I need help and I know I probably don't deserve it, but let me explain the circumstances. If you deem myself worthy of any words I would appreciate it.

Blacked out 2 weeks ago after a long night of drinking. Woke up the next day in a hotel room with my ex girlfriend. Definitely had sex with the ex. I explain to her that I have a girlfriend and I'm sorry that things got out of hand last night. Ex agrees that we were both very drunk and says don't worry about it. 2nd big eff up on my part is not going to my current girlfriend (of 6 months) and telling her what happened. I know I'm a dirtbag.

Fast forward two weeks to present day. Current girlfriend is on vacation for a week. Current girlfriend tells me that ex girlfriend is messaging her about us hooking up two weeks ago. What do I do? Lie like the selfish asshole I am or tell the truth and lose what I think is the love of my life?

Details: Current and ex girlfriends do not know each other. Ex girlfriend Instagram stalked me to find current girlfriends username to message her. Why all of a sudden is this happening? HELP please..

Samuelsure33:
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how has this thrash you posted answered the OPs dilemma?!?
Nigerians and scam sha

I drank so I could cheat with my ex.

*Fixed*

Sexually, the only person you owe your loyalty is your wife.

Let her hear it from your own mouth instead of your ex.

Even though your actions weren't premeditated, being drunk is no excuse to cheat. Hope she does you both a favor and break things. If she doesn't, learn from this.

Did you swear an oath with her to be faithful?
Is she engaged with you?
Did you deflower her ?
If the answer to the above questions is NO, then you have no worries, you don't owe your girlfriend anything .

Be careful, your ex might have evidence if you deny bonking her...


Modified, if she brings the evidence, you could say it was a pic taken when you both were still together and that she's tryna blackmail you..

I so much hate this excuse of I was drunk when we had sex, why do cheaters always come up with that excuse

Your ex is not Noob Saibot or Nightcrawler.

She did not magically teleport to your bed. You were drunk (i agree) but still managed to know how to off her pant...and unhook her bra. It takes a lucid man to unhook a bra bro.

Either way, you must have been in control of your senses when arranging to hook up with her. So saying you were drunk is a stupid excuse.

If you can do the crime then you should be prepared to face the time.

This promiscuous men always have one excuse or the other.

ValCon888:
Your ex is not Noob Saibot or Nightcrawler.

She did not magically teleport to your bed. You were drunk (i agree) but still managed to know how to off her pant...and unhook her bra. It takes a lucid man to unhook a bra bro.

Either way, you must have been in control of your senses when arranging to hook up with her. So saying you were drunk is a stupid excuse.

If you can do the crime then you should be prepared to face the time.

Loooool noob saibot I’m dead!!

Bcvuhvd

You don't owe tour girlfriend any explanation, she's not your wife and if you eventually tell her then be ready for what happen afterwards cos she will treat you like trash and probably cheat to your face and still blame your previous mistake as the reason for it. Do not tell her anything.

Jayslicky:
Did you swear an oath with her to be faithful?
Is she engaged with you?
Did you deflower her ?
If the answer to the above question is NO, then you have no worries, you don't owe your girlfriend anything .

See yeye talk.
Now i know the reason why I'm gradually restricting myself from this section.
Kids everywhere


Say what you would have said if the OP was a lady

Well, it's better you tell her yourself than your ex. so it wouldn't look like she's the fool here.
Because your ex gonna spite her so much with it and exaggerate everything you guys did even if that didn't happened.

So if you value your relationship then tell her, if she listens then she would know how to tackle your ex when she comes and likely might defend you.

Divay22:

See yeye talk.
Now i know the reason why I'm gradually restricting myself from this section.
Kids everywhere.


Say what you would have said if the OP was a lady.

Well, it's better you tell her yourself than your ex. so it wouldn't look like she's the fool here.
Because your ex gonna spite her so much with it and exaggerate everything you guys did even if that didn't happened.

So if you value your relationship then tell her, if she listens then she would know how to tackle your ex when she comes and likely might defend you.

People like you always claim to know a lot but lack sense to comprehend simple things, all the questions I asked the him are good ones, he doesn't owe his girlfriend any sexual loyalty since she ain't his wife, likewise his girlfriend doesn't owe him any sexual loyalty, that is why it is called dating and not marriage.

suddenly the Op booked an hotel, he suddenly got Drunk in his hotel room and suddenly his ex appeared beside him in his hotel room....and in Dbanj's voice, everything happened suddenly between them......LIAR!! CHEATER!!

James 1:13-14 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man.... But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.

Killer work you have here.

Men are simple things. They can survive a whole weekend with only three things: beer, boxer shorts and batteries for the remote control.