She has withdrawn from me. She's a simple girl and I love her for her simplicity. I am a logic loving modafoka by nature. She navigates life based on feelings, I tend to be more rational. Anyways, I've come to recognize that such a mix will help me become more social, plus understand and relate with people more, so I don't mind.

Is the relationship over or should I put more effort?

I really like her and want to build something long-lasting with her but after the initial passion filled three weeks, everything has suddenly started going cold. I don't usually date for more than six months, and I always move on without hesitation, but this is someone that I like a whole lot, and I'm willing to work hard to make something worthwhile out of the relationship.

Please, let me know your views. I trust this board very much. Thanks.

Christiand331:
Read below it

Why not make multiple accounts and pack all of the money? BASTARD.

NUJABEZ:


Why not make multiple accounts and pack all of the money? BASTARD.

lol

She’s really boring. Fvcking admit it OP. Na so una deh lie upandan to deceive girls. NONSENSE.

stupidity:
She’s really boring. Fvcking admit it OP. Na so una deh lie upandan to deceive girls. NONSENSE.

Always remember Ying and Yang. Cold and Hot, Summer and Winter. We can't all be the same.

Abbreviating every word and typing I'M as AM,

You are cancelled.

pocohantas:
You dey type I'M as AM,

You are cancelled.

Where did you see that? You don't write or speak better than me though.

NUJABEZ:


Where did you see that? You don't write or speak better than me though.

Your bae.

Which kind mumu boring chat be this?

pocohantas:


Your bae.

Doesn't matter. We are not all going to be the same, but tell me: should I put more effort or abandon ship?

badadvice:
Which kind mumu boring chat be this?

I don't mind, only if she would kill that complex that has slowly crept in.

lol

she's ready to buy land in your brain,build a house are relax there

you dey here dey ask question

if she's not what you want, you move,instead of stressing

lilmax:
lol

she's ready to buy land in your brain,build a house are relax there

you dey here dey ask question

if she's not what you want, you move,instead of stressing

I've tried to understand, but couldn't. I wish you were more plain.

NUJABEZ:


I don't mind, only if she would kill that complex that has slowly crept in.

i believe the problem or "complex" is with you man.
You don't engage her in decent conversations.

badadvice:


i believe the problem or "complex" is with you man.
You don't engage her in decent conversations.

You're judging from a few screenshots and I think you should understand there were also phone calls, and that you should take my word.

So she is the Boo and your the Bae. Ok!

I don't know... I think I should break up

NUJABEZ:
I don't know... I think I should break up

Talk true... Do you find her interesting? If you do, then she is just looking for an escape route. She don see another Bae, she wan use style leave you.

JoyIsSweet:


Talk true... Do you find her interesting? If you do, then she is just looking for an escape route. She don see another Bae, she wan use style leave you.

I really do find her interesting. She's very kind and caring, pretty (easily an 8/10), and working class. She ticks a lot of my boxes. But she has suddenly clammed up because of whatever reason I don't know.

Can’t she just tell him to leave her alone instead of coming with this “it’s me, not you” lie?

Pretentious manipulative individual.

Dude, wake up and smell the coffee. It’s time to forget her.

Altern8:
Can’t she just tell him to leave her alone instead of coming with this “it’s me, not you” lie?

Pretentious manipulative individual.

Dude, wake up and smell the coffee. It’s time to forget her.

Thanks for confirming what I've been thinking.

A guy your babe is in love with told her she is boring! So basically she is trying to confirm from you if she is actually boring cause it matters to her, maybe she'll change but instead you choose to lie to her you should have just told her the plain truth. She is boring!!

NUJABEZ:


Thanks for confirming what I've been thinking.

If you’ve invested much time in this, you just have to let it go. You win some, you lose some.

It’s better to leave now. Cos one day, when you complain about her noncommittal disposition, she’ll say she warned you but you chose to remain with her.

Altern8:


If you’ve invested much time in this, you just have to let it go. You win some, you lose some.

It’s better to leave now. Cos one day, when you complain about her noncommittal disposition, she’ll say she warned you but you chose to remain with her.

Not that much time. 4 months. I'll break up with her eventually. I tried to fix the relationship but she isn't pulling her weight.

OP I think Deicide made some salient points to note. To be honest, I have tried everything to get rid of some boring girls but it just never works. Yours seems to be the one giving up. Tell me how you do it man seriously.

Ok now to advice you. I think if you really want her to stick around stop greeting her like a child 'good evening' dude really? Is she your aunt's mate? You are making her feel old and that is boring. A girl should be the one to greet a guy not the other way around.

If I were the one she was chatting with, I would tell her yes you are really boring but don't worry I can turn it around only if you agree to buy me lunch when next we meet.

Anything outside this you are on your own my brother o... Run!!!!!

If you know you know

NUJABEZ:
She has withdrawn from me. She's a simple girl and I love her for her simplicity. I am a logic loving modafoka by nature. She navigates life based on feelings, I tend to be more rational. Anyways, I've come to recognize that such a mix will help me become more social, plus understand and relate with people more, so I don't mind.

Is the relationship over or should I put more effort?

I really like her and want to build something long-lasting with her but after the initial passion filled three weeks, everything has suddenly started going cold. I don't usually date for more than six months, and I always move on without hesitation, but this is someone that I like a whole lot, and I'm willing to work hard to make something worthwhile out of the relationship.

Please, let me know your views. I trust this board very much. Thanks.

She:are you around?
You:no I went out
Thats where the problem is.how can you tell a lady you miss her and when she offers to meet you,you couldn't tell her when you would be around? Like "but I would be home by 6pm"? Of cos the would think she's boring you that's why you can't even tell her when you'd be available. Its no maths.

Reverse psychology.

Over boring dey worry that girl. How can you type "make" as "mk"

At OP, she's telling you she's boring now, but love dey overshadow you.

Anyway, I ll be here when you will create another thread that reads: " Help me...my girlfriend is boring "

Maybe she's trying to tell you that you are boring, good gentle soft spoken guys are most times boring, try spicing up the relationship spark it up man.