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I didn't read the nonsense you wrote but it's obvious that you are a very weak sissy. I spit men who allow women to give them problems.

Charanko:
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I didn't read the nonsense you wrote but it's obvious that you are a very weak sissy. I spit men who allow women to give them problems.

daddio:
Do not leave your girlfriend for Blessing.
Try to call her again about the business but make sure u always record your conversations.
She will try to ruin you or get you at all cost but you have to be the man you should. If at all you have to meet with blessing let it be in an opened outlet or where there are people. You may get a video recording pen or button to get her actions too. DO NOT let her over smart you.

SweetBuns:

Passing quick judgement without hearing his story is very shallow of you if you ask me


What an immature way to speak. In a bid to sound "Savage", you just made yourself look stupid

nwanneni:
Don't kid yourself!there is no way blessing is doing any business with you if you won't date her.
At this point you've got to choose;
Either being with the ill experienced,probably broke 21 year old who hasn't got any footing in life yet.
Or
-Go to blessing whose union might take you to greater height.
Ask yourself this;where do I want to be in 5 years?
Can my 21 year old support this dream?then chose!
And you sound like a newbie.why would you open a joint account with your gf?a 21 year old for that matter jeez!
You don't get anywhere in life by being a fool my guy.you've got to make some sacrifices which could be selfish at times.
And you mentioned your girl started taking you serious this year do you know what that means?
Please try and check her finances and know what changed maybe you are that last resort she wants to cling on to,which I hope I am wrong anyways
Just maybe after you find out,you would realise you aren't the only CAPITALIST in the relationship
That will help you make that decision you need to move you up the social ladder
Be wise! You are dumb and ignorant, but as phycology has proven your type thinks they are smart. The load of bull crap you typed said everything. So a 21 year old is not old enough or ain't capable of handling things bla bla bla just the usual crap.

I know your type, freaking annoying blokes.

Last time I checked intelligence has nothing do with neither age nor gender. Probably you're fucking' barbarian, who knows

Oblongata:

She is the victim here!
You said she has curves and she is hot, and you also pass comments on her, and she is guilty for running after you?

You are still interested in making business with her and also hitting on her, you are the wicked one here...
If you are serious;
Bar her number, change your bank, severe any possible ties with her...

Bye

nwanneni:
maybe you be the 21 yr old girl brother ooo
Ndi psychology
Of course I am a smart man na,you know where I dey now
Yes,a 21year old girl with access to money she didn't work for is highly unstable and vulnerable to cunning men
ABI op,you want make them take that your phone money take give one local sweet talker Or use your money take solve family problems?
You maestro is the dumb one here.

Goodyp:
not access to my money... i opened it with her for sth we discussed together...

nwanneni:
maybe you be the 21 yr old girl brother ooo
Ndi psychology
Of course I am a smart man na,you know where I dey now
Yes,a 21year old girl with access to money she didn't work for is highly unstable and vulnerable to cunning men
ABI op,you want make them take that your phone money take give one local sweet talker Or use your money take solve family problems?
You maestro is the dumb one here.

themaestro08:
your assumption proves my point.

Goodyp:
Long story, please be patient read and advise your brother properly.

I have been battling with a problem in my heart since this year. Though I talked about this with my girlfriend (wife to be ) but she didn't get a glimpse of what I was saying( not in detail of what is going on).

About my relationship now.
I was a flirt (not with many girls, only one but I don't stay up to 6months in any relationship ) but very cautious not to endanger my life tomorrow.
So decided to channels my life to business and look for a good woman that could be there for me.
I met my woman when she was not exposed and my feelings for her never drop but I started having mix feelings when she gets exposed. She is very beautiful and nails with a good background upbringing. I disguised myself when I met her, but when I found out she was honest with me. shame could not allow me to tell her about myself properly. She found out herself and I apologized.

Then I started to have feelings that things may not work out between us. She gets angry easily and little issue, she will be clamoring to leave me. That was what made me feel far from her. I thought of getting myself into a fresh relationship but things didn't work out with the new girl. Actually, I met the devil that period. With speed I went back to her.. wow she accepted me back with all the flaws... I couldn't believe my eyes that she loves me that much.

This is 2/yr we are together in a serious relationship. I love her from the beginning, even I made it known to her. However, I made it serious with her when she confronted me. She annoyingly asked me,
1. Why ever since we are together that I never sit her down and discuss something serious.
2. Doesn't mean I can't advise her. Or that she is alright in everything she does.
Honestly, she said many things that burst my head. That she purposely gave me headaches to know whether I could correct her and I never did.
Reason:
Honestly, my previous relationship if am dating any woman I don't care to know how she lives her life. Only focus on the happiness I derived from the relationship.

This is the reason I created this thread.
This girl (Blessing) is after my life because she vowed to make hard in any cross she finds me. Blessing is a customer service personnel in Zenith Bank Plc and my account manager. I operate four accounts with her. Savings account, current account, domiciliary account, and joint account.
I hope she will come across this thread. Blessing never my girlfriend. Though she is beautiful with a beautiful figure. I tease her a lot like my woman dunno she took it affectional. I got to know she have feelings for me when we went out for a date and she asked me about myself.
I detailed everything even about my business. But the discussion didn't end well when I told her I'm in a serious relationship. She got angry and left me at that place.
Though she told how she moved out from abuse relationship with a smoker and unserious guy that took her as shit whenever he got home drunk. Beat her up for a minor issue.
(I don't drink nor smoke and I never did, ever since I was born even in secret of which I told her).

She didn't stop there, she pulls more efforts to win my heart.
She was mad when I took my woman to open a joint account with her. When my woman left the banking hall I went straight to her and told her that was my woman you saw me with...
Though blessing is business minded she has brought many investments to me. The last one that pushed me to nairaland now... it's a business of N5m. Importing goods from China.
I supposed to be in Lagos now to finalize the business, the problem that broke out 3 days ago made it paused now. Even she wants to invest N3m first... that's I will manage the business while she focuses on her work. We agreed.

My woman traveled for her grandma burial. I saw it as an opportunity to discuss further for the business.
I kept it secret to my woman, though I told her I will leave Abuja for Lagos last week.... she may cry foul if she notices my movement with blessing when I don't know Blessing motive with me if not that Thursday.

Story change. Blessing openly told me she loves me and things will work out between us, that actually she knows I'm currently in a serious relationship. That I should have a
rethink about it. She seduced me 90% that day but I pushed her away. She was mad, shame could not allow her that very day. I left her house with no further discussion about the business, though she is living large more more more than me.
I was strong like a hero with no betraying heart when I called my woman yesterday, she was crying because of her grandma departure ( grandma was laid to rest yesterday ).
So I was able to console her. I would have felt guilty if actually, I went down to rumple blessing bed that Thur.


The smartness of my woman started this yr, she developed a lot of seriousness with me this yr.. i.e she's more closer to me than before... I have promised her a lot this yr.
I love her a lot but she doesn't believe I love her that much.

Please, the point now I have no reason to leave my woman for Blessing. I have a business that's profiting me with little challenges. Business guys in the room know what I'm saying.
I'm 24 yrs not graduate. My woman 21 yrs not graduate. Blessing 27 yrs a graduate. I'm the same tribe with a Blessing. But I start a life together with my woman... When I don't know my left and right. and things are actually working fine for me now.

This business Blessing told me about... She has given me clear details of the business. I have N2m to execute the business. But dunno if I Should go ahead without letting her know my plan.
Or should I wait to hear from her again whether she is no longer interested in doing the business with me? Because I have begged her to keep a relationship aside from this business and no reply yet.

I'm into gaming laptops and accessories sales and the business is almost the same. In which I'm 100% certain I can do it. It looks like things work out for me with women than men.. the person in charge of sales is a mature lady (she never talk about anything relationship because she knows I'm in a serious relationship with my woman) that's 8 yrs older than me. I focus more on advertising online in which 80% of the sales come from the advert online and buying them from the USA.


I never tell anybody even my sister, because if I table it to kid sister, she will likely tell me to leave my woman... She loves money a lot. I just want to advise from unknown reasonable persons.
Please say something to my head.
Thanks for reading a go*dy story....help me, please.

micfoley:
Any man who can discipline himself with regards to women has solved half of his lifetime problems

Mcslize:
Goodyp, I will be sincere with you. Stay with your woman. Pls never go for Blessing, she might end up controlling you and boss you around from the look of things. She is older than you and a graduate.

With all sincerity, that type of lady will never respect you as her husband if both of you end up marrying. Never make the mistake of leaving your present woman as you said she has been taking things more seriously with you of recent. Stay put.

Be guided!