I was thinking about the time i did not stand up for my wife and i decided to share it here and hear from you guys maybe it has happened to you also, 
                                       
                                                                 Time i did not stand up for them,

When my  wife and my son travelled  on their arrival date,i have promised them that i will be at the airport to welcome them, it was a well planned welcome surprise i wanted to give them, i have made all the arrangement, on the eve of their arrive date, i had late night shift which made me came back home around 10am in the morning, i took my shower and got ready then i decided to sleep for 2hours because the arrival time was 2:30pm but unfortunately i slept off, around 3:40pm my home bell rang, on rushing there i saw my wife and my son,i was so disapointed ,when i checked my phone i saw 14 missed calls,i checked home phone i saw 5 missed calls.

Even though she understood,i still felt disappointed in myself because i wasn`t there to give them proper welcome as planned.

                                          Time i Stood up for them,

It was a busy day at Lagos Island, traffic here and there,then i decided to spend some time at Lagos Bar beach with my Wife and my son, we order for Drinks, Baileys,Fish,Youghurt,Chips and some other delicacies, Little did i know that i was in for trouble,when it was time to pay,the area mama that attended to us inflated the price from like 25 000naira to 35 000naira, ohhhh i was so furious, i started complaining,

Is it because they see white lady by my side and they think i be Omo butter,
You want to cheat me abi, me ke i no go pay shishi
i explained to my wife and she too got angry that its because she was foreigner,that was why they decided to cheat us
then i decided to fight it out, i removed my clothes remain just pant figthing and argueing with them well later they came to their sences and they reduce my money to around 26 000naira,that was when i paid.

My wife was very happy,that i did not fall MUGU and so she love my TRUE COLOUR more and more


One of the area mama there even told me that bros u no dey shame ooo, i replied , shame ke for my money, Waka.

Inked_Nerd:

Hmmm,

Say something,

dude you need to speak with a professional because you are beating yourself up for things that were beyond your control. take it easy

Share your own experience guys , abi you are always on time?

He's just sharing his experience with us. Doesn't sound to me like he's beating himself up for anything. Nice one, poster.

Inked_Nerd:

@OYINBOGOJU: I've never had an experience like yours, but one of my cousins has a girlfriend who is a white English girl and his mother is giving him hell about his relationship with the girl. The poor girl sends me messages because she's so torn up about the issue because she's afraid of driving a wedge in out family. My parents and friend know better than to question my relationships with people of another ethnicity.

How about yourself? are there no times you did not stand up for your Man?or maybe he did not stand up for you?
and even when he was there for you or you were there for him?

i mean something about yourself,

*** Time i stood for my boyfriend

I got a call from his neighbor dat he was being dragged by some guys cos he was owing them money. . . .mumu dat i was i ran dere with all the money in my

account to save his foolish behind _{few weeks later i saw the bonobo humping a stoopid girl in that same house}

googles:

*** Time i stood for my boyfriend

I got a call from his neighbor dat he was being dragged by some guys cos he was owing them money. . . .mumu dat i was i ran dere with all the money in my

account to save his foolish behind _{few weeks later i saw the bonobo humping a stoopid girl in that same house}

It happens baby, anyway someone needs to stand for someone somewhere, sometimes,

Inked_Nerd:


Eh ya, sorry to hear that. . . I'm not gonna lie though, I giggled a little when you called yourself mumu .

lol. . . . i would have laughed at the whole thingy myself

but we broke up without him paying me my money so each time i remember I get so angry with myself for playing a blue-eyed lovina

OYINBOGOJU:

It happens baby, anyway someone needs to stand for someone somewhere, sometimes,

yea . . . .just that i ll rather be on the sitting side now,let others stand for me

Inked_Nerd:


What?!?!?!?! Ok, now I feel like beating you with a stick . Ah ah, why didn't you get your money? If I were you, I would have found those guys that were dragging him around so they can drag him some more.

Oh well . . . . I thots he was going to pay up without being asked but he refused

but wen i eventually asked he said am being a typical girl. . . . who wants her money back out of anger and revenge cos i caught him cheating, the nerve

i left him to eat and die with the money cos i knew in my heart of hearts i was never going to get it back

@Inked

Ohhhh well, i guess there were time he stood up for you ,

@Inked

I don`t mean Family issue,

What i mean is the time he Fight for your Right

Times he defended you or not defended you,

Times you expected him to do something but he did not do it, that is what i meant by my post.

Hi,inke_nerd,googles,omolola,190,baby.me,stevet,and other responsible forumites,i greet u all,have been away 4 some weeks and i missed u all.Hope no problem?@poster,ur post is really interesting,husband and wife are meant 4 eachother to stand with each other during d good and bad times.

Thanks,Good to hear dat some people cares about me.My weekend was better,hw is urs?

Inked_Nerd:


Hmmm, well like I said, they no better than to question me about me dating people of other ethnic groups. I have never had a situation where I wasn't accepted by my boyfriends family. I had a Mexican boyfriend before but his family didn't seem to mind that I was black or Nigerian and well, my parents just didn't care. As a matter of fact, the first person he told about our relationship was his grandmother and she was totally cool with it. By now, they've [my parents] pretty much figured out that I'll do whatever I want . I've never had a moment where I had to defend/not defend my relationship or the person that I am with.

Now I'm starting to rethink the marriage proposal I was gonna offer u! First, it was Honduran! Now, its Mexican! Dang! You like em Central Americans, huh?

Inked_Nerd:

Mine was ok. Hung out at a friends house then had a headache for the rest of the weekend . I'm feeling better now though

eeyaa sorry,inke can u give me ur mail address or i shld post mine and u will send a message with urs to mine.U ve been a good friend,i like keeping friends like u.

Waiting to hear 4rm u.

Inked_Nerd:


Lmao, I had a feeling you were gonna say something. It was only a matter of time before you poked that head of yours into this thread. I don't know what it is that you have against Central Americans but its not cool man. I have no problem dating people of other nationalities and ethnicies. I have been with Caribbean men, South American, and African men so its not a big deal to me. I don't have a prefernce. Love is love.

Lol. Dominicans, Ricans, Cubans, and South Americans cool. . . . Central Americans/Mexicans?! No Bueno! lol