Hello Guys,

Please don’t Mind my English, am really typing this in tears and pain.

So there’s the babe I’ve been dating, I truly love her and we’ve been setting up my new flat and making plans for our Traditional wedding hopefully this November but something tragic struck and took away all d Joy and Happiness....

This was how it began, she took my phone and went through all my chats and I had some female friends I’ve been flirty chatting with but honestly I I was dumbed to have done dat...

I lied to them that I was single and searching I never accepted that I had a Fiancé just for the fun of it I also lied that she was my cousin and she found out all those stuffs and now she has ended the relationship...

I’ve cried and wept because my stupidity has made me to loose my angel...

She’s an ideal wife I never knew what got over me to just try being flirty....

I have involved my Family and her Family to beg her but she has refused. She told my eldest brother that she can’t love me anymore.

I’ve also pleaded with her best friend and siblings to plead with her but she’s not willing to come back....
I’ve sent her over 50 apology SMS I’ve called her line over a 30 times but she’s not willing to take my calls.

When I call with an unknown number and she hears my voice she will drop the call.
She doesn’t wana even talk to me.


The whole house looks empty without her I just can’t forgive myself for loosing the best gift God gave me. Now I feel so downcasted...

Brothers and Sisters please I need your candid advice. Your Free to Insult me

Am writing this because I’ve not been able to sleep. I can’t Forgive my self. I truly Love her.

Mods please move to front page.

My advice to you is let her go....its hard, but it is what it is.
The more you beg, the more you make her stronger. You can't force love.

opportunity for you yo brush new holes,lol, but the truth is that she never loved you, a good and loving girl will fight for what is hers she going to your phone means she have been looking for an excuse to leave.

Bros, let her go for your life....

Is she feeding you?

I think you should give her some time... But you messed up big time sha.

You must let her go. You cant force a woman to love. You will be suprise when you find love again.

You can cry if you want but the best thing is to let her go. she definitely wouldn't stick to you through the thick and thin of marriage. consider this a lesson though...

Thanks Guys

I know I messed up


Many Thanks for the undiluted advice.

You want to depress yourself because of your fiancée who will board the next available flight if reverse was the case . If she nor accept your plead then move on na . You mess up though but don't behave like the weak type abeg you. Do you know what she was equally doing unaware to you , you just happened to get caught .

I think u should be the person to be angry. Anyway that is love for you, just let her go. Your own wife await u