greateros:

Frustration, tooo bad

As for wife beating, pray you don't marry the one with koboko on her tongue, discouragement on her lips and ingratitude for her manners

You wouldn't know when u started beating her

Hence my reason for opting to be only a father and not a husband,

Never been married and never will be, and yet a sweet daddy to two lovely sons from different mothers,

nopuqeater:

Allah says in the Quran; A bad woman for a bad man. A good woman for a good man. A disbelieving woman for a disbelieving man. A believing woman for a believing man.

Imagine Basirat in Church? And she died as a disbeliever, beaten to death by a man who  does not fear his Creator. Yet it was this woman that certified him as a father. Yet it was the same woman that he slept with and enjoyed the mercy and blessing provided from her.

What an evil man.

If I were in authority in Nigeria, his case would have been done. Subhannallah. What a piece of work for a man.


Eyin Obinrin Muslim, e ma fee keferi o, tori pe won ko ni ipaya Olorun Oba. Onigbagbo Ododo ni lati ronti Olorun Oba to Aiye to da Orun. Allah.


Eyin ti e fi Islam sile, e fi oruko Islam sile o.

oludashmi:

 

Immediately after vigil she looked for trouble
immediately after she looked for trouble he beat her
immediately after he beat her, landlord came to rescue her
immediately after landlord rescued her, she fainted under her husbands beating
immediately after the fainted, she died
immediately after that, her husband's eyes clears
immediately after that, he tells the history with regrets
immediately after that, he remembered how he had prayed hard at the vigil


Hmmnn
Now he will never raise his hand against a woman but it is too late.
Do you claim to be the head of a house by beating your woman?

uplawal:

what a pity for her to die as a disbeliever,no mercy for her at all,if she died a less practicing muslim is one million times better than a disbeliever,or an umbeliever,just imagine the number of years she would spend suffering in the grave before she finanly end in hellfire till eternity


Nairalander,this is not a joke at all,is plain reality of what will happen to anybody that die as non muslim,either during past prophets,jesus(as)time,and our time now,embrace ISLAM for is the only religion that guarantee salvation

bawomolo:

i didn't know nagging would encourage a man to open his checkbook.

uplawal:

Nairalander,this is not a joke at all,is plain reality of what will happen to anybody that die as non muslim,[/b]either during past prophets,jesus(as)time,and our time now,[b]embrace ISLAM for is the only religion that guarantee salvation

bayleaf:

it seems every ten years something bad happens to this man. he was married for ten years after which his wife left him. then he married again and ten years later he killed his wife. i wonder what the next ten years would bring for him.

spikedcylinder:

It's not just women that suffer abuse in marriage, men suffer too. Honestly, some woman are pure wrenches. Insufferable mongrels. Chai. Not one moment of peace and sanity. Always screaming, fighting, shouting, hating, swearing, cursing, insanely jealous, extremely rude, malicious etc. Jesu!
I know a woman like that and if she was married to my brother, I'd have put [i]otapiapi[/i]a in her food a long long long time ago.

According to the landlord in this story, the woman was like that. I'm not excusing her husband beating her but it only takes a very very strong willed man not to retaliate violently with a mongrel for a wife.
Now, this is the sorry end. I hope this serves as a lesson.

ada24:

as much as i want to agree with you - i have to say that at times just as a man is provoked a woman is also provoked as well. If a man does not know how to be a good husband it is only a matter of time that "good" wife will start nagging and knowing our culture every problem in the marriage is the womans fault.

we know this man is not going to spend more than a few days in jail, there is NEVER any reason to raise your hand against a woman especially the mother of your child. i'm sorry this needs to stop so - we have men in this day and age that think its ok to beat your wife - oh i wish some of them would try that foolishness in countries that REALLY punish this barbaric behaviour.

if he had killed anyone else it would be point blank murder or manslaughter - but cos its a "nagging" nigerian wife its ok right

spikedcylinder:

It's not just women that suffer abuse in marriage, men suffer too. Honestly, some woman are pure wrenches. Insufferable mongrels. Chai. Not one moment of peace and sanity. Always screaming, fighting, shouting, hating, swearing, cursing, insanely jealous, extremely rude, malicious etc. Jesu!
I know a woman like that and if she was married to my brother, I'd have put [i]otapiapi[/i]a in her food a long long long time ago.

According to the landlord in this story, the woman was like that. I'm not excusing her husband beating her but it only takes a very very strong willed man not to retaliate violently with a mongrel for a wife.
Now, this is the sorry end. I hope this serves as a lesson.

ada24:

as much as i want to agree with you - i have to say that at times just as a man is provoked a woman is also provoked as well. If a man does not know how to be a good husband it is only a matter of time that "good" wife will start nagging and knowing our culture every problem in the marriage is the womans fault.

we know this man is not going to spend more than a few days in jail, there is NEVER any reason to raise your hand against a woman especially the mother of your child. i'm sorry this needs to stop so - we have men in this day and age that think its ok to beat your wife - oh i wish some of them would try that foolishness in countries that REALLY punish this barbaric behaviour.

Aloy+Emeka:

2) Don't push HIM to see what he is capable of doing. The police may be 911 away but the way he reacts may leave you lifeless before the police arrives. Don't push anybody(including women) beyond their mental ability because they may snap and turn deadly in a flash.

You are so right on this. Some women believe "he's my husband, I can do whatever I want". You'd be shocked. Ehen. A word. Enough. For. The wise.
[size=5pt]I know you cannot do without your daily dose of spikey so I know you're reading this. I'd be happy to come to your funeral and hook him up with a woman who deserves him, you hear?[/size]

uplawal:

why dnt you cry for your ignorance instead?[b]what would happen to basira would definately happen to every disbeliever or umbeliever like you except you accept God as one and not three,[/b]and follow his laws in the Quran and the ways of the last prophet

follow his laws in the Quran and the ways of the last prophet

Aloy+Emeka:


[size=14pt]MY RULES are very simple and straight to the point; If you don't want to get hit by a man:[/size]

1) Always keep your hand to yourself and never hit a MAN unless for self defense.

2) Don't push HIM to see what he is capable of doing. The police may be 911 away but the way he reacts may leave you lifeless before the police arrives. Don't push anybody(including women) beyond their mental ability because they may snap and turn deadly in a flash.

3) Recognize that God gave the woman a very sharp tongue. The woman's tongue is capable of pitting nations against each other how much less one person. That tongue of yours is venomous.Please use it wisely.

4) Their EGO. Play with a man the best way you can, clean out his account BUT do not tamper with his EGO.

ada24:

some people seem to think that men are just sitting down quietly performing their husband duties perfectly and its the woman causing all the problems and has now pushed the man into an animal.

ada24:

there are some men out there who are bad and beat their wives cos its their nature or they may have witnessed it growing up and are now conditioned to act this way.

uplawal:

what a pity for her to die as a disbeliever,no mercy for her at all,if she died a less practicing muslim is one million times better than a disbeliever,or an umbeliever,just imagine the number of years she would spend suffering in the grave before she finanly end in hellfire till eternity


Nairalander,this is not a joke at all,is plain reality of what will happen to anybody that die as non muslim,either during past prophets,jesus(as)time,and our time now,embrace ISLAM for is the only religion that guarantee salvation

*Hauwa*:

it is rare to see african man in africa that does not hit a woman.
it makes their p r i c k thick since that's what most of them think with. imagine if they have guns like their friends in western countries. women might have been wiped away.  women are endangered species in africa.

now he could make up stories afterall the woman is not there to defend herself. i hope he rots in jail.