lies that u love her and yet still dumped her~ grin grin
Re: Reasonable Lies by Nobody: 9:34pm On Sep 24, 2010
--190--:

^^
Now tell me u didnt tell your ex a couple of lies that u love her and yet still dumped her~ grin grin


Does loving someone mean you should still up with his/her stupid azz when it doesn't worth it?
Re: Reasonable Lies by Specialist900(m): 9:46pm On Sep 24, 2010
@topic.

Ladies love lies and the brother give it to them just as they want.

E.g a brother tells a lady 'you are beautiful' when actually she is looking like an expensive baboon after wearing excessive makeups,

'this your meal is tasty' when actually it is bland. All these make ladies head swell.
Re: Reasonable Lies by Sexytricia(f): 10:11pm On Sep 24, 2010
Hmmm no comments
Re: Reasonable Lies by Nobody: 1:52am On Sep 25, 2010
--190--:

^^
Now tell me u didnt tell your ex a couple of lies that u love her and yet still dumped her~ grin grin


i may tell a few lies to ladies but "LOVING THEM" is not one of these lies.

Specialist900:

@topic.
Ladies love lies and the brother give it to them just as they want.
E.g a brother tells a lady 'you are beautiful' when actually she is looking like an expensive baboon after wearing excessive makeups,
'this your meal is tasty' when actually it is bland. All these make ladies head swell.

what you meant to say is that you "THINK" that ladies love lies. . . . . . . . just like the same lady would think that guys (like you) love lies when she is telling you that:"you are the best lover she has ever had".

who doesnt love compliments, duh!
Re: Reasonable Lies by Orikinla(m): 4:33pm On Sep 25, 2010
MOST PEOPLE LIE FOR SECURITY REASONS.
To secure something or someone.
But liars should also be ready to face the consequences of their lies.
Lie is a double-edged sword.
It can favour you and it can also devour you.

The choice is yours.
Re: Reasonable Lies by chinedumo(m): 4:54pm On Sep 25, 2010
let me give an example of what he may mean

if a girls is ugly or badly dressed
and she asks u how she looks
what do u say?
the truth
or the lie to make her happy


A woman of over 60yrs
asks u how she looks
she wants u to say something like
"u dont look anything older than 19"
do u say the truth or otherwise?
Re: Reasonable Lies by Nobody: 6:52am On Sep 26, 2010
chinedumo:

let me give an example of what he may mean

if a girls is ugly or badly dressed
and she asks u how she looks
what do u say?
the truth
or the lie to make her happy

if she is a friend and i am being a REAL friend too, i will tell her the honest truth. i doubt she woke up that morning and turned ugly. . . . . . . . and if she was badly dressed then why should i let her continue humiliate herself?! its my duty, as a friend, to tell her to go and get changed!


A woman of over 60yrs
asks u how she looks
she wants u to say something like
"u dont look anything older than 19"
do u say the truth or otherwise?

what is wrong with telling her that she look her age, 60?! who cares what SHE WANTS you to tell her, tell her the TRUTH!
as i said earlier it all depends on what your intentions are. most insecure men would rather tell some obvious lies in order to get between some women´s legs. if they didnt expect to gain anything from that person, they would be fully honest with them.

here is a clue: would you rather that people are totally honest with YOU or, instead, sugar coat shiit to rub your ego (knowing fully well that its a lie)?!
Re: Reasonable Lies by Tinksh(f): 9:22am On Sep 26, 2010
Specialist900:

@topic.

Ladies love lies and the brother give it to them just as they want.

E.g a brother tells a lady 'you are beautiful' when actually she is looking like an expensive baboon after wearing excessive makeups,

'this your meal is tasty' when actually it is bland. All these make ladies head swell.

And we say, 'oh your so good in bed, best ive ever had. When the truth is you where a dud!! grin grin
Re: Reasonable Lies by Tinksh(f): 9:24am On Sep 26, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

if she is a friend and i am being a REAL friend too, i will tell her the honest truth. i doubt she woke up that morning and turned ugly. . . . . . . . and if she was badly dressed then why should i let her continue humiliate herself?! its my duty, as a friend, to tell her to go and get changed!


what is wrong with telling her that she look her age, 60?! who cares what SHE WANTS you to tell her, tell her the TRUTH!
as i said earlier it all depends on what your intentions are. most insecure men would rather tell some obvious lies in order to get between some women´s legs. if they didnt expect to gain anything from that person, they would be fully honest with them.

here is a clue: would you rather that people are totally honest with YOU or, instead, sugar coat shiit to rub your ego (knowing fully well that its a lie)?!

Awesome!!!! Wish most guys did the same or some guys even!!
Re: Reasonable Lies by Specialist900(m): 12:49pm On Sep 26, 2010
Tink_sh:

And we say, 'oh your so good in bed, best ive ever had. When the truth is you where a dud!! grin grin
most ladies I know are very vocal in cases like this
Re: Reasonable Lies by Atila1(f): 12:15pm On Sep 27, 2010
MRbrownJAY:

if the person who made that statement knew anything about RESPECT, he wouldnt have written that garbage statement. this statement was probably made by liars to feel better about their deceit. ALL LIES ARE BAD, however anyone wants to look at it!

just because it makes a few people feel better about themselves, doesnt make a LIE RIGHT.


I totally agree with u. If we all decide to 'respect feelings' by lying, we're only preparing 4 more problems.


Re: Reasonable Lies by Atila1(f): 12:18pm On Sep 27, 2010
Guys, pls emulate MRbrownJAY. Tell us d truth not 'true lies'
Re: Reasonable Lies by 1102(m): 12:23pm On Sep 27, 2010
^^

if all guyz could be like mr.brownjay it would have been awesome,

i really would like 2 date him cos im one hot young lady
Re: Reasonable Lies by Atila1(f): 12:31pm On Sep 27, 2010
@ specialist900, wld u like a lady 2 respect ur feelings this way or shd it apply 2 ladies only?
Re: Reasonable Lies by Nobody: 2:32pm On Sep 27, 2010
--190--:

^^if all guyz could be like mr.brownjay it would have been awesome,

i really would like 2 date him cos im one hot young lady


190, you dey craze!?!?!?! maybe the new NLers dont know who you really are but the old ones do. . . . . . . . . or did Omolola and Mama Gee turned you into a homo?!
Re: Reasonable Lies by Specialist900(m): 5:06pm On Sep 27, 2010
Atila1:

@ specialist900, wld u like a lady 2 respect your feelings this way or shd it apply 2 ladies only?
I think it should apply to ladies alone they are more comfortable with it.
Atila1:

Guys, pls emulate MRbrownJAY. Tell us d truth not 'true lies'
I'd rather be my self. Emulate who?
Re: Reasonable Lies by infobut(m): 5:23pm On Sep 27, 2010
I don't know what people think about Lies but Read Proverbs 6:16-19. Notice how lies was sounded twice.
Re: Reasonable Lies by iice(f): 5:29pm On Sep 30, 2010
Reasonable is subjective and in most cases enabling.
I prefer to stick with the truth. Don't have energy for murky waters. . .i like to see where i'm going and what is at the the bottom of the ocean.
Re: Reasonable Lies by rosely(f): 4:43pm On Oct 01, 2010
Do not get into a fight with urgly people bcs they hv nothing 2 loose.some statement are better left d way they were made.

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