My very good friend was called in by my ex girlfriend at the early stages of my dispute with her to reconcile us but they eventually ended up in a romantic relationship. As things are right now, he has formally introduced himself to her father and stating his intentions to be a potential husband to his daughter if he approves of the relationship. I am not very comfortable with the whole thing especially my relationship with this very good friend of mine. Please great members of nairaland, kindly advise me on how to handle the situation.

Things like this are aslways happening.

It is very rare that you see someone who settles a relationship
problems without ending up getting involved.

inasmuchas i am not in support of what your pal did,
i still advice that you forget about the two of them and
move on with your life.

Next time learn to settle your despute yourself.

Bye

My brother we should be careful who we call or friends !!! My advice is this leave them alone and find a woman who will respect you and would never want to hurt you. Men out number women remember that!!! and there are so many fine girls looking for a good man

Well said Julian,, You should never ask or seek advice outside not everyone has your best interest at heart,, let this be a lesson for the future
mean while cut your losses and you ties to the both of them, you can do bad all by yourself you don't need help to do that, Blessings my brotha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yusufi:

My very good friend was called in by my ex girlfriend at the early stages of my dispute with her to reconcile us but they eventually ended up in a romantic relationship. As things are right now, he has formally introduced himself to her father and stating his intentions to be a potential husband to his daughter if he approves of the relationship. I am not very comfortable with the whole thing especially my relationship with this very good friend of mine. Please great members of nairaland, kindly advise me on how to handle the situation.

i dont see your problem here

in most average cases your friend is that one who should be worried becoz you once dated his wife and obvious you had some good times, generally you wouldnt want your wife's exes to be near her or to be kept as friends


so i dont see your problem here

lol so it didn't bother you all the while they've been dating till now that they're bout to get married?
Speaking from experience, most times the former relationship is already over before the so called "friend" starts his after watching from the sidelines for a long time. You wouldn't still be friends with that person if they double crossed you.