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Deleted Post by iz2much: 1:00pm On Oct 02, 2010
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Re: Deleted Post by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:12pm On Oct 02, 2010
iz2much:

I am an undergraduate and married. My husband hardly gives me attention because of a 14-year-old girl. He lied to me that he only wanted to help her, but I caught him making love to her in the same compound where we live. I saw them in the girl‘s room. He was almost speechless and ever since, life has been anything but peaceful at home. Anytime I complain, he doesn‘t listen. Yet I do everything possible o make him happy and I have prayed to God to take control. One night he woke me up and declared that he had stopped sleeping with her, but I knew it wasn‘t true. Now, he wants my love. What do I do?


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what does your education qualification got to do with your story
Re: Deleted Post by Vic2k3(m): 1:19pm On Oct 02, 2010
^^ thats to emphasize that she is seldomly @ home.

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Re: Deleted Post by Dyt(f): 1:26pm On Oct 02, 2010
.Den ur children r nt safe

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Re: Deleted Post by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:28pm On Oct 02, 2010
Vic2k3:

^^ thats to emphasize that she is seldomly @ home.

so does it mean that undergraduates are not always home ?
Re: Deleted Post by hinduism(f): 2:05pm On Oct 02, 2010
And so what? were you carrying out your duty faithfully before he got under aged girl?
Re: Deleted Post by ndigbo: 2:06pm On Oct 02, 2010
ZIM DRILL:

so does it mean that undergraduates are not always home ?

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Re: Deleted Post by Vic2k3(m): 2:09pm On Oct 02, 2010
Zim Drill not really. Jxt to say that given shes an undergrad(and usually @ school) it is apparent that they do make out in her absence.

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Re: Deleted Post by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:28pm On Oct 02, 2010
Vic2k3:

Zim Drill not really. Jxt to say that given shes an undergrad(and usually @ school) it is apparent that they do make out in her absence.

i know what she meant but there was no to tell us about her studies she should have just said she is not always home
Re: Deleted Post by queeneve: 3:02pm On Oct 02, 2010
Adultery is a NO NO in my book. If a spouse can scooped that low to sleep with someone else potentially contracting a deadly disease from someone who may be infected and passing on to the spouse is HEARTLESS and SELFISH.

If a spouse is not happy with his or her spouse, THE LAST THING A SPOUSE should be doing is SLEEPING OUTSIDE THE HOUSEHOLD. There are TOO MANY DISEASES out there for someone to careless destroy the family's health. Children should be involve in any decisions the spouses make because it AFFECTS them as well.

If you can't be faithful DO NOT GET MARRIED and that for both male and female. Most MEN will leave their wives if their WIVES committed adultery, BUT THE SOCIETY tells the woman she MUST WORK IT OUT with her CHEATING husband. This is a sexist society and it is clearly not WHAT GOOD FOR THE GOOSE, GOOD FOR THE GANDER mentality.

We as adults TEACHING girls THAT IT OKAY TO allow your husbands to cheat BECAUSE that how the society FUNCTIONS, and BE GLAD THAT YOU HAVE A HUSBAND because their other women who will GLADLY accept your cheating husband TO AVOID being alone,

Parents, if you think that CHEATING doesn't affects your children, you are in for a rude awakening.

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Re: Deleted Post by naijacutee(f): 3:07pm On Oct 02, 2010
Some people are mad. A paedophile is caught abusing a minor, and you are here blaming his "wife"? Is the man a zombie that he cannot control his sexual urges?

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Re: Deleted Post by Loveaflame(m): 4:03pm On Oct 02, 2010
Wonders that are evil will never end.My dear sister,your husband has abused his position in your life and in your family.

For him to descend so low,it shows he has a serious emotional problem.If it is not his habit you need to help him overcome that weakness.

But if it is habit you better take his case to a spiritual expert who can cast out the devil in him.
Re: Deleted Post by naijacutee(f): 4:04pm On Oct 02, 2010
Loveaflame:


But if it is habit you better take his case to a spiritual expert who can cast out the devil in him.

The devil in him is his corrupt eye that he cannot use to look at a young girl without thinking otherwise. That is what should be cast out - unless our "spiritual expert" wants to use this one to chop?
Re: Deleted Post by james1(m): 4:14pm On Oct 02, 2010
@poster.what a shame.get peeps your husband respect to talk to him;keep showing him love and respect.talk to him,letting him know that it is a letdown to you for him to be involved in such an act.you on your part,take stock and see if there are areas that you need to improve on.never give your partner a chance to cheat;more often than not,people will cheat should they have the chance.that does not mean they don't love their partner's.there are factor's that make for such a situation,eliminate or keep those factor's at the barest minimum.for example:a woman who know's her husband is an avid"poacher"employ's a female house maid.is that not recipe for trouble?
Whatever you do;know that this situation can be handled without breaking your home.it is one of the test that will make you stronger.

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Re: Deleted Post by Kingz4life: 4:21pm On Oct 02, 2010
Mst she tel us dat she z n udagrdt bside were wz she wen her hsband wz slepng wit d girl it shws dat she nt alwz at dat y d hsbnd ve ntng 2 do bt 2 pound on de available persn.
Re: Deleted Post by Nobody: 4:22pm On Oct 02, 2010
Ur hushand need 2 b arrested.

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Re: Deleted Post by double08(m): 10:46pm On Oct 02, 2010
fresh blood things angry angry angry
Re: Deleted Post by 190: 11:15pm On Oct 02, 2010
[size=13pt]Even 14yrs old now into Legit FULL TIME SUGAR DADDY BUSINESS

NIJA WHICH WAY!!
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Re: Deleted Post by Dsense(m): 12:12am On Oct 03, 2010
Abeg go join d wining club ,make three of una dey do am together grin grin grin he sweet oo tongue tongue tongue
Re: Deleted Post by 190: 12:21am On Oct 03, 2010
^^
Who-who and who!!
Re: Deleted Post by Dsense(m): 12:26am On Oct 03, 2010
Husband, wife nd da girl. grin grin
Re: Deleted Post by aminalib(f): 12:32am On Oct 03, 2010
it is so shameful and sad as to what women will put up with, this guy knows you will not go anywhere so that is why he doesn't listen to you , if a man messes up he should be on his knees begging you for forgiveness and mercy, not YOU BEGGING HIM TO STOP, the same night you caught him, you should have raised hell and show him just how crazy you can be.

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Re: Deleted Post by Dsense(m): 12:36am On Oct 03, 2010
But i'm deeply sure she never wanna be crazy at all grin grin grin So PEACE!!!!!!!
Re: Deleted Post by sms4health: 3:16pm On Oct 03, 2010
He is both an adulterer and a pedophile but he is not repentant. Instead you are the one trying to make peace.

Just know you have set the tone for your marriage.

He will not change especially as you have readily forgiven him

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Re: Deleted Post by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jun 12, 2012
A 14yr old? Some men are so stupid.

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Re: Deleted Post by luckgames(m): 7:23pm On Jun 12, 2012
iz2much: I am an undergraduate and married. My husband hardly gives me attention because of a 14-year-old girl. He lied to me that he only wanted to help her, but I caught him making love to her in the same compound where we live. I saw them in the girl‘s room. He was almost speechless and ever since, life has been anything but peaceful at home. Anytime I complain, he doesn‘t listen. Yet I do everything possible o make him happy and I have prayed to God to take control. One night he woke me up and declared that he had stopped sleeping with her, but I knew it wasn‘t true. Now, he wants my love. What do I do?


http://www.punchontheweb.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art201010023234067
He should go to jail for rape
The girl is just a child

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Re: Deleted Post by cfours: 8:50pm On Jun 12, 2012
190: [size=13pt]Even 14yrs old now into Legit FULL TIME SUGAR DADDY BUSINESS

NIJA WHICH WAY!!
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what a fool.

a 14 yr old is a child. That is RAP[size=1pt].[/size]E!!!!
Hope you're not r[size=1pt].[/size]aping 10yr old girls in exchange for sweets and biscuits. tufiakwa

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Re: Deleted Post by cfours: 8:51pm On Jun 12, 2012
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Re: Deleted Post by queensmith: 9:06pm On Jun 12, 2012
iz2much: I am an undergraduate and married. My husband hardly gives me attention because of a 14-year-old girl. He lied to me that he only wanted to help her, but I caught him making love to her in the same compound where we live. I saw them in the girl‘s room. He was almost speechless and ever since, life has been anything but peaceful at home. Anytime I complain, he doesn‘t listen. Yet I do everything possible o make him happy and I have prayed to God to take control. One night he woke me up and declared that he had stopped sleeping with her, but I knew it wasn‘t true. Now, he wants my love. What do I do?


http://www.punchontheweb.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art201010023234067

ehn? Wants love ke? she didnt call the police and get the pedophile incarcerated? She allowed him to continue to defile little girls across the nation? Is she having a laugh!

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Re: Deleted Post by brownusagirl(f): 12:33am On Jun 13, 2012
Girl call the police asap on that child molester with his nasty self.

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Re: Deleted Post by Olalekan0(m): 12:49am On Jun 13, 2012
Reason why nigerian women have to put up with cheating and abusive men is because they(women) are broke and cannot take care of themselves should they leave the men. Shikenar

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