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I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by sweetf: 7:39pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Hello everyone I found a box of condoms in my boyfriend's car yesterday but we don't use condoms, only occasionaly but we had other condoms in the house (we are many years together). It was a box of 3 skin condoms and all the three were in the box. They were not hidden but on the side of the driver's seat, he asked me to get something from his car and that's how I found them. We live in UK and he is working for NHS, so when I asked him why he has condoms in the car his answer was for no reason. Of course I asked for more explanations and he said that they gave them free on his workplace and he had just put them there. The last couple of months he had to stay in London occasionaly because of his work (in a relative's house). I haven't believed his story about the condoms and we argued over this. The reason I haven't believed him is 1: I've worked in NHS before and I've never received free condoms, 2nd they were in a box, usually when you get condoms from a GP/clinic are not in a condoms box but they just put them in a paper bag for you and 3rd they were skin condoms which are more expensive and I would be suprised if NHS give out this kind of condoms. What do you think? Thanks for your replies. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by KennyG6(m): 7:47pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
what exactly is your beef, you two are not married are you? He is merely doing what single guys do, if and when you decide to get married then you can moan about such things |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by CaptCavey(m): 7:49pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
He's sure playing away match,but at least he's protecting himself,and by so doing,he is protecting you. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by sohiemi(m): 7:51pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
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Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Macgreat(m): 7:57pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
SING PRAISES TO HIM BECAUSE HIS PROTECTING YOU AND HIMSELF>>> IT WILL BE A DIFFERENT STORY IF YOU GET AN STD. . . SO< Be happy for him!, |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 8:03pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
@OP: If he is lying and you have doubts then leave. There are people like you who see signs of cheating and inifdelity all the time but refuse to acknowledge it because the person hasn't fessed up. Now if he tells you that has in fact cheated on you, what will you do? Will you continue to stay with him or will you leave him? If you stay, then you run the risk of him cheating again and if you leave well, then you can find someone better. Kenny_G: sweet (f): Ok, did you not read the part where she specifically stated that he is her boyfriend? That's a clear indication that he's not single. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by sweetf: 8:08pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Thank you all for the replies. We are not married but doesn't mean that he is allowed to cheat, this is not something I can accept. I haven't cheat on him so many years we are together and I expect the same from him. If he wants to play around he can do it but I am not going to be in his life. He should be honest if for whatever reason he doesn't love me anymore. I was shocked because I trusted him and we have a very nice relationship. It is not only the cheating (hopefully he hasn't cheated as all the condoms were in the box) but the fact that he's lying as well. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by KennyG6(m): 8:10pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd:of course I did, so what, bf means what? are they married? The guy is merely enjoying bachelorhood until he gets married, the poster should have married him to ensure exclusivity |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by kokoye(m): 8:10pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Since you'v worked @ NHS before, I guess you should still have contacts there. Ask multiple people if they've recently handed out stuff like what you saw. If you really want to clear this up. , but what will you do if you find out he lied? |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Nobody: 8:12pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
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Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 8:13pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Kenny_G: You know what it means. You know they are dating. If they're dating one another then he's ovbiously not single. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by sweetf: 8:14pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
It is not easy to find out if they got free condoms as he visits many sites of national health service because of his job. I'll speak with him again tonight. If he had the intention to cheat for whatever reason hopefully we can try to sort things out, if he had cheated already I have to be strong and finish the relationship. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by KennyG6(m): 8:17pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd:isnt that a tad hypocritical? its ok for the guy to knock her but anyone else is a no-no, This level of exclusivity is reserved only for married couples these pair are not |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by 1102(m): 8:18pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
This gurl is desperately searching for Nairalanders to tell her Her Boyfriend is cheating and she should dump him Now i suggest that we all tell her Nothing, cos its obvious insecurity want to finish her!! |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Nobody: 8:27pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
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Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 8:30pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
I guess she may never know |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Promixking(m): 8:54pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd: sweet (f):, Can i cease this opportunity to make a request and also commend you. You've got the most mind blowing post in this site. I want to ask if i can trip for you or even fall in love. Thanks |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 8:57pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Huh? Are you talking to sweet (f) or me? |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Kelvinj(m): 9:16pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Its u of course. @op I dont think his lying, condoms are even given during health rallies. [s]Moreover he's playing safe even if his cheating[/s] So u dont have 2 worry |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Specialist900(m): 9:18pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
@poster, our man is innocent until proven guilty by a court of competence jurisdiction. Thats Final. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Vic2k3(m): 9:19pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
Yes i concur wit kelvinj and specialist. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Nobody: 9:39pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
You should be thanking him for using condom, SO you both are safe to do your thang un-protected. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by Specialist900(m): 9:55pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
REALITY101:thats the B part of HIV prevention which is 'being faithful to ones partner' which gives you the license to go in unprotected. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by ice234: 1:41am On Sep 25, 2010 |
u should be happy he is playing safe |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by sexylogan(m): 1:48am On Sep 25, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd:True. And now If it was for use with the poster, why leave it in his car? |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 1:51am On Sep 25, 2010 |
sexylogan: Who knows. . . Maybe it slipped his mind. I'm not trying to make excuses for the dude, but this seems like something she may never find out. Personally, it sounds like the dude might be cheating. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by ice234: 1:54am On Sep 25, 2010 |
seeing a condom with a guy doesnt mean he is cheating on you. moreover dont u guys do it with condom |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 1:59am On Sep 25, 2010 |
She said that they do occasionally. Read the bottom half of her explanation as to why she suspects he is cheating. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by ice234: 2:03am On Sep 25, 2010 |
oh didnt see dat |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by sexylogan(m): 2:12am On Sep 25, 2010 |
Inked_Nerd:Yo u are meticulous and sensible. You are[b] very objective. |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by InkedNerd(f): 2:16am On Sep 25, 2010 |
Thank you . Abeg o, please no trip. They go say I get big head . |
Re: I Found A Box Of Condoms In His Car by ice234: 2:19am On Sep 25, 2010 |
lol |
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